Juan's back baby ..... and with a baby!!!
In Episode #387 of 'Musings', Juan & I discuss: the big reveal of his daughter's name, how he has been managing to sleep and train better than expected, the big expenses of prams and nappies, feeling the weight of the world on your shoulders, exhaustion in hospitals, the love you feel as a father and what's upcoming for the podcast.
Huge support from Dave Jones, Chad F, Madaltv, Scott, Chris Fisher & Martin (from PodFriend). Your sats are greatly appreciated!
Timeline:
(0:00) - Juan's been busy
(0:49) - Not so little baby
(2:15) - Juan's sleep
(6:02) - Training
(10:52) - How much does a baby cost in 2023?
(17:22) - Vienna's sleep
(19:57) - Boostagram Lounge
(33:16) - Responsibility
(37:17) - The delivery process
(44:56) - The love for your child
(47:27) - Modern childbirth vs the past
(53:58) - Housekeeping
(58:30) - AI clips
(1:01:33) - V4V: Send in a bebe boost!
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We all can be more than
welcome back Mere Mortalites
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to another edition of Musings.
Yes, you are.
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Do not adjust your headsets
or the video
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that you're watching right now.
It is Juan back once again
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into the mere mortal fold.
It is the 17th of May 2023,
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and we've got musings.
So I look Kyrin’s
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been holding down the fort
for a little while ago.
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On the other end.
Yeah. Yeah. In here, definitely.
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I still here?
Definitely still here. He's been.
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He's been powering
along with the main models
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now for the last couple of weeks
while I've been away.
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And I was going to say,
you know, canceling out.
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Not really.
It hasn't been so much
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as you'd imagine.
However, that been some
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things has been pretty cool.
So I wanted to
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for today's musings, really just
start talking about
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the realities of becoming a dad.
Obviously make sense.
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Just became a dad or 5th of May.
So that's been 12 days now
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since, you know,
I transitioned from being yeah,
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normal Papa, Daddy want
to, you know, bona fide
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dad here in the memorial's.
We got a little more
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and more ladies joined us.
I was little man. She wasn't.
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She wasn't so little.
Well, she exactly.
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She wasn't so little.
And we knew that she was.
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And we want her name as well.
One, everyone's
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clamoring, clamoring
out for a name which I to
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I got to call it outside Vienna
VA. And now so
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yes she when she was born,
we we had an idea that she was
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sizable kind of
but in and came out like chunky
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look she came out
I would have imagined
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like a little bit of quads,
you know, a little bit of arms
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going to her for those on
the imperial system,
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just shy of £9, you know,
and pretty long as well.
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So, so big girl, just baby girl
right now
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I look I'll get into some
some of the detail
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into that today.
So when I was thinking about
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you know
this might not be a super
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long musings,
but I wanted to kind of share
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some of the reality
of becoming a dad,
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especially my expectations
versus what it is now.
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So, I mean,
that's going to be a key thing.
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And from your side,
I was probably thinking,
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you know,
I've got a couple go ahead
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and ask the questions as well.
Yeah, anything that we want
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as well, like five three. So
let me
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get started on the biggest one
that was going to be on my mind,
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right? Sleeping. Sleeping.
So I'll let you actually think
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this through.
What do you think my sleep has
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looked like this month?
So the month of May and again,
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baby was born on the 5th of May.
So there was obviously a
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precursor to things before that.
Would you have seen that
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my sleep is getting worse?
Better about the same.
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If you look at the numbers,
I do have some numbers,
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but off top of my head
I would have said
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you're probably getting less
and it's more interrupted.
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But it could be
one of those ones where it's
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it's also not impacting you
as much as perhaps it's
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impacting your partner
because she
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she does want us to kind of
get up and feed the baby
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and whatnot.
So I would have said a lessened,
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but maybe not not crazy
crazy much sun but I mean 12 days
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that it's a good cool
look my expectation was
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I already for the mere mortals
that I'm probably not
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I don't sleep all that often
like I don't sleep that much
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and I was like he sleeps more
kind of me currently.
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Yet in generality, dude,
I've been sleeping more. Okay.
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I've been sleeping more
since the baby's been here
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than otherwise.
Now some numbers for you.
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Previous month
or the month before. On average,
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I was sleeping about 6 hours
and 50 minutes, 6 hours,
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55 minutes over those months.
But time in bed was around seven
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and a half hours. Now, roughly,
it's time in bed
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is 8 hours and 15 minutes.
So I'm in bed
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for 45 more minutes,
but I'm sleeping for about 7
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hours and 5 minutes on average.
So you can technically say
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I'm sleeping more on average,
but it is at the offset.
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AT yes, I am having way
more broken sleep.
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And I'll give you
I'll give you a little story.
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So first of all, this is my
first learning to sleep routine.
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Routine in general,
so goddamn important.
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So we've had
ever since we sort of like
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came back from the hospital
every single day.
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It was been pretty good.
From a nighttime perspective.
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Sleeping has been kind of, well,
a slight routine.
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But one day Saturday,
to be precise,
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we just didn't do the routine
that we were normally
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going to do. Right. We didn't do
particular not be time,
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we didn't do tummy time,
we didn't do bath
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in a particular order.
We just thought, cool, whatever.
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That particular
night I end up staying up till.
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So I kind of got a little bit
of sleep before 10 p.m.
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and then up until two
in the morning with her
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until she was like Peters
self out of energy
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and actually got herself to bed.
So the biggest piece there
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for me learning was, okay, Matt,
it is so super important
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for a sleep routine,
especially with a baby
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especially,
but I'm actually not too
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dissatisfied with my sleeping.
Yeah. So, you know, overall
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I was kind of like
is just because
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you're not working as well.
So you kind of getting Napster
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in the well here.
So here's the other one, right?
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So with the I thought the two
I thought I'll have to have,
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you know, the naps.
And, you know,
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they always say sleep
when when the baby's sleeping.
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I don't think this is true.
In general, if they're sleeping
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pretty badly at night.
But Saturday that, you know,
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she slept terribly. I wasn't good
the next day. Right.
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I like slept in quite a bit.
But to your point about work,
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I've actually started
working already this week,
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so not full time.
So I'm still working part time
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and I'm working
basically seven in the morning
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till midday right from home.
So it's quite easy to do,
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but it hasn't so much been
affecting it that way.
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And even so, he is he is
the next little piece training.
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If I had to sort of set myself,
what's the expectation of my
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training and becoming a dad
Now again, let me lay
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the foundation for people
I love train.
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I was training like an hour
and a half. I was saying to you,
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I'm trying to train like an hour
and a half to 2 hours, like daily
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before baby was coming,
I was doing six days a week
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and it was really enjoyable.
And I put myself
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I even write on my monthly goals
for my training.
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I'm clear it was blank.
That was like, I'm not following
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any training routine. I'm just
I have no idea what to expect.
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My expectation here is I'm
probably not going to train
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for three weeks.
Maybe I'll get a run in.
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Who knows? You don't know
what you're going to expect.
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But once again, man,
you know, today
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it's been three days in a row
at the gym and again,
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going at 430 in the morning
until about seven
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in the morning, starts
getting up again,
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was already going to the gym,
coming back home.
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So once again, even that routine
and only and only
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if the sleep routine
with the baby is done
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correctly the night before
does a follow along kind
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of nicely into the next day,
because she'll generally sleep
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for me at the very least kind of.
She'll wake up to am,
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she'll wake up at 430 or 5 a.m.
and then she'll sleep
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all the way to like 7:38 a.m..
So for me,
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I kind of get up at that time,
go to work out, come back in
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and support the family.
So that that was also,
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I think, the two biggest
shockers for me
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that I genuinely thought
it was going to be like,
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Well, I'm it's not going to be
the same for a while.
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Yeah. Are you feeling weaker?
So I saw something about
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I think it was a small snippet
from entry camp.
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Been about how expectant dads
and maybe
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even just afterwards as well.
I have like
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50% less testosterone than
before or afterwards.
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Before It was definitely before
and maybe afterwards. So before.
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And I think I mentioned to you
this in passing,
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but I basically didn't tell you.
So I'll I'll fill in the
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the details here for the
for the mere mortals at home.
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The me immortalize is
I did a powerlifting competition
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basically
two days before baby was born.
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So and that came out of someone
sending me
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through a message on Instagram.
No like hey I want to do this Roy
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competition for
is essentially just a max bench
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max squat, Max deadlift.
And I was basically like,
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Oh, you know,
that's pretty interesting.
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He seemed like a pretty fun
character.
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I've met him a couple of times
before. I said, Yeah,
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why not want to do it?
I was off work at that time
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and I took a partner
with me to the gym to be like,
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Oh, okay, cool, let's do it.
She actually thought
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she was getting like
potential baby delivery feelings
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in the morning,
but we're like, Oh,
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we might not be able to make it.
In any case, I was able to go,
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but you know, long story short,
I was able to
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do not my full max bench.
So I think I hit 155,
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but I was able
to do a really heavy squat,
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heavy deadlift
for the current time.
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So no, not really. Like strength
actually kept quite nicely
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and even the training.
Now look, no,
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I haven't hit any like super
heavy things at the moment.
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But here's
actually an interesting point.
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You know how I was training
quite hard to increase my fitness
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while I was doing the hard work.
Pays off
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Matt Frazier up and I could see
what I'd previously done day
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for like a month and a half ago,
and I just restarted it again.
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So I thought I might as well
just restart,
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just kind of like re baseline
myself with it whenever I can.
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And I've gone and done
a particular workout
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that I did about a month
and a half ago, a minute so far.
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So I like
and it's an overall ten,
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12 minute domain,
so about 10% better.
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So I was like, Damn, this is
actually quite good, I will say.
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So this is the caveat.
You know, people at home,
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I'd be like, Hey,
oh, this is not so bad.
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Like, you know,
this just must feels easy.
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I will say we have been
unbelievably blessed that she's
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actually a good sleeper,
a good fighter, a good
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like everything, you know,
families,
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healthy feedings, healthy,
you know, the breastfeeding
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come easy. A lot of these things,
which are the key points
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when that goes wrong,
then you're in for some pain
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that hasn't happened for us.
So, you know, take the caveat,
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take a little grain of salt
that I'm saying all of this
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in the full knowledge that it's
not it's probably better than
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than the average expectations,
but it hasn't changed.
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So, you know, those two key ones
I want to talk about sleep and
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and training. I was
those are the two that
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I was really concerned about.
I was concerned, hey,
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these are going to go down
and they're going to go down
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to the point
that I'm going to be annoyed,
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frustrated, you know, maybe
even like really disheartened
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by what's going on,
because I'm not able to get
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the right sleep or inversely
get the right training
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back and forth sort of thing.
MM Yeah. Interesting.
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I was going to ask about the,
the cost as well.
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So like the realities of,
of living in 2023, the modern
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maybe like it was,
it was something
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I was thinking about recently,
it was like, you know why
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I could get
knowledge of what it is like
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to be a first time dad anywhere
in the world, basically,
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in that there's so much content
of podcasts of I'm
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starting to see you
using our YouTube channel.
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So book time is starting to pop
up for me and I see it in the
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the black and white videos
coming up at all. No,
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I haven't seen them. Okay.
So here's
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one for the people at home.
I'll actually recently learned
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about this
a few months ago from Tofte
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for his baby.
And basically it's that,
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you know, babies
up until six weeks,
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eight weeks or ten weeks
roughly around
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that they don't really see the
world as the world that we see.
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It's quite blurry.
But what they see really
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well is contrasting like really
highly contrasted colors.
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So black and white for them,
they can determine the shapes.
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So if you want to do this now,
people at home you'd go find
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I just type in black and white
baby on YouTube.
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And what you get is these short
two long videos
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with some music overlaid will
just be shapes and circles.
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And honestly,
it would be like psychedelic.
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I think if you only get like
a psychedelic
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or something and watch it, it's
basically that.
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But for the babies
and you can actually see her
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eyes like pinpoint
where things move
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and stuff like that.
So that's pretty cool.
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So anyways, yeah,
you start to see
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a lot of more of baby things
but to the realities of cost.
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Yeah. Yeah.
How much does the baby cost in
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2023. What, what do you look
expectations
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both beforehand and afterwards.
