Bitter to Better

Bitter to Better



Tracie Pinnock is a Marriage & Family Therapist and Dating Coach for women. She uses both personal and professional experience to share thoughts and advice that help women thrive after breakups, separations and divorces and provides guidance for dating better the next time around.


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Ep. 46: Benefits of Taking A Dating Break - S1E46

In this episode , I share why the holiday and cold-weather season can be the perfect time to take an intentional break from dating. While I always encourage consistency and showing up for your goals, I’m just as committed to honoring self-care—and sometimes that looks like pausing to recalibrate. I walk you through how to check in with your needs,…

In this episode , I share why the holiday and cold-weather season can be the perfect time to take an…

01 December 2025 | 00:13:40


Ep. 45: Preparing to Date in the Winter/During the Holidays as a Mom - S1E45

In this episode of the Better to Better podcast, I dive into how moms can prepare to date during the winter and holiday season. I cover practical ways to stay “date ready,” including curating a five-outfit cold-weather rotation, adjusting hair and makeup palettes, and lining up go-to indoor venues so you’re never scrambling for plans. I also share…

In this episode of the Better to Better podcast, I dive into how moms can prepare to date during the…

24 November 2025 | 00:15:18


Ep. 44: Send It To The Group Chat: Mom Moments w/ Kim Forte Part 2 - S1E44

In part two of Mom Moments with Kim Forte, we pick up right where we left off—navigating the hilarious, messy, and meaningful realities of parenting tweens in a digital age. Kim and I unpack “the Bronx Zoo incident,” where a spring field trip, permissive device policies, and very active animals collided, sparking a rapid-fire group chat saga and an…

In part two of Mom Moments with Kim Forte, we pick up right where we left off—navigating the…

19 November 2025 | 01:03:11


Ep. 43: Read the Room, Kid: Mom Moments w/ Kim Forte Part 1 - S1E43

In this Mom Moments episode of Bitter to Better, I sit down with my dear friend Kim Forte—mom, mediator-in-training, longtime attorney, and all-around truth-teller—for a wide-ranging, honest conversation about the highs and lows of parenting and partnership. We celebrate a community win from a small-but-mighty Election Day bake sale that far…

In this Mom Moments episode of Bitter to Better, I sit down with my dear friend Kim Forte—mom,…

17 November 2025 | 01:12:01 | Explicit


Ep. 42: Breakup Healing Buckets - S1E42

In this episode of Bitter to Better, I break down my framework for healing after a breakup using four “buckets”: distractions, peace, joy, and processing. I explain why grief from a breakup mirrors other significant losses and how each bucket offers tools to help you function, soothe your nervous system, reconnect with joy, and do the deeper…

In this episode of Bitter to Better, I break down my framework for healing after a breakup using…

10 November 2025 | 00:22:13


Ep. 41: Don't Forget to Live A Full Life - S1E41

In this episode of Better to Better, I share why living a full life is an essential foundation for dating, healing from breakups, and managing stress. I walk you through starting with the dream—vision boards, journaling, and visualizations—to define what a full life looks and feels like for you in the next year to five years. I offer practical…

In this episode of Better to Better, I share why living a full life is an essential foundation for…

03 November 2025 | 00:19:43


Ep. 40: Managing Post-Breakup Impulses - S1E40

In this breakup recovery episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I dive into managing post-breakup impulses—the sudden urges to text your ex, check their socials, vent online, or act out of anger or grief. I walk through practical ways to reduce triggers you can control (like strict no-contact or limited, business-only communication when kids or…

In this breakup recovery episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I dive into managing post-breakup…

27 October 2025 | 00:16:45


Ep. 39: The Risks of a Shallow Dating Pool - S1E39

In this episode, I break down the risks of dating in a shallow dating pool—where you primarily connect with men you already know through friends, work, school, or your kids’ activities. I explain why this can feel convenient and safe (pre-vetting, familiarity, reputation), but also how it keeps many women stuck: more people in your business, higher…

In this episode, I break down the risks of dating in a shallow dating pool—where you primarily…

20 October 2025 | 00:12:06


Ep. 38: What You Don't Get To Avoid When Dating - S1E38

In this candid, on-the-road episode, I share a real-time check-in from sunny Phoenix and dive into the realities of dating—the parts you simply can’t avoid if you want healthy companionship. Drawing from my work with women and my own experiences, I outline the core truths of the dating process: you have to engage with strangers, you will encounter…

In this candid, on-the-road episode, I share a real-time check-in from sunny Phoenix and dive into…

14 October 2025 | 00:23:02 | Explicit


Ep. 37: Mom Friends Update - S1E37

In today’s wonderfully real and slightly chaotic episode, I share an update on the “mom friends” journey I first talked about back in episode two—recording between kid cameos, dog breathing, and a rogue fungus gnat. Four years into my new town, these friendships with other moms have blossomed into a supportive, reciprocal network that enriches my…

In today’s wonderfully real and slightly chaotic episode, I share an update on the “mom friends”…

06 October 2025 | 00:16:11