No. Okay.
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So look I'll keep the things
away of like
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furniture in that because
the furniture you can kind of
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Oh oh that's so,
you know, precursory furniture.
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Yeah. Baby.
Specific like a bassinet
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changing table, you know, we,
we may do
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with a pretty cheap stuff
around that sort of furniture,
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but honestly, you're
probably going to need at least
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a couple of hundred dollars
when it comes to bassinet,
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especially like a safe bassinet
and your furniture pieces
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where they really get you well,
it really gets you
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the costs were really gets
you know, he also needs
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I guess you need a bath you know
you need a little bath for them.
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Yeah.
You can put them in a bucket.
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I said, you know, prams I've had
prams are really expensive.
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How much you reckon
we paid for our pram?
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I'll share with me more like 200
because we went a little bit
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more expensive. Oh, jeez.
I want to say reasonably like
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200 bucks or something.
Dude, dude, you're not.
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No, not like that's like
people are home now.
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Again, this is across the world.
I'm saying the Australian
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dollars I went in, I went in
as a just absolutely blissful,
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like a couple of wheels
of wheels and some
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I thought a couple of wheels,
you know, came on
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just get the thing that $700 down
700 is how much we paid and they
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it was like below $1,000.
It was slim pickings at best.
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Then the when sort of upwards
now, yes, you can get cheaper
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loans. You can.
But honestly the lower cost ones
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are so flimsy and probably
not even like useful, honestly.
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Plus, you know,
you get into those conversations
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around, you know, for a newborn,
it has to be completely flat.
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Then do you want to go
and buy a new pram
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in a year's time
where they're going
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to go on a certain angle?
So there's those complexities
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as well. Same thing
with a baby chip for the car
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that's again 400 and something
dollars and you can again,
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do you want to just be an infant?
Do you want to be 002
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for four years, 0 to 8 years?
You can have to mix up like,
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how long do you want this thing?
So, okay,
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so that's another big cost.
But honestly,
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I thought that that was going
to be probably the biggest.
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The reality is
I think the biggest cost it
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nappies I was yes just about I'm
going to I'm going to combine
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this with flexibility rocks
is another point I write down
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in in becoming a dad.
One of the things I've noticed
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is that, hey,
you better believe you're going
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to have to be flexible
to change the nappies of your
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baby and the parents at home.
They'll they'll get this.
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But for non-parents,
you'll be like, Wait, what?
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Basically on the daily
until a certain point in time
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you have to know
how many weeks and poos
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your baby does every single day.
And you need to keep
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track of that.
You need to keep track of that.
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Now in that we've sort of noticed
that probably like so now, right.
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How many diapers
would you think a baby would go
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through on daily?
Now on a newborn out of newborn,
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you'd imagine. No. Which newborn?
Yeah, a newborn. I'd maybe
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guess like six or something.
Do it again.
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I would have expected six.
That's gone on.
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I mean, we got given
two nappy bags that total
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up to 104 nappies gone
before the first ten days gone.
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Right. That that cost of nappies
or you know, if you want to get
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on the path of reusable nappies
washing everything else,
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you can do that too.
Yeah that costs is going
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to add up quick for people.
And you know, I think it's,
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you know, 20 $30 will not be bag
probably last year a week
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if that. So you're thinking
just like that additional costs.
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Yeah it's
going to be a normal covering
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it's a lot so it's a lot
so that and I mean again
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thankfully
breastfeeding is going really
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well but if you if you went
that wasn't the case
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then definitely formula
would be just an arm and a leg.
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And it used to be sorry,
expensive in Australia
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because everyone was trying
to buy it
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from for overseas and the like
while China was buying it
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from here. The Chinese trying to
was trying to buy
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while Chinese individuals
were buying in,
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some sending it over
or sending it direct.
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And then there was limitations
on how much
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you can actually purchase here.
Now I know if
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that's still the limitation
kind has come down, but again,
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that cost hasn't been.
But besides that,
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it hasn't been knit
well, probably as a family
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saving money
because we're not going out
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anyway. Right.
They'll think the right. Yeah.
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You know, I was actually looking
through the credit card statement
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and that and honestly,
we've probably been spending
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50%, 60% less
because it we're not out,
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we're not at restaurants,
we're not a dinners,
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we're not going out the place,
not buying coffee out.
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I'm cooking all my meals
and freezing all my meals,
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all eating at home.
It's fairly straightforward.
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Yeah.
You know, driving in that way,
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you don't using any fuel.
So, you know, net now
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they're saving a bit of money
because a lot of those
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a lot of capital
that came in the beginning
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I don't know is offset by that.
Wow that's that's funny. That's a
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that's a positive spin on it
that I haven't thought of. Yeah.
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One of the other things
I was going to say was
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I was asking my dad about,
you know, just the first time
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birth and whatnot.
So I was the first one
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and he was saying I was actually
like a really great child.
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And I think about by 12 weeks
I was sleeping
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through the whole night. And so,
you know, it is it's
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the the horror stories that
I have just heard in general.
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And this is just, you know,
offhand comments
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from just society and lodge.
This is terrible twos
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and the just say goodbye
to four five years of of life
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because that's all
I just really don't think it's
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like that man and look again
I'm just saying you know
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it might not be the reality,
but I'll give you an example,
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like a real example.
If you were looking at the video,
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you can check this out
and I can talk through it.
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But this is a little app
and I don't know
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if you can see that clearly here.
If I've seen an angle,
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this is just the the bassinet
that we use for her sleep.
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Now, that's the nighttime
patterns.
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So what you see in that sunshine
car right now
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is kind of a U-shaped view.
Absolutely.
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Kind of gives us an idea of
the amount of sleep
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that the baby gets.
Now, it's obviously just the time
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that they're in bed,
not how much they're asleep.
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But if you look at the blue
that I'm showing you right now,
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those are the big chunks of sleep
that that she goes
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through. Right.
And so if I was to read it out,
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you know,
we put it to bed at 857,
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she kind of got up at 930,
sorry, like nine, ten,
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went back to sleep at 930
all the way till two
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in the morning, said till 230.
Slept all the way to 5
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a.m.. Right.
So you know, for me right
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now, more or less
I wake up like two
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or three times anyways
through my sleep
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regardless. Right. Like I kind of
that's already me.
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I'm not sleeping
all the way through.
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So, you know, for me it hasn't
be so much of a difference.
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And I guess I'm.
Yeah, knock on wood.
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That's continues to be the case.
Might not be as it goes to,
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but that's probably something
I'll keep sharing through
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the podcast as well
if things changes.
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But at least from
my expectations about that,
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it's been pretty not what?
No. Wildly different.
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Not, not like it's
just been perfect,
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but it has been a lot better
than what I expected it to be.
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Nice. Nice.
What do you say we get on to the
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booster gremlins
and then we do some
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like psychological realities,
some of the the mental stuff
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that that's changed
that we can do that
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plus for people at home on you
to stick around
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because I'm going to be talking
a little bit as well about the
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the delivery and the expectation
this the realities of it as well,
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because this is the first time,
one I have been
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speaking since the
turn of the year, and
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it has has graced our our world.
So, yeah, our shores.
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Lots of cool stuff. All right.
Very good.
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Well, let's do the memorials
Booster grim.
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Let's let me just start off
with one thing. So I don't know
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if you've had time
to check into the last musings,
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but the we had a really, really,
really awesome week last one.
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Sorry night. So I digress.
Yes, I did relisten to that
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big portion
that you took through of
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all the sets
that did came through.
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And I'm basically I'm yeah,
a lot of stuff came in
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and I unfortunately
have to do to make goods
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because I missed them.
So that was one from here we go.
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So there was one from Dave
Jones and Self and he sent in
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and now once again this is,
is kind of hard because
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I'm getting like the 10th of it.
So I think he sent it
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in about 5000 sets and he said,
Thanks for the interview, Karen,
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and congrats to one and two.
Thank you. Dave.
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Yeah, sent sent one a little
congrats on the actual thing.
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It was as well.
And then there was
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one I think from Adam
Curry Self, which
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I can't remember if I did this
big massive one, the 77,700.
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So I did do that one.
So that was one from
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Chad if I heard my name.
So I had to boost
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maybe it was that one.
So that was one, two, three,
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four sets with pod verse.
Once again, I think
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I've kind of got this wrong.
So I was probably about 12,000.
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But yeah, yeah.
A couple of make goods there.
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Yeah, it was Chad
I did forget to do his apologies
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for, for those two.
It was, it was a big
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it was a big week last week
and I do I did hear that
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you were very appreciative
and it does help
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when you get weeks
like that. Yeah.
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Especially when you're doing it
on your own as well. Right.
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Like, well, it fills the content
and it's good you like, Oh,
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this zap came through
at a good time for sure. Yeah.
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So let me start from here.
I've got a couple from
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so I may 12 onwards we've got one
from ourselves car.
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And so this is, well,
this message well this message
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make it to the diary stream
telegram and just got bottled
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fire on the next musings
which it did on northern states
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I'm I'm sad that it. Well yeah
it seems annoying
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that some of these things
are not coming through.
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I think I've been chatting
I've been chatting with them.
439
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:07,240
Some other people in the
Telegram chat
440
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:11,240
were also saying the same thing.
So yeah, hopefully, hopefully
441
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:14,440
that has been fixed, but
it's been
442
00:22:12,559 --> 00:22:16,319
fixed many times in the past.
So many times before.
443
00:22:16,319 --> 00:22:21,640
We've got one from Mad alt V,
thanks 100% using fountain.
444
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,000
Brilliant, brilliant.
Thank you very much.
445
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:30,480
We're going from Scott 1234 SATs
and using Perverse so he says
446
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:31,319
congrats on learning coding.
You are correct.
447
00:22:31,319 --> 00:22:34,079
Lots of people learn a new
programing language in a week.
448
00:22:34,079 --> 00:22:37,440
I've done it several times.
I love your analysis though
449
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,400
I do feel like sometimes
we use programing languages
450
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,759
to communicate with other humans.
We've had algorithms
451
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,559
that didn't make sense
until the other person showed me
452
00:22:42,759 --> 00:22:47,559
the code
does kind of like visualize
453
00:22:44,559 --> 00:22:50,440
for spoken explanation.
Well, I appreciate it.
454
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,519
Thank you so much. Man.
I can't say I've learned coding.
455
00:22:53,519 --> 00:22:55,400
I, I tried learning it
and gave up.
456
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,680
That was that was basically
the UK of that whole thing.
457
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,480
You know how I said to you
in the past I've said, like,
458
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,480
you know, I can kind of I could
I know that I can read code
459
00:23:04,559 --> 00:23:06,440
the particular code,
but I can kind of understand it
460
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,079
and have some conversations
with people.
461
00:23:08,079 --> 00:23:09,839
And look, that might be true
to some regard.
462
00:23:09,839 --> 00:23:11,240
But then when I was reading
this about, you know,
463
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,279
learning coding,
I don't know if you've listened
464
00:23:14,279 --> 00:23:17,839
to the conversation between Lex
Freedman and Wolfram.
465
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,480
Yeah, so great.
So that's Stephen Wolfram.
466
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,160
I am about midway through it
at the moment.
467
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,559
The latest one. Yeah. Yeah.
Like the one that came out
468
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:30,799
seven days ago.
And honestly, dude,
469
00:23:27,559 --> 00:23:33,279
it's like I'm a child, I'm,
I'm listening and relistening
470
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:35,599
and going like,
I thought I understood
471
00:23:33,279 --> 00:23:37,839
what they were talking about
and just certain things
472
00:23:35,599 --> 00:23:40,119
just fly of me.
I kind of think about it
473
00:23:37,839 --> 00:23:42,720
in this way of,
you know, when you say
474
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:44,039
like learning coding or,
you know, coding,
475
00:23:44,039 --> 00:23:47,279
like, you know it
to a certain standard, just like
476
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,400
I know to a certain extent
until that saying it changes
477
00:23:47,279 --> 00:23:52,400
completely or you're
talking about something else
478
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:54,240
and it's like, Whoa, yeah, I'm
not understanding
479
00:23:52,559 --> 00:23:57,279
what's going on.
Yeah, yeah, I can't,
480
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:59,079
I can't take any,
I can't take the compliment.
481
00:23:59,079 --> 00:24:02,039
It's a, it's my, my,
my bad habit kicks in again.
482
00:24:02,039 --> 00:24:05,559
But yeah, I appreciate it.
We will text books again.
483
00:24:05,559 --> 00:24:07,039
We will take the biscuits
and the cigaret,
484
00:24:07,039 --> 00:24:09,839
especially because it was from
verse and it was kind of that,
485
00:24:09,839 --> 00:24:15,400
you know, just from Scott.
I don't know who's got us. Do
486
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,680
you know who's got us to that?
No, I don't know.
487
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:21,680
So that was really cool.
Just, just getting in
488
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:24,680
like a, a message from someone
who has some kind of an answer
489
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,920
that presents before.
Or at least you reckon
490
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,960
this would have been
from the book review.
491
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,680
Now, I can tell you it was.
No, I can't tell you.
492
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,759
No, it wouldn't be.
The book reviews
493
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,759
these don't come into the.
Yeah. Yeah.
494
00:24:34,759 --> 00:24:37,319
So it would have been from the,
the chat with Dave
495
00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:39,880
because I did speak about coding
and whatnot though.
496
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,880
So there are a couple
that did get
497
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,640
well I've got, I've got one more
one more that came in today
498
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,400
from Martin and he's let's test
the screen with a symbol
499
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,119
and he put two little Rocket's
rocket ships in it
500
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,519
That's 500 south
using Portland. Yes.
501
00:24:55,519 --> 00:24:58,319
So the cool thing and
he's been doing a lot of like
502
00:24:59,279 --> 00:25:03,200
it's funny. So I reached out to
for the depths
503
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:09,599
of who I use their actual
that their products so this is
504
00:25:09,599 --> 00:25:12,440
this is Mitch Downey
with pod verse this is Stephen
505
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:18,119
B with Kerry Acosta.
This is, I suppose Fountain
506
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:21,559
So him all the time, Oscar, Mary
and then also Martin
507
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:23,880
from Pod Friend.
And you know, he was
508
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,039
he was saying like, oh yeah, it's
so awesome getting these booster
509
00:25:25,559 --> 00:25:31,079
cramps coming in.
And really it's kind of like
510
00:25:28,039 --> 00:25:31,960
it feels like the kind of meant
for me now as well.
511
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,960
And they are but this season
1% in the split but
512
00:25:36,039 --> 00:25:41,480
you know he's already sent in
probably more than he'll
513
00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:43,039
get from us in I don't know,
two months or three months,
514
00:25:43,039 --> 00:25:45,440
just just with us
being the new testing food.
515
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,279
So it's one of those things
where it's like, you know,
516
00:25:47,279 --> 00:25:50,000
if you're just kind to people
that that typically kind back.
517
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:55,200
So absolutely. And you know, like
unannounced kindness so I didn't
518
00:25:56,079 --> 00:25:58,640
ask for anything from
any of them was just like, hey,
519
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,759
I just want to put you
in the splits. That'd be
520
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,440
that'd be cool. So yeah, thanks.
Thanks to him. So hopefully Will
521
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,519
will be his standard
test grade from now on. Kid.
522
00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:09,880
Yeah. Okay. So there's a
couple here
523
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,039
that I can go through which
didn't come through the app.
524
00:26:13,039 --> 00:26:17,880
So I don't know if I talk about
this one, but no, I didn't.
525
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,160
So you'll,
you'll be glad to hear this one.
526
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:25,559
So 2222 and this is from
a random person using cosmetics.
527
00:26:25,559 --> 00:26:28,559
I can't actually see the name.
It was anonymous. And they said,
528
00:26:28,559 --> 00:26:31,079
Look, Dave, I'm glad to hear
you're going to build the X
529
00:26:31,079 --> 00:26:33,000
border That includes value box.
At some point.
530
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,720
I'm going to want that too.
So Dave, being prescient as usual
531
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,480
and saying if one person wants
it, other people will want it.
532
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,480
So yeah, that's
that is something that
533
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,240
I, I hopefully will need
in the near future as well.
534
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,680
And it was,
it was just once again
535
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,680
like one of those ones
where I was like, I assumed,
536
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,000
okay, he's
getting these, the stuff
537
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:57,720
that's coming from Fountain
and he's just
538
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,799
reconstructing the feed
and then that feed
539
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:02,160
goes out to everyone.
But no, it's, it's
540
00:26:59,799 --> 00:27:06,000
kind of all in the database.
It really just kind of showed
541
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:10,160
how little I know
about databases and, and what,
542
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:14,839
how they actually work,
what stuff that you'd think
543
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:18,720
would just be a natural fit.
Oh, it's that he would just get
544
00:27:14,839 --> 00:27:21,000
that data, reconstruct
an RSS feed
545
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,599
and you know that would go
but man,
546
00:27:21,599 --> 00:27:25,119
that would probably be a whole
ton of work to do that day.
547
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,839
So yeah, it's all these like
hidden things in the back room.
548
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:35,880
7777 sets from none
other than Peter he exists is
549
00:27:32,039 --> 00:27:37,359
Oh no, I did see this.
I did see through
550
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,799
I didn't see it at the time,
but I saw it come through.
551
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:41,799
It would have been Legos
on Fountain.
552
00:27:41,799 --> 00:27:44,000
Yeah, it could have been that.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
553
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,799
And he says Dave Part pod, bro.
Jones keeping it real
554
00:27:46,799 --> 00:27:51,200
and then a, a double
little double motif exists. Yeah.
555
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,319
So he actually saw this
discord message.
556
00:27:53,319 --> 00:27:58,799
I sent him a fair while ago.
He responded to that
557
00:27:55,319 --> 00:28:01,200
and was just like, Yeah, no,
you know, nothing.
558
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:04,920
Nothing in particular.
He was just tired of NFT talk
559
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:08,839
and any NFT talk. And I was like,
Yeah, well, I guess we actually
560
00:28:05,279 --> 00:28:10,680
have had some in there, so
but not really,
561
00:28:09,279 --> 00:28:14,960
really appreciate it.
Peter And also I appreciated
562
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:18,240
that he's, he's not to his you
can catch up to him still he's
563
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,680
he's left that gap there
so it's not it's not still
564
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:23,400
Yeah he still left it
available for people
565
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,000
if they want to jump in. Yeah.
If you want to send through
566
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,759
3,000,003 million
that's just straight in.
567
00:28:26,759 --> 00:28:29,480
If you'd like to try to catch up.
If you're fresh, feel free
568
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:33,519
to do so. Yeah. Brilliant.
I think you got the absurd
569
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,480
one there.
You missed your own one, Dave.
570
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,839
Good to see the main man back
on. Thanks for this chat.
571
00:28:37,839 --> 00:28:41,680
Another other than 1g1g
in the in the house.
572
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,559
So that was you?
I didn't even know
573
00:28:44,559 --> 00:28:47,559
you changed your name to that,
so that was pretty cool.
574
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,880
One here from Chris
last another big one,
575
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:56,720
the 77,777 says
Just a great Chinese
576
00:28:56,839 --> 00:29:01,000
conversation made me love
Dave even more. This was a great
577
00:28:59,079 --> 00:29:03,119
listen while Brant and I
were driving around
578
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,559
and there's been some bump
and good stuff
579
00:29:03,119 --> 00:29:06,480
coming through in the boot.
Trans fat.
580
00:29:04,559 --> 00:29:08,440
Yeah, and really, really cool.
So wow, I've reached out to
581
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:12,000
Chris. We've got a conversation
lined up for hopefully the 25th
582
00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:16,920
and I'll have 24 May 25th.
May Yes, correct.
583
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,559
And I'll have to ask him
about getting him a shirt,
584
00:29:19,559 --> 00:29:22,960
so I would like to
get one to him. But he wasn't
585
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,920
he didn't immediately jump on it
when I reached out
586
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,920
the first time.
So I'll just be sure to do it
587
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:32,119
in person. I can confirm that
another Miyamoto shirt is out in
588
00:29:32,119 --> 00:29:36,359
the wild today.
I have posted one going to Adam,
589
00:29:36,559 --> 00:29:41,559
so I got him to Adam
Curry speaking. Yeah.
590
00:29:41,559 --> 00:29:45,200
And then finally
as I was trying to post it,
591
00:29:42,799 --> 00:29:48,640
so he gave me a P.O.
box as far as where to send it
592
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:52,519
to. And I didn't make a scene
or anything at the post office,
593
00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:56,079
but I gave them this, you know,
fill in all these details,
594
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,400
all of my details,
all of his details that I know.
595
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:06,000
And then they get it
and they go, Oh, I don't know
596
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:09,559
if we can send to a P.O. box.
And this is just like I'm
597
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:12,279
sending from a post office
to another post office.
598
00:30:09,559 --> 00:30:14,720
Isn't this what you do? Oh, you
come on. That can't. You can't.
599
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,839
This is not how post offices
work. No, obviously. No.
600
00:30:17,839 --> 00:30:21,480
So. So that one is a to be seen
if it'll get delivered or not.
601
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,559
Okay. So it's in transit. Adam,
if you're listening to this,
602
00:30:24,559 --> 00:30:29,160
I really hope you actually get
that damn shirt. Yeah, Let's hope
603
00:30:27,119 --> 00:30:31,200
the Australian Post works well.
Yeah, I should like for sure.
604
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,279
Now, this one, I'm not.
I'm not sure if it's a booster
605
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:36,759
gram or not. It's.
It's only $0.10. So I mean $0.10
606
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:40,519
is very much appreciate it.
But it was just says thanks
607
00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:43,960
and it was from at mad
and mad out V
608
00:30:44,079 --> 00:30:48,920
sent using fountain.
So I think that might be one of
609
00:30:46,079 --> 00:30:50,279
those comments where it's like
I don't know what it is
610
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,200
a comment, but it's not a boost
something something like that.
611
00:30:52,200 --> 00:31:00,319
But yeah, definitely
some some stuff coming in. I also
612
00:30:56,799 --> 00:31:02,599
had something to talk about.
Yeah,
613
00:31:01,319 --> 00:31:05,039
those, those were the big ones.
Oh, one of the things
614
00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:08,000
I was going to say is we've met.
We've never actually really used
615
00:31:05,039 --> 00:31:10,799
the numerology a lot.
Part of that is because we've,
616
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,640
we've screwed it up
a whole bunch of times.
617
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,119
You know, even just in this,
I screwed up some of the
618
00:31:14,119 --> 00:31:17,119
the numbers coming in now,
I believe
619
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,039
a bunch of sevens like that
as a strike, a boost.
620
00:31:20,039 --> 00:31:22,839
I'm not sure what
a striper boost is. I think it's
621
00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:26,000
another album or something
like from from back in the day.
622
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,480
But I was I was going to say
a suggestion
623
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,160
for the memorial arts at home is
if you're
624
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,359
if you're going to boost
something in I would suggest
625
00:31:32,519 --> 00:31:39,880
sending in a3838. The baby boost.
The baby boost
626
00:31:36,359 --> 00:31:42,920
because that is 3834
baby on a calculator
627
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:45,480
if you hold it upside down.
And yeah, I think
628
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:49,599
that'll be a fun one for one.
So they got 3838
629
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:53,039
so in a baby boost.
Okay so for next week
630
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:55,000
we see plenty of baby
baby seven to see 3838
631
00:31:53,039 --> 00:31:59,119
coming through. So you know
even if you normally send 5000
632
00:31:56,119 --> 00:32:01,039
st 383i want to see more three
eight threats. Yeah definitely.
633
00:32:01,039 --> 00:32:02,960
So the Instagram lands
just for everyone
634
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,440
who is wondering
like what the hell
635
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,440
all these messages and numbers,
random numbers, you're
636
00:32:07,519 --> 00:32:12,279
you're speaking out.
So the way that we get support
637
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:16,640
from this show in a monetary
form is we just ask you to go
638
00:32:12,279 --> 00:32:18,319
to new podcast app Stockholm
and choose
639
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,079
one of the ones from there.
And it's essentially
640
00:32:19,079 --> 00:32:22,079
as you can send in money
in the actual podcasting app.
641
00:32:22,319 --> 00:32:24,359
Now this money is Bitcoin,
but you don't
642
00:32:24,359 --> 00:32:27,160
actually have to really know
that much about it.
643
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,880
You can just kind of
convert it to Fiat
644
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:34,200
and then you get a whole
bunch of numbers and then
645
00:32:30,759 --> 00:32:35,440
you can from fiat into Bitcoin
and send it through.
646
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,920
So I'm working on
making this easier.
647
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,920
I'm trying to do
some work on the site.
648
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,039
I'll talk about this in the
housekeeping right at the end,
649
00:32:43,039 --> 00:32:44,400
about all the things
I'm trying to do.
650
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,839
But that that's, that's
one of the ones
651
00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:49,319
making it easier for people
because I have had a fair
652
00:32:49,319 --> 00:32:52,359
few conversations with people
recently about you're
653
00:32:52,359 --> 00:32:55,440
making it hard
to for us to support you.
654
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,880
And so I'm like, okay, here
I need to need to work on that
655
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:03,240
and make it make it easier,
make a streamlined. These
656
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,240
are messages that
people are sending in to us and
657
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,799
and thinking with an amount
to help support the show.
658
00:33:09,799 --> 00:33:13,119
So very much appreciate it
for everyone who has done that.
659
00:33:13,319 --> 00:33:15,960
Yeah. Yeah, absolutely.
All right.
660
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,720
Let's get back to the normal
proceedings of meetings here.
661
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,400
We're talking
about the psychological. Yeah.
662
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,599
So you had some so is there
is there a difference?
663
00:33:24,599 --> 00:33:26,839
Does it has the weight
of the world hit you on that?
664
00:33:26,839 --> 00:33:31,079
Do you feel different now that
the little Vienna has come out?
665
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:36,480
And do you feel, I don't know,
more responsibility?
666
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,000
It's you know,
you're holding this tiny little,
667
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,720
little creature in your arms
and it's like, wow, I'm now,
668
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:49,079
you know, 50% responsible for
at least the next 18 years of
669
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:54,720
of of molding this child into,
I don't know, something good.
670
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:59,920
You know, it's it's all,
you know. Yeah. I think and again
671
00:33:58,079 --> 00:34:01,400
this might be an unlock
this might not be the general
672
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:02,960
answer to something
like of that question.
673
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:06,279
But for me at least personally
I'm like all the
674
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,320
I'm not anxious about that.
I'm almost like excited
675
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,880
to the front of how this doesn't
feel like a responsibility.
676
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,800
This feels like fun. Like this
is exactly what I wanted.
677
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,400
So I'm also
looking forward to it.
678
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,679
There is definitely being you
like dangling hair off a balcony
679
00:34:20,679 --> 00:34:24,079
of a michael Jackson Jackson's
Now Isn't this fun?
680
00:34:24,599 --> 00:34:27,880
But there has been it's in the
in the minutia
681
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,199
that the responsibility
is quite apparent.
682
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:36,760
So we have a large dog at home.
Right. And, you know, leaving her
683
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,800
all for any
more than a couple of seconds,
684
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,960
you know, throughout day
fills you
685
00:34:41,199 --> 00:34:45,400
with a little bit of the anxiety
slash responsibility of,
686
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,519
oh, my God, where is she?
What's happening?
687
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,360
Is she breathing?
Is she not up against
688
00:34:46,519 --> 00:34:50,679
like a cushion or a pillow?
Always a dog around.
689
00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:54,159
So there's a lot of that extra
responsibility, at least like
690
00:34:54,159 --> 00:34:57,559
psychologically, that you go.
I think normally, you know,
691
00:34:57,559 --> 00:35:00,000
your mind might be filled
with other things,
692
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,639
like let's take a leave from you
right now. Right.
693
00:35:02,639 --> 00:35:07,280
There's probably a lot of stuff
in your mind right now around
694
00:35:03,679 --> 00:35:10,800
just finding a partner.
Doing X-Y-Z
695
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:13,440
is taking a little priority.
Kind of like imagine 90% of
696
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:17,079
that gets replaced
with, hey, is baby doing okay?
697
00:35:17,199 --> 00:35:19,519
Hey, what's changing, Nappy?
Hey, is the crying
698
00:35:19,519 --> 00:35:22,519
I do have to do this, that,
that, whatever with the baby.
699
00:35:22,639 --> 00:35:25,440
That's kind of the feeling,
I guess the transition of it
700
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,559
with the responsibility.
It just feels like
701
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:30,559
it's always on your mind
between me and my partner
702
00:35:28,559 --> 00:35:35,400
at the moment.
Honestly, I reckon we've talked
703
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,920
about other things in the baby,
you know, a handful of times
704
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,440
in the last 12 days,
but not really.
705
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,119
Like it's just been purely
like about the baby,
706
00:35:40,119 --> 00:35:41,519
whether the baby's
going to the toilet,
707
00:35:41,519 --> 00:35:44,000
whether the baby's gone,
you know, going to go for a walk
708
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,960
or the baby's fed,
not fed, all this sort of thing.
709
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:51,400
So just the avalanche of time
that you're spending
710
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:53,960
it just consciously on the baby
come just fills you
711
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:56,119
with that extra responsibility.
But in the long term, nah,
712
00:35:53,960 --> 00:36:00,000
not so much. Doesn't
put that impact, I guess, on,
713
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:02,039
oh, I've got to deliver
or I've got to be
714
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,880
the sort of person
you answered that
715
00:36:02,039 --> 00:36:04,800
like my dad did.
I was saying, you know,
716
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,400
I really when I came in, did it
did it feel different?
717
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,039
He was and he just went, yeah,
that's and I was wondering
718
00:36:11,039 --> 00:36:14,760
if it was just because,
you know, that 30, 31 years ago.
719
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,760
So he's kind of
just forgotten about it or.
720
00:36:18,119 --> 00:36:20,320
Yeah, look,
I honestly would have expected
721
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,760
it to be a lot more like,
Wow, I'm a dad. Whoa.
722
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,639
This means I got to do this.
This.
723
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:30,480
I mean, they've got to do that.
Like, Yes, but then talking
724
00:36:27,199 --> 00:36:33,679
with other, you know, either
new dads or people have been,
725
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:37,639
you know, that recently as well.
A lot of it was, you know,
726
00:36:34,079 --> 00:36:39,599
getting is of back to the
the reality of who you are
727
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:43,119
as a person.
Not losing the individualism of
728
00:36:39,599 --> 00:36:44,519
who you are is very important.
Now, I get it wrong.
729
00:36:44,519 --> 00:36:48,719
I'm not saying that you can't
absolutely do anything like you
730
00:36:45,599 --> 00:36:51,960
absolutely have to, you know,
take some differences
731
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:54,960
in the path that you're doing.
But I'd probably be similar
732
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:57,400
to say that like, you know
how much that psychologically
733
00:36:55,119 --> 00:37:00,159
pressing on you.
Yeah. Yeah, not that much, man.
734
00:37:00,159 --> 00:37:02,400
I'm going to me and me in
Vienna are going to bond
735
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,599
in 20 years time
when she hears this son
736
00:37:04,599 --> 00:37:07,599
a mike in my dad
didn't give a shit about me
737
00:37:07,639 --> 00:37:10,639
the same way your dad doesn't
give a shit about you.
738
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,920
Like this is going to grow up
to be just this beast.
739
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,239
Yeah, she probably will.
She probably will. Delivery.
740
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,480
Let's.
Let's see the delivery story,
741
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:22,599
what we're going to say.
Okay, so delivery front again.
742
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:28,440
Expectations.
You know, I'll keep out
743
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:30,280
like any of the graphic details
and all the details,
744
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,559
but most of it is like
the dad Ryan as a partner,
745
00:37:33,119 --> 00:37:37,800
the expectation for me
was going to be,
746
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:39,039
hey, it's just going to happen.
Like so all of a sudden.
747
00:37:39,039 --> 00:37:41,800
So even even
before you get into that,
748
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:46,199
what is the general procedure
nowadays in 2023?
749
00:37:46,199 --> 00:37:49,800
Are you allowed in the hospital?
Are you allowed in the room?
750
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:54,880
Are you
can you be in there but with the
751
00:37:52,199 --> 00:37:57,679
mask on or things like this.
What,
752
00:37:54,880 --> 00:38:00,079
what what's that kind of. Yeah.
Sorry. These here in Australia
753
00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:01,679
that's a little limitation
that you can only have
754
00:38:01,679 --> 00:38:04,119
maximum of two people
in a delivery room
755
00:38:04,119 --> 00:38:06,960
as to all the people
and then all of the staff
756
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,239
that are needed
therefore for the purpose.
757
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:13,199
So does that limitation.
You can't really rotate in
758
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:16,320
and out of people
don't need a mask which call
759
00:38:13,199 --> 00:38:17,199
for the hospital afterwards.
When you're staying there,
760
00:38:17,199 --> 00:38:20,199
just stay on one person
who can stay with the mum.
761
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,159
Again, that's differing
depending on public private,
762
00:38:23,159 --> 00:38:26,199
what type of level you go to.
But that's by the by right.
763
00:38:26,199 --> 00:38:30,360
And the general expectation is,
you know, as natural
764
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:32,280
as you can get is
what break or contractions begin.
765
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,000
You go to the hospital,
you get checked in, you
766
00:38:33,599 --> 00:38:38,719
go to the maternity ward,
go through
767
00:38:36,119 --> 00:38:41,920
all the process you deliver,
and then you go and stay for 24
768
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,719
or 48 hours in the hospital
and then you go home.
769
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:46,280
Yeah, that's generally
So that's like, what, 48 hours,
770
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,000
something like that.
Maybe some of that's
771
00:38:47,159 --> 00:38:50,639
kind of like operation
Now for us,
772
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,840
it was slightly different
in the sense that it was kind of
773
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,280
a more prolonged
delivery in that, you know, baby
774
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,519
was overcooked, there's no due
dates come and gone
775
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,599
and it was more of that.
You need to do
776
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,199
a manual intervention
to make sure that the baby comes.
777
00:39:03,199 --> 00:39:06,440
But that meant that
it was quite a long distance.
778
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,639
So from the time that, you know,
Vienna actually was born,
779
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,840
it was two days that actually
began theoretically.
780
00:39:14,079 --> 00:39:16,079
So it was kind of like
working through that.
781
00:39:16,079 --> 00:39:18,119
And I'm actually stopped
completely working.
782
00:39:18,119 --> 00:39:21,119
So it was, you know, back
and forth with hospital visits
783
00:39:21,119 --> 00:39:24,360
and seeing how is going on up
until a certain point in time.
784
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,400
Right now, the expectation of me
always is going to be,
785
00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:31,679
hey, it's going to be not fast,
but it's going to be like
786
00:39:31,679 --> 00:39:32,800
it's just going to start
happening.
787
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:37,159
It's going to be intense.
And so, yeah, there'll be it
788
00:39:33,599 --> 00:39:38,400
will be things just so you know.
So it wasn't like that
789
00:39:37,159 --> 00:39:39,840
for a little while. We were like,
Oh, you know, it's kind of
790
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:44,480
just taking time,
trawling through until it hit.
791
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,440
Until it hit.
And let me tell you,
792
00:39:45,559 --> 00:39:51,440
folks out there first
all, you know, as a partner
793
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:53,880
or a significant other as a dad,
you better be prepared
794
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,599
for the onslaught that happens
throughout it, because, again,
795
00:39:57,599 --> 00:39:59,760
it can happen.
Daytime can happen in my time.
796
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,599
So for us, it was probably
it was all through the night.
797
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:08,639
So let's complete
all through the night. I think it
798
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:10,639
all started roughly at about
10 p.m..
799
00:40:10,639 --> 00:40:12,760
I think 10: 30 p.m.
was kind of started
800
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,559
and she was delivered 1059
in the morning the next day.
801
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:23,639
So that was intense
delivery stuff. So you know,
802
00:40:21,119 --> 00:40:25,400
it was getting to the place.
I never would expect it.
803
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,480
I just thought, Oh man, it's
going to be so intense for the,
804
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:28,840
you know, delivery
for my partner.
805
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,079
And hopefully the baby goes
well and it's all healthy
806
00:40:32,079 --> 00:40:36,360
and all that.
I bet halfway through, dude,
807
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:40,280
I was tired. I was like, man,
I am like, gasping for air here.
808
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:44,559
Like, this is hard yakka.
So that's something
809
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:47,599
I didn't expect that.
I was like, Oh, wow,
810
00:40:44,559 --> 00:40:51,800
this is very, very hard.
So I caution to the
811
00:40:48,199 --> 00:40:54,000
to the folks out there who are,
you know, potentially looking
812
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,159
to do that in the future.
And you want to be that
813
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,880
which one? I say
you should definitely be the
814
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:01,320
they need to support present day
man do not underestimate
815
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:05,400
just how much of an effort that
is and that honestly it's not
816
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:11,719
it's not the same. Right.
But it was comparable to
817
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:12,400
when I did Kokoda 96 kilometers.
It was like that.
818
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:16,719
Well, it was like
that mentality of like,
819
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:19,920
oh, I've got to not sleep.
I've got to watch what I'm
820
00:41:17,039 --> 00:41:23,079
eating or not eat.
I've got to be like completely
821
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:25,440
in that full intense mode
for a very, very long time.
822
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,719
So when you think about it,
right, you're working through
823
00:41:27,119 --> 00:41:32,199
like contractions and the like
you might have to support.
824
00:41:32,199 --> 00:41:35,039
You know, what I'm saying is put,
you know,
825
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,559
you can go like a few days
if you want, like it's very,
826
00:41:35,039 --> 00:41:41,159
very intense. I support that.
You'll be giving for about 40,
827
00:41:38,159 --> 00:41:44,639
50 seconds and then you get
a few like 20 or 30 seconds
828
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:47,280
breather and you go again.
And now do that for 5 hours
829
00:41:44,639 --> 00:41:48,559
straight.
It's full on. It's full on.
830
00:41:48,559 --> 00:41:52,599
So that expectation just blew me
out of the water completely.
831
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,400
And then afterwards, you know,
chilling in the hospital
832
00:41:55,400 --> 00:42:01,920
like it just wrecked.
Absolutely. Like smashed because
833
00:41:59,639 --> 00:42:04,079
you've barely even any food.
You've got nicely, if any.
834
00:42:04,079 --> 00:42:07,559
And you're just lying there,
the hospital bed with a newborn,
835
00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:10,320
you know, like, wow,
what do I do?
836
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,840
And that the next little stage
of the delivery.
837
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,840
So we were at the hospital
for a little bit over 24 hours.
838
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,920
Again, you've barely slept,
you've barely eaten.
839
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,320
Got to get someone to go
and drop me food off.
840
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:26,239
Just starving. And you're
trying to deal with a newborn
841
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,440
that's barely sleeping once
a feed every couple of hours.
842
00:42:30,159 --> 00:42:32,639
Again,
like that was just wild time.
843
00:42:32,639 --> 00:42:36,559
So I can I can see why, you know,
sometimes you see like a new dad
844
00:42:37,199 --> 00:42:40,199
or new mom or new family
walking around the hospital
845
00:42:40,199 --> 00:42:42,079
and they're like, Oh, man,
they look disheveled.
846
00:42:42,079 --> 00:42:45,239
Dude, I must have looked
just absolutely distraught,
847
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,119
annoyed until I got home.
So and again,
848
00:42:48,119 --> 00:42:51,519
I think I'm out of brush
my teeth like two days before I
849
00:42:51,559 --> 00:42:53,280
had, like, you know,
how much longer it went?
850
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:57,440
Two days, I think that I didn't
brush my teeth
851
00:42:55,119 --> 00:42:59,400
more than that for a shower.
Like it took forever
852
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:02,199
to have a shower.
So there was a lot of that
853
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:04,320
that I underestimated for sure.
And even then I was
854
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,800
putting a lot of like, Oh, wow,
this is going to be like
855
00:43:05,599 --> 00:43:10,800
pretty intense. Nothing to what
I actually imagine it to be.
856
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:15,239
Now, the most important question,
how many push ups did you get
857
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:17,880
done whilst in the hospital?
Zero zero push ups is up.
858
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,559
No worked out nothing.
Nothing done.
859
00:43:20,559 --> 00:43:22,199
I'm really disappointed
with that.
860
00:43:22,199 --> 00:43:25,440
I think there was push push ups.
I did actually did set up.
861
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,440
The first thing that I did was
when we got home
862
00:43:28,599 --> 00:43:31,639
the next day, I did some sit
ups in front of it.
863
00:43:31,639 --> 00:43:35,159
It sounds like a lot,
but a couple of sit ups,
864
00:43:32,039 --> 00:43:40,599
but yeah, there was
there was no space, no time, no
865
00:43:35,159 --> 00:43:44,039
energy for any of that. And
yeah, it was
866
00:43:41,639 --> 00:43:44,599
yeah, it was, it was wild stuff.
It was wild stuff.
867
00:43:44,599 --> 00:43:47,159
So I'll keep, I'll,
I'll keep most of the other
868
00:43:47,159 --> 00:43:52,400
gory details out of it.
But yeah, I would say as a dad
869
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:54,440
that's the,
that would be the crucible
870
00:43:52,679 --> 00:43:57,079
I think almost
you know how you think
871
00:43:55,079 --> 00:43:58,440
through of,
you know, there's like the kid
872
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,039
going into the adults
or the into the teenagers.
873
00:44:01,039 --> 00:44:02,920
You've got to go
through a ritual.
874
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,679
This is one of these rituals.
This is like one of the rituals
875
00:44:04,039 --> 00:44:09,239
of, of human society
is being there
876
00:44:06,679 --> 00:44:11,880
for that birth track.
It's like a crucible
877
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,440
that everyone should go to.
So that was it was cool.
878
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,440
Like I look back on now
going like type that was
879
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:21,320
exciting, intense, crazy.
I still don't like
880
00:44:19,599 --> 00:44:23,320
want to repeat it right now?
Like, it's like, no,
881
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:26,079
I don't want to repeat that.
I don't like it if I'm like,
882
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,199
Dude, I'm not the mum, right?
I'm not delivering that.
883
00:44:27,199 --> 00:44:30,320
I'm like, I don't want to go
through that at all right now.
884
00:44:30,559 --> 00:44:32,960
There's no way I would want
to go through that again.
885
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:34,920
But similar to the Kokoda
Challenge, right
886
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,440
in the first few months
afterwards, I was like,
887
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,239
I'm never doing this again.
But now I'm like,
888
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:41,239
Hey, I've got to go now.
It might be the same
889
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,480
in a few years
when she starts getting cute
890
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:46,000
and when your memory
is getting a little bit hazy.
891
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:50,880
Fuzzy Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Exactly. Look, the final one
892
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,800
I was going to bring up, which
is a bit of a different one.
893
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:55,639
I've got a couple of
more nights, but I think
894
00:44:52,639 --> 00:45:00,400
we'll all end on this one.
The reality as a dad of the love
895
00:44:56,039 --> 00:45:02,159
for the child, because I think
is an interesting one
896
00:45:02,159 --> 00:45:06,599
not many people look into
because it's often discussed
897
00:45:03,039 --> 00:45:08,000
that the mum, you know,
you can kind of go both ways.
898
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,519
You can go down the path of baby
like you just before
899
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,360
baby comes out.
You can either be like
900
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,239
really excited for it
or you might feel like,
901
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:16,800
you know, I'm not really
connected to this baby.
902
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,800
Like it's not a real thing.
As soon as the baby comes out,
903
00:45:18,119 --> 00:45:23,519
one of two things happen.
You're like immediately
904
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:25,719
connected, overjoyed,
or you might see a little bit of
905
00:45:23,519 --> 00:45:28,719
be like apathy, like,
Oh, hey, I'm not going to
906
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:32,039
you know, that changed over time
before the dad, I, I wasn't sure
907
00:45:29,039 --> 00:45:33,920
what's going to happen.
I was like,
908
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:37,320
I feel some connection to
the baby beforehand, but like,
909
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:39,920
is it going to be immediate?
Yeah, not particularly
910
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,760
because the the chemical balances
that happen, you know,
911
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,000
from a female perspective,
when I deliver on the oxytocin
912
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,280
release, that's what
it really bonds together.
913
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,639
Same thing with breastfeeding.
That doesn't happen with that.
914
00:45:48,639 --> 00:45:54,199
So at the very beginning
did I had as much connection
915
00:45:51,079 --> 00:45:55,000
to the baby as I had
before I was born.
916
00:45:55,000 --> 00:46:00,039
So for Vienna I was like, Oh,
I connect with her, but
917
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:03,960
not connected fully with her.
And it hasn't
918
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:06,159
been really till a few days ago
where that started
919
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:10,440
to really transition.
Now that might be because
920
00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:13,440
they start operating and showing
emotion through their faces
921
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:15,039
and a little cuteness and that.
So it does take a while.
922
00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:19,559
And I think some people can think
in the first few days, oh, like
923
00:46:20,679 --> 00:46:24,239
I show I care for this thing,
but it's still in my mind.
924
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:28,079
It's like, Oh, this baby is my
baby's my daughter is it my son?
925
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,519
It it does it takes a little
while for that to grow on you.
926
00:46:31,519 --> 00:46:34,840
And, you know,
I don't know exactly what it is
927
00:46:32,679 --> 00:46:36,480
that you can do
extra for it, but obviously,
928
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:39,239
spending a lot of time
with the baby obviously helps.
929
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:41,199
So do that, people.
But don't be surprised
930
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,639
that it takes a few days.
Not that I didn't expect.
931
00:46:42,639 --> 00:46:45,199
I expect that there was going
to be same as a mum.
932
00:46:45,199 --> 00:46:49,559
Bang baby has dropped, you know.
Well, not dropped delivered.
933
00:46:49,559 --> 00:46:51,320
And you're like,
Oh my God, I'm so in love.
934
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:56,039
No, that's not how it worked.
That over a few days
935
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,920
you kind of start building
that connection just like
936
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,039
you would a friend
or a lover or whoever.
937
00:47:00,039 --> 00:47:03,559
Maybe it does take that
time to see like, Well,
938
00:47:03,559 --> 00:47:06,239
what the hell is this thing
in front of me? Oh, it's a baby.
939
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:10,440
And then you start attaching it
to It's Vienna. Oh, it's my baby.
940
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:11,880
And then the love sorta starts
pouring through.
941
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,480
So that that one was a
definitely an I wouldn't if
942
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,360
they had any expectations,
but I had if I had to put it, it
943
00:47:17,039 --> 00:47:19,519
definitely
didn't meet the expectations
944
00:47:19,519 --> 00:47:22,119
of the realities
of becoming a dad. Okay.
945
00:47:22,119 --> 00:47:26,440
Interesting.
I want to squeeze one more in,
946
00:47:22,599 --> 00:47:28,000
which is so, you know,
there was something
947
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,960
you referenced before,
which is like you need to track
948
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,840
the sleep of the baby
and you need to track
949
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,840
how many poos and wheeze
and stuff that she's doing.
950
00:47:34,199 --> 00:47:39,400
Now, if you had to compare
what you would imagine
951
00:47:36,599 --> 00:47:43,360
it would have been like
to have had a child in 1923
952
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:52,960
and then let's just say
12 2023, what what would be
953
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:55,840
what would be different
about the experience
954
00:47:52,960 --> 00:48:00,599
now compared to those, too?
Because, you know,
955
00:47:55,840 --> 00:48:03,880
it's still your child and mum,
some sort
956
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:05,079
of medical professional helping
to deliver the baby.
957
00:48:05,079 --> 00:48:08,079
I imagine that's the same across
all of those scenarios.
958
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,159
Is there anything special
about the modern age
959
00:48:11,159 --> 00:48:13,440
that requires
all of these things?
960
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,440
Like do you think you can get
too worked up over
961
00:48:16,679 --> 00:48:19,280
tracking the baby's
poos and ways and whatnot?
962
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:24,039
And it's just, you know,
we've been doing this
963
00:48:21,559 --> 00:48:25,760
for tens of thousands of years.
It's not maybe
964
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,760
that necessary to track
with all the modern technology.
965
00:48:29,519 --> 00:48:34,800
Yeah, that's a good point
because there's things like
966
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:37,320
so we know that child
mortality rate
967
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:38,760
was much higher back then. Yes.
So that's a big difference.
968
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,239
And and of the mother as well.
Yeah. And then look,
969
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:45,559
that is a big difference.
But how much of that
970
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:49,719
is associated with,
you know, diseases that we can
971
00:48:45,559 --> 00:48:54,239
now, you know, deal with versus
just being by the numbers
972
00:48:51,599 --> 00:48:55,679
and kind of preventing it?
I think it's two different
973
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:57,599
things.
Say, you know, in comparison
974
00:48:57,599 --> 00:49:00,840
to, you know, say 100
or 500 years ago,
975
00:49:01,679 --> 00:49:04,199
you know, counting
counting the person weighs,
976
00:49:04,199 --> 00:49:07,039
okay, it's
not as important, really.
977
00:49:07,039 --> 00:49:09,159
And if you're getting down
to the basics of it,
978
00:49:09,159 --> 00:49:11,159
it's probably not as important
as it was back then.
979
00:49:11,159 --> 00:49:13,239
But it's it's
not that It's making like this
980
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,840
unbelievable, crucial difference.
Because if the baby did
981
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,480
get really sick, for
whatever reason,
982
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:21,519
you weren't counting that,
well, something's wrong. There's
983
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,800
probably things that can be done
from a medical perspective.
984
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,320
So, hey, losing weight.
We can do this.
985
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:30,039
Hey, the kidneys not producing,
not getting rid of a particular
986
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:32,679
thing properly, okay?
We can use these lights
987
00:49:30,039 --> 00:49:35,199
to help that on.
So there's lots of things
988
00:49:32,679 --> 00:49:36,840
that occur, right. That wouldn't
have back in the day.
989
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,719
And, you know, whether you count
your baby's poos and we ain't
990
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,719
going to change that.
What I think it does in
991
00:49:41,039 --> 00:49:46,719
the differentiation is a
it's a proactive nurse
992
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:50,000
slash the pre and preemptive
medical treatment,
993
00:49:47,199 --> 00:49:51,639
which is kind of somewhat,
you know, the same
994
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,800
sort of medical treatment
that would happen for adults
995
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:54,840
or the steps that you would take
before getting sick.
996
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:59,159
So, you know, before you got fat,
you got diabetes, you can
997
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,840
you can track your blood work
and your insulin sensitivity
998
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,559
and things like that
to understand
999
00:50:04,559 --> 00:50:07,199
whether you're going to go
and get this diseases or not.
1000
00:50:07,199 --> 00:50:11,400
Same thing applies with maybe
checking on your epigenetics
1001
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,119
or general genetics
to see if you're,
1002
00:50:13,119 --> 00:50:16,440
you know, susceptible
to whatever disease or,
1003
00:50:16,559 --> 00:50:19,760
you know, having a colonoscopy,
you know, is there a difference
1004
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,679
between getting close to be
now and 500 years ago? Well,
1005
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,800
not necessarily.
If you've got the same
1006
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:28,519
if you've got the cancer,
but now you might do it
1007
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,079
and you get preventive
look at whether you have to go
1008
00:50:30,079 --> 00:50:32,360
get treated to
maybe get rid of something.
1009
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,360
So I guess I see it
more in that way.
1010
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:40,440
I wouldn't say it's, you know,
if you babies are general
1011
00:50:38,119 --> 00:50:42,880
generally is that you baby
should we about
1012
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:45,119
as many times of the days
have been born up
1013
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:48,679
until a certain time
you know if it's a full day and
1014
00:50:45,119 --> 00:50:51,920
they we three times all the way
five times you shouldn't like
1015
00:50:48,679 --> 00:50:56,239
go lose your marbles over it
But if the baby's nine days
1016
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:58,679
and weeing once a day,
it's probably something wrong,
1017
00:50:57,199 --> 00:51:00,679
you're probably going to get that
checked out by a professional.
1018
00:51:00,679 --> 00:51:05,039
But 100 years ago, 400 years ago,
you're probably either like,
1019
00:51:03,079 --> 00:51:07,920
you know, the baby would be fine,
just continue on
1020
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,079
or get really sick
and then you have to
1021
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,760
go take it in. So nowadays
it probably get really sick
1022
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:15,519
if that was going to be the case.
But you take it in
1023
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,280
and then go like, Hey,
you're an idiot,
1024
00:51:15,519 --> 00:51:18,760
you need to do this.
Okay, fine. Mhm.
1025
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,760
Yeah, I'm just, I'm just curious
about things like, you know,
1026
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,920
the medical profession is great
at these real serious
1027
00:51:26,559 --> 00:51:33,960
interventions of heart
transplants, of amputated limbs
1028
00:51:30,559 --> 00:51:37,320
off of things like that.
But it kind of
1029
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:40,519
sucks with these slow growing
stuff where there's no particular
1030
00:51:40,519 --> 00:51:44,280
cure for it
and, and, and whatnot.
1031
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,880
And, you know, going into a
hospital is full of sick people.
1032
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,639
Pete, on the last conversation
was just saying
1033
00:51:51,639 --> 00:51:56,639
how he's just gotten so sick,
basically since joining hospitals
1034
00:51:56,639 --> 00:51:59,400
because they're going to day
care, they're bringing back
1035
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,199
all this shit.
And it's just constant,
1036
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:04,199
constant, constant.
And, you know, hospitals
1037
00:52:01,199 --> 00:52:06,480
are essentially the same thing.
Oh, for sure. And look, I'm
1038
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,400
I'm for sure
expecting that in the future I'm
1039
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,400
going to get that same sickness
from child care and whatnot.
1040
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:16,840
But I mean, like for me
personally, like I do similar
1041
00:52:14,639 --> 00:52:19,440
tracking with a lot of things.
It's like I'll try to preempt it
1042
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,880
on my side.
But yeah, in real life
1043
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,679
you can only do so much
to stop people getting sick or,
1044
00:52:23,679 --> 00:52:27,320
you know,
getting yourself to a position
1045
00:52:24,599 --> 00:52:29,119
where, you know, you know,
I think as you put it,
1046
00:52:29,119 --> 00:52:31,239
the more I can keep them away
from the hospital, the better.
1047
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:35,280
Yeah. Yeah. It's not just,
you know, the preemptive,
1048
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,440
your worrying
about so many things.
1049
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:42,039
And in the grand scheme of stuff,
it just doesn't matter.
1050
00:52:42,039 --> 00:52:45,360
You know that.
Yeah, like, you're right.
1051
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,599
You're right. Like,
I might be, like, again.
1052
00:52:47,599 --> 00:52:51,360
I'll show you the details
with the sleeping. You know,
1053
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,199
I could get down to the point
of, like, Oh,
1054
00:52:53,199 --> 00:52:56,280
she slept half an hour less.
She's sleeping one hour more.
1055
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:00,679
It doesn't like that
as long as a sleeping front.
1056
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,320
And then on knowing you like
they're going to sleep. That's,
1057
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:08,039
as you say,
it's literally in our genes
1058
00:53:05,039 --> 00:53:09,480
to do this.
Right. What are you going to do?
1059
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,000
You going to force them to sleep
extra like you going to
1060
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,480
put a little nightshade
out of their eyes? Right.
1061
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,960
You're going to do that.
It's going to
1062
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,960
from from a human perspective,
there's a way that they can
1063
00:53:19,039 --> 00:53:20,960
evolve and grow.
You probably don't
1064
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,800
have to do that much to it
as long as you're putting
1065
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:27,400
the right things in place.
That's that. In that data,
1066
00:53:26,119 --> 00:53:30,840
by the way that I showed
you isn't even something that
1067
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:34,079
we track ourselves personally.
It's just that the
1068
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:37,559
the bassinet that we have
does that, but we actually use
1069
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:39,440
a bassinet for other reasons.
It's just kind of cool.
1070
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,639
So until we talk about it.
But oh, she woke up this summer.
1071
00:53:41,639 --> 00:53:45,840
This time. This time, yeah.
Honestly, are we the hours,
1072
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:48,280
a longer sleep or something?
Not really.
1073
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,519
Yeah. Like it's not the case.
Yeah. So Koko.
1074
00:53:49,519 --> 00:53:52,559
But in any case, folks,
that's at a few things
1075
00:53:52,559 --> 00:53:53,760
are the realities
of becoming a dad.
1076
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,159
We're going to hear now
for almost, almost an hour.
1077
00:53:56,159 --> 00:53:59,239
So we might put a little cap
on this one as well.
1078
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,599
But I will pass first to calm,
just talk through some
1079
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:08,760
some housekeeping items. Yeah.
So just for everyone wondering,
1080
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:12,119
I suppose, why I mean,
even I'm wondering as well, one,
1081
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:15,159
do you reckon
this is going to be something
1082
00:54:12,119 --> 00:54:18,039
doable for the next while,
the Wednesday episodes,
1083
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:21,039
the life ones, I think.
Yeah I think that
1084
00:54:18,039 --> 00:54:24,360
so one of the Yeah.
People might know this one
1085
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:27,079
I know is when I have kids, but
kids generally go through these
1086
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:29,639
like evolutions,
like just little leaps
1087
00:54:27,079 --> 00:54:32,119
and there's like ten of them
or 12 of them in the,
1088
00:54:29,639 --> 00:54:35,679
in the first few months. Yeah,
it might come a point
1089
00:54:33,599 --> 00:54:37,719
that one of these leaps comes
and it's like, Oh wow, I'm great.
1090
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,599
I can't, I can't do it
on a particular day.
1091
00:54:39,599 --> 00:54:42,800
It won't work.
But right now, look, it's
1092
00:54:40,559 --> 00:54:43,880
working fine.
I had a chat with the partner
1093
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,239
about it.
It seems like it's going good,
1094
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,079
so it looks like
we'll be able to continue this
1095
00:54:46,079 --> 00:54:49,079
for the next few foreseeable
Wednesdays at least online
1096
00:54:49,679 --> 00:54:53,880
and start even moving towards a
a few in-person ones as well.
1097
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:57,760
So yeah. Nice. Coco. Cool, right?
Beautiful. Just for me.
1098
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,480
So I've been
I've wrote down a quick list
1099
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:03,719
and you've probably seen
the monthly goals,
1100
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,880
how this will expand out.
But I've just written
1101
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,880
fix website, fixed audio backup,
all files, transcripts, role
1102
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,519
files, prep for more detailed
episodes, prep for conversation
1103
00:55:11,519 --> 00:55:14,519
guess before they move
to blueberry experimentation
1104
00:55:14,519 --> 00:55:17,760
soundproof for the room, people
not being able to support.
1105
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,679
You know, there's all of
these things that are kind of
1106
00:55:19,679 --> 00:55:25,800
in the back of my mind and I'm
wondering, you know,
1107
00:55:23,559 --> 00:55:27,119
what's what's the best thing to
to fix up first and whatnot.
1108
00:55:27,119 --> 00:55:30,639
But I can tell you,
you know, all of the
1109
00:55:32,079 --> 00:55:34,440
I want to say, like the
the podcast I feel
1110
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,639
is going to take a step change
in the next six months,
1111
00:55:35,639 --> 00:55:40,639
I would say,
because I'm probably going
1112
00:55:37,639 --> 00:55:44,119
to spend more effort on it
in a not like this
1113
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:48,519
in a in the sense of
of I think making it more kind
1114
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:50,079
of professional in a way.
And it's it's not that
1115
00:55:50,079 --> 00:55:53,079
it has been unprofessional,
but it's just
1116
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:59,119
I think that that was areas
that just neither
1117
00:55:55,679 --> 00:56:02,920
of us kind of had capacity to
to work on
1118
00:56:00,599 --> 00:56:04,880
the website being one of them.
You know, I've always kind of
1119
00:56:03,199 --> 00:56:07,280
just taken a very hands off
approach that
1120
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:12,239
we got something up and running.
But I do want to make it better
1121
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:16,239
so that people can if
because I have had a couple
1122
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:18,599
of experiences recently of just
people telling me
1123
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:21,760
what their experience
was like of trying to support
1124
00:56:18,599 --> 00:56:22,480
or going onto the website,
then it was like,
1125
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,239
Oh, this happened
and then this happened, and it's
1126
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,320
not so hard to see things with
a fresh eye, fresh pair of eyes.
1127
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:32,440
So yeah, just, just, just
general housekeeping is that.
1128
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:37,760
And then also,
I am still really committed
1129
00:56:34,599 --> 00:56:39,360
to doing the making sure
there's coming out on the Monday
1130
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,280
and something coming out on
the Friday with the live episode
1131
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,599
kind of taking place
on the on the Wednesday.
1132
00:56:45,599 --> 00:56:49,000
So well he is on
and actually just
1133
00:56:49,199 --> 00:56:51,599
as a housekeeping
so slight change and again
1134
00:56:51,599 --> 00:56:53,639
this to the reality
of becoming a dad
1135
00:56:53,639 --> 00:56:56,760
dude reading went out the window
and it will it will
1136
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:00,559
literally go out the window
for a long time if I didn't
1137
00:56:58,199 --> 00:57:03,760
do something about it.
So I've committed myself
1138
00:57:00,559 --> 00:57:07,039
to waking up slightly earlier
than I have been normally
1139
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:09,480
or shortening my work out
to do reading
1140
00:57:07,039 --> 00:57:11,199
before I hit the gym,
which I used to do
1141
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,599
like years ago.
So it wasn't finding time
1142
00:57:12,599 --> 00:57:15,519
to be able to find time
to put together book reviews
1143
00:57:15,519 --> 00:57:18,320
and stuff like that.
So yeah I'm becoming really
1144
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:20,880
to become a dad, to
go to find time somewhere else.
1145
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:23,599
Yeah, well,
I mean, that's that's just a
1146
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:26,880
bonus, to be honest. You know,
I've always
1147
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:28,440
kind of considered the book.
Any book you do to,
1148
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,960
to be a bonus either, but is
you have the kind of schedule
1149
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:35,079
and just give me a small break
and, you know, let me read a 500
1150
00:57:35,079 --> 00:57:39,039
page book because I'm not in a
rush to rush and get things out.
1151
00:57:39,039 --> 00:57:42,320
So they have very much
to appreciate that meant and
1152
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:46,519
I don't know if you know this,
but the David Goggins book
1153
00:57:46,519 --> 00:57:50,679
review you've done is easily
our best performing episode
1154
00:57:50,679 --> 00:57:52,519
on the these. You didn't
mention that on the audio.
1155
00:57:52,519 --> 00:57:56,880
Yes. Yeah.
And I think that Eddie, Eddie,
1156
00:57:54,239 --> 00:57:58,920
Jack who won you did a while ago
as well is also pretty good.
1157
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,519
I am the happiest man on earth,
correct? Yes. Yeah.
1158
00:58:01,519 --> 00:58:05,039
Yeah, that one.
So yeah let's cool
1159
00:58:02,039 --> 00:58:07,679
things happening.
But yeah, the ones on Mondays,
1160
00:58:07,679 --> 00:58:13,119
they'll either be a conversation,
it'll be the monthly goals or
1161
00:58:09,239 --> 00:58:16,239
it will be a like a themed one
I guess a solo themed one
1162
00:58:13,119 --> 00:58:19,920
that I'll do so now.
Or a meandering if, if and
1163
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:22,480
when we get back to doing those,
which I think we will.
1164
00:58:20,599 --> 00:58:25,440
Which I think we will as well.
So yeah not not straight away,
1165
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:26,519
but I think we'll get back to
some of the entries as well.
1166
00:58:26,519 --> 00:58:30,239
Yeah. Yeah. Just, just you know,
maybe once a month will be,
1167
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,559
will be the do. Oh, and I'm
spending a lot more time
1168
00:58:31,559 --> 00:58:33,360
on the I'm
creating clips as well.
1169
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:37,599
So the clips should improve.
I tried actually I won
1170
00:58:37,599 --> 00:58:40,760
one of the things that either
you sent through or someone else
1171
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:48,920
the it was hilarious how
it titled and labeled things
1172
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:51,000
I did of the ones
with the Pete episode,
1173
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:54,920
which is really great
because Pete's is able to cover
1174
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:56,639
so many topics really quickly
and he doesn't mean much.
1175
00:58:56,639 --> 00:59:00,119
So you can create really good
clips from that and basically
1176
00:59:01,119 --> 00:59:04,320
you throw it in this thing,
it does whatever it does,
1177
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:09,599
and then it'll give you 15 clips
and they're the usually longer
1178
00:59:06,039 --> 00:59:12,760
than 30 seconds to a minute.
But all of them had names like
1179
00:59:13,199 --> 00:59:18,159
The Shocking Truth behind
x, x, X, and it was
1180
00:59:18,159 --> 00:59:21,159
there was probably like five
or six shocking truths that
1181
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,239
keep coming out the
like shocking truth about this.
1182
00:59:25,239 --> 00:59:28,320
Yeah, I'm trying to
just bring it up as as we speak,
1183
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:34,199
and here we go. So it was Opus.
Opus Dot Pro is what I used.
1184
00:59:35,199 --> 00:59:38,199
And yeah, basically you
don't even have to upload it.
1185
00:59:38,199 --> 00:59:41,199
You can just give it a link
to the YouTube video.
1186
00:59:42,039 --> 00:59:48,360
And so here we go,
the instructions,
1187
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:51,360
blah, blah, blah. So uncovering
the shocking truths of parenting
1188
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,880
and experimentation,
the cutthroat
1189
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,920
world of millionaire
influence is uncovered.
1190
00:59:55,920 --> 01:00:00,159
You won't believe it.
The surprising reason why
1191
00:59:57,159 --> 01:00:01,960
some singers rarely get sick,
unleashing childhood power.
1192
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,239
What happens when children
Have Control?
1193
01:00:04,239 --> 01:00:08,400
Uncovering the Shocking Truth
About Financial Advice
1194
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:10,320
YouTube Channel An inside
look at my favorite sounds.
1195
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:14,320
It's sounds enticing.
It does sound enticing,
1196
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:15,960
but what we would come up,
they're great.
1197
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:19,840
They're great names.
They are also not reflective
1198
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:21,360
of what was actually fantastic
was actually discussed.
1199
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:25,400
And when you have 15 shocking
truths titles
1200
01:00:25,559 --> 01:00:27,960
and you and you're going
to pass them back to back,
1201
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,159
yeah, it's just governments
losing power.
1202
01:00:30,159 --> 01:00:34,000
So yeah, that was only really
one of them, which I was like,
1203
01:00:34,159 --> 01:00:36,559
yeah, this
I think this was great.
1204
01:00:36,559 --> 01:00:41,400
For example,
he would talk, it'd be talking
1205
01:00:39,079 --> 01:00:43,559
and one of the cool things about
this is can even include
1206
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,679
little emoticons in.
So it creates and creates
1207
01:00:43,559 --> 01:00:49,960
the clip,
it creates the subtitle text
1208
01:00:45,679 --> 01:00:51,880
and it does it in white
and yellow and different colors
1209
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:54,920
and whatnot.
And even for certain words,
1210
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:56,400
it will come up with a
a little emoticon
1211
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,159
of like power or money
or something like that.
1212
01:00:59,159 --> 01:01:02,159
And Pete was talking about this
one section of,
1213
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,320
you know, really, really
making fun of people
1214
01:01:05,519 --> 01:01:08,519
who are creating money
or getting money in these
1215
01:01:08,679 --> 01:01:13,119
certain ways or something.
And the little emoticon was,
1216
01:01:10,119 --> 01:01:16,440
you know, the
the smiley for smiley dolls
1217
01:01:13,519 --> 01:01:19,400
with with dollar signs.
And it was just so inappropriate
1218
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:21,119
for what the context
of what was being talked about.
1219
01:01:21,119 --> 01:01:27,639
So that the AI stuff is cool.
But it is it's still a still
1220
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:29,159
going to need some fun still.
But it's not replacing the human
1221
01:01:27,679 --> 01:01:31,599
just yet.
Not Replacing the not okay,
1222
01:01:31,599 --> 01:01:37,079
you want only they reacted
the little value for value spiel
1223
01:01:33,519 --> 01:01:38,679
before we absolutely go
Oh I'll give it to you
1224
01:01:37,079 --> 01:01:40,559
to old folks.
Obviously you talked about the
1225
01:01:38,679 --> 01:01:42,360
the scams
that we went through, the B scam
1226
01:01:40,559 --> 01:01:44,000
lounge.
I can't talk about it in depth,
1227
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,519
but what we're trying to do here,
you know, we're like a value,
1228
01:01:46,519 --> 01:01:48,920
which means we're trying
to provide value to you
1229
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,000
in the form of this podcast,
right through the audio
1230
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,079
or video, whatever
you watching it at home.
1231
01:01:53,079 --> 01:01:56,199
And the hope is that you sent
through some value back for us.
1232
01:01:56,239 --> 01:01:57,760
I mean, sending three satoshis
through
1233
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:00,519
any of the platforms out there
that enables you to send
1234
01:02:00,519 --> 01:02:03,960
boost games or streaming stats
through podcast platforms
1235
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,239
that found
this pod versus cast somatic.
1236
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:11,800
You can obviously listen to
us and various other platforms
1237
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:15,519
Spotify, Apple, YouTube, etc.
but we do want to see the support
1238
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,199
coming through in that form.
And look what
1239
01:02:16,199 --> 01:02:18,280
we've been seeing in there
in the last couple of weeks.
1240
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,119
But there's also been periods
where we didn't have that.
1241
01:02:20,119 --> 01:02:23,559
What we want to establish is
we want to be providing
1242
01:02:22,039 --> 01:02:24,960
enough value
back to you more and more lines
1243
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,480
so that you are providing it
back in that way.
1244
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,440
And we do really, really
appreciate it being through.
1245
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:33,360
We know station, which is a
fractional bitcoin amount.
1246
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:38,280
Again, as I mentioned,
we want to make it easier for you
1247
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:40,559
to support us to help us out.
If you have been doing
1248
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:43,559
so already. Amazing.
If you want to hand in terms of,
1249
01:02:40,559 --> 01:02:46,559
you know, maybe your interest
that you really want to support,
1250
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:48,199
but you you can
and you want to personalize help.
1251
01:02:48,199 --> 01:02:49,800
Look, we'll give you a white
glove service.
1252
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,679
We've done it before
with a couple of people,
1253
01:02:51,679 --> 01:02:54,239
send us written messages,
emails, whatever it might be.
1254
01:02:54,239 --> 01:02:57,559
We're happy to help out.
But those are the primary ways
1255
01:02:55,199 --> 01:03:01,440
that you can help us.
And if you send in 100,000 sets
1256
01:02:57,559 --> 01:03:04,760
and that is
we will send a t shirt
1257
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:08,000
your way, as I was explaining
Miyamoto's t shirt,
1258
01:03:05,039 --> 01:03:09,960
it's it's pretty quick.
It's actually
1259
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,519
it's a good t shirt. I like it.
It's try
1260
01:03:11,519 --> 01:03:14,079
I try not wear it too much
because I don't want
1261
01:03:12,639 --> 01:03:16,079
to wear it out, to be honest.
Yeah. You don't wear that. Yeah.
1262
01:03:16,079 --> 01:03:21,920
The so the cost of that at
the moment is probably about $40
1263
01:03:22,039 --> 01:03:24,719
and that is just
with the bitcoin price.
1264
01:03:24,719 --> 01:03:27,599
Now bitcoin price goes up, we're
not going to be lowering it.
1265
01:03:27,599 --> 01:03:30,239
So no,
keep me on $100 on Saturday
1266
01:03:30,239 --> 01:03:34,679
if you want to get in quick.
Yeah. It's just an incentive
1267
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:37,760
for those who support early.
You know you can get
1268
01:03:34,679 --> 01:03:40,199
you can get the thing,
you can get the prize,
1269
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:42,440
you can win by without having
to actually spend as much.
1270
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:46,679
So and I'll I'll take a leaf
out of Bobby hundreds as well.
1271
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:51,639
This is a limited edition.
You know this one real straight
1272
01:03:49,519 --> 01:03:52,880
this one.
We're not going to recreate it.
1273
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:56,079
We're not reprinting it.
None of that. Yeah. If you think
1274
01:03:56,079 --> 01:03:58,320
if you get into it, you get it
right at the beginning,
1275
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,440
I'd say there's never again
with running 50 and shirts left
1276
01:04:01,679 --> 01:04:05,599
if I had to guess again.
So if you want any of those 15
1277
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,840
remaining ones,
you might make sure
1278
01:04:05,599 --> 01:04:09,039
you send in three. If not,
they'll never be created again
1279
01:04:09,039 --> 01:04:12,519
and never make sure
you're a medium or large or
1280
01:04:13,559 --> 01:04:16,559
because.
Because they don't have that
1281
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:19,280
many other tools as I've left.
Exactly. Me more or less
1282
01:04:18,239 --> 01:04:21,199
willing to leave it there.
Thank you very much for joining
1283
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:23,559
us. Amusing using.
Thank you for welcoming me
1284
01:04:21,199 --> 01:04:26,719
back to the podcast
and thank you for coming
1285
01:04:23,559 --> 01:04:29,840
to keeping the sales afloat
and the wind in our sales
1286
01:04:26,719 --> 01:04:31,480
in the last couple of weeks.
So thank you very much, Kyrin
1287
01:04:30,039 --> 01:04:33,039
Thank you very much.
I remember I was listening about
1288
01:04:33,039 --> 01:04:35,719
the immortal lines
that is all won out,
1289
01:04:35,719 --> 01:04:40,480
carrying out who we good? Nice.
00:00:03,959 --> 00:00:10,960
We all can be more than
welcome back Mere Mortalites
2
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to another edition of Musings.
Yes, you are.
3
00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,839
Do not adjust your headsets
or the video
4
00:00:14,839 --> 00:00:19,039
that you're watching right now.
It is Juan back once again
5
00:00:15,839 --> 00:00:23,640
into the mere mortal fold.
It is the 17th of May 2023,
6
00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:25,600
and we've got musings.
So I look Kyrin’s
7
00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,480
been holding down the fort
for a little while ago.
8
00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,839
On the other end.
Yeah. Yeah. In here, definitely.
9
00:00:29,839 --> 00:00:32,119
I still here?
Definitely still here. He's been.
10
00:00:32,119 --> 00:00:34,079
He's been powering
along with the main models
11
00:00:34,079 --> 00:00:37,079
now for the last couple of weeks
while I've been away.
12
00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,079
And I was going to say,
you know, canceling out.
13
00:00:40,079 --> 00:00:43,000
Not really.
It hasn't been so much
14
00:00:40,719 --> 00:00:44,640
as you'd imagine.
However, that been some
15
00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,719
things has been pretty cool.
So I wanted to
16
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for today's musings, really just
start talking about
17
00:00:47,719 --> 00:00:53,359
the realities of becoming a dad.
Obviously make sense.
18
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Just became a dad or 5th of May.
So that's been 12 days now
19
00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:03,759
since, you know,
I transitioned from being yeah,
20
00:00:59,759 --> 00:01:07,200
normal Papa, Daddy want
to, you know, bona fide
21
00:01:03,759 --> 00:01:09,519
dad here in the memorial's.
We got a little more
22
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and more ladies joined us.
I was little man. She wasn't.
23
00:01:09,519 --> 00:01:13,879
She wasn't so little.
Well, she exactly.
24
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She wasn't so little.
And we knew that she was.
25
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And we want her name as well.
One, everyone's
26
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clamoring, clamoring
out for a name which I to
27
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I got to call it outside Vienna
VA. And now so
28
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yes she when she was born,
we we had an idea that she was
29
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sizable kind of
but in and came out like chunky
30
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look she came out
I would have imagined
31
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like a little bit of quads,
you know, a little bit of arms
32
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going to her for those on
the imperial system,
33
00:01:39,799 --> 00:01:42,680
just shy of £9, you know,
and pretty long as well.
34
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So, so big girl, just baby girl
right now
35
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I look I'll get into some
some of the detail
36
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into that today.
So when I was thinking about
37
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you know
this might not be a super
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long musings,
but I wanted to kind of share
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some of the reality
of becoming a dad,
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especially my expectations
versus what it is now.
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So, I mean,
that's going to be a key thing.
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And from your side,
I was probably thinking,
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you know,
I've got a couple go ahead
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and ask the questions as well.
Yeah, anything that we want
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as well, like five three. So
let me
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get started on the biggest one
that was going to be on my mind,
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right? Sleeping. Sleeping.
So I'll let you actually think
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this through.
What do you think my sleep has
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looked like this month?
So the month of May and again,
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baby was born on the 5th of May.
So there was obviously a
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precursor to things before that.
Would you have seen that
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my sleep is getting worse?
Better about the same.
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If you look at the numbers,
I do have some numbers,
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but off top of my head
I would have said
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you're probably getting less
and it's more interrupted.
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But it could be
one of those ones where it's
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it's also not impacting you
as much as perhaps it's
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impacting your partner
because she
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she does want us to kind of
get up and feed the baby
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and whatnot.
So I would have said a lessened,
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but maybe not not crazy
crazy much sun but I mean 12 days
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that it's a good cool
look my expectation was
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I already for the mere mortals
that I'm probably not
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I don't sleep all that often
like I don't sleep that much
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and I was like he sleeps more
kind of me currently.
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Yet in generality, dude,
I've been sleeping more. Okay.
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I've been sleeping more
since the baby's been here
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than otherwise.
Now some numbers for you.
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Previous month
or the month before. On average,
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I was sleeping about 6 hours
and 50 minutes, 6 hours,
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55 minutes over those months.
But time in bed was around seven
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and a half hours. Now, roughly,
it's time in bed
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is 8 hours and 15 minutes.
So I'm in bed
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for 45 more minutes,
but I'm sleeping for about 7
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hours and 5 minutes on average.
So you can technically say
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I'm sleeping more on average,
but it is at the offset.
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AT yes, I am having way
more broken sleep.
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And I'll give you
I'll give you a little story.
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So first of all, this is my
first learning to sleep routine.
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Routine in general,
so goddamn important.
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So we've had
ever since we sort of like
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came back from the hospital
every single day.
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It was been pretty good.
From a nighttime perspective.
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Sleeping has been kind of, well,
a slight routine.
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But one day Saturday,
to be precise,
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we just didn't do the routine
that we were normally
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going to do. Right. We didn't do
particular not be time,
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we didn't do tummy time,
we didn't do bath
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in a particular order.
We just thought, cool, whatever.
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That particular
night I end up staying up till.
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So I kind of got a little bit
of sleep before 10 p.m.
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and then up until two
in the morning with her
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until she was like Peters
self out of energy
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and actually got herself to bed.
So the biggest piece there
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for me learning was, okay, Matt,
it is so super important
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for a sleep routine,
especially with a baby
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especially,
but I'm actually not too
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dissatisfied with my sleeping.
Yeah. So, you know, overall
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I was kind of like
is just because
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you're not working as well.
So you kind of getting Napster
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in the well here.
So here's the other one, right?
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So with the I thought the two
I thought I'll have to have,
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you know, the naps.
And, you know,
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they always say sleep
when when the baby's sleeping.
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I don't think this is true.
In general, if they're sleeping
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pretty badly at night.
But Saturday that, you know,
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she slept terribly. I wasn't good
the next day. Right.
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I like slept in quite a bit.
But to your point about work,
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I've actually started
working already this week,
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so not full time.
So I'm still working part time
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and I'm working
basically seven in the morning
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till midday right from home.
So it's quite easy to do,
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but it hasn't so much been
affecting it that way.
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And even so, he is he is
the next little piece training.
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If I had to sort of set myself,
what's the expectation of my
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training and becoming a dad
Now again, let me lay
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the foundation for people
I love train.
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I was training like an hour
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I'm trying to train like an hour
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before baby was coming,
I was doing six days a week
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and it was really enjoyable.
And I put myself
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I even write on my monthly goals
for my training.
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I'm clear it was blank.
That was like, I'm not following
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any training routine. I'm just
I have no idea what to expect.
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My expectation here is I'm
probably not going to train
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for three weeks.
Maybe I'll get a run in.
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Who knows? You don't know
what you're going to expect.
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But once again, man,
you know, today
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it's been three days in a row
at the gym and again,
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going at 430 in the morning
until about seven
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in the morning, starts
getting up again,
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was already going to the gym,
coming back home.
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So once again, even that routine
and only and only
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if the sleep routine
with the baby is done
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correctly the night before
does a follow along kind
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of nicely into the next day,
because she'll generally sleep
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for me at the very least kind of.
She'll wake up to am,
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she'll wake up at 430 or 5 a.m.
and then she'll sleep
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all the way to like 7:38 a.m..
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I kind of get up at that time,
go to work out, come back in
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and support the family.
So that that was also,
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I think, the two biggest
shockers for me
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that I genuinely thought
it was going to be like,
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Well, I'm it's not going to be
the same for a while.
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Yeah. Are you feeling weaker?
So I saw something about
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I think it was a small snippet
from entry camp.
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Been about how expectant dads
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even just afterwards as well.
I have like
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50% less testosterone than
before or afterwards.
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and maybe afterwards. So before.
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And I think I mentioned to you
this in passing,
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but I basically didn't tell you.
So I'll I'll fill in the
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the details here for the
for the mere mortals at home.
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The me immortalize is
I did a powerlifting competition
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basically
two days before baby was born.
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So and that came out of someone
sending me
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through a message on Instagram.
No like hey I want to do this Roy
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competition for
is essentially just a max bench
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max squat, Max deadlift.
And I was basically like,
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Oh, you know,
that's pretty interesting.
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He seemed like a pretty fun
character.
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I've met him a couple of times
before. I said, Yeah,
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why not want to do it?
I was off work at that time
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and I took a partner
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Oh, okay, cool, let's do it.
She actually thought
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she was getting like
potential baby delivery feelings
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in the morning,
but we're like, Oh,
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we might not be able to make it.
In any case, I was able to go,
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but you know, long story short,
I was able to
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do not my full max bench.
So I think I hit 155,
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but I was able
to do a really heavy squat,
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heavy deadlift
for the current time.
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So no, not really. Like strength
actually kept quite nicely
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and even the training.
Now look, no,
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heavy things at the moment.
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But here's
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You know how I was training
quite hard to increase my fitness
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while I was doing the hard work.
Pays off
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Matt Frazier up and I could see
what I'd previously done day
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for like a month and a half ago,
and I just restarted it again.
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just restart,
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just kind of like re baseline
myself with it whenever I can.
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a particular workout
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that I did about a month
and a half ago, a minute so far.
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So I like
and it's an overall ten,
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12 minute domain,
so about 10% better.
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So I was like, Damn, this is
actually quite good, I will say.
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So this is the caveat.
You know, people at home,
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I'd be like, Hey,
oh, this is not so bad.
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Like, you know,
this just must feels easy.
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I will say we have been
unbelievably blessed that she's
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actually a good sleeper,
a good fighter, a good
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like everything, you know,
families,
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healthy feedings, healthy,
you know, the breastfeeding
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come easy. A lot of these things,
which are the key points
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when that goes wrong,
then you're in for some pain
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that hasn't happened for us.
So, you know, take the caveat,
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take a little grain of salt
that I'm saying all of this
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in the full knowledge that it's
not it's probably better than
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than the average expectations,
but it hasn't changed.
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So, you know, those two key ones
I want to talk about sleep and
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and training. I was
those are the two that
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I was really concerned about.
I was concerned, hey,
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these are going to go down
and they're going to go down
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to the point
that I'm going to be annoyed,
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frustrated, you know, maybe
even like really disheartened
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by what's going on,
because I'm not able to get
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the right sleep or inversely
get the right training
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back and forth sort of thing.
MM Yeah. Interesting.
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I was going to ask about the,
the cost as well.
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So like the realities of,
of living in 2023, the modern
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maybe like it was,
it was something
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I was thinking about recently,
it was like, you know why
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I could get
knowledge of what it is like
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to be a first time dad anywhere
in the world, basically,
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in that there's so much content
of podcasts of I'm
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starting to see you
using our YouTube channel.
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So book time is starting to pop
up for me and I see it in the
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the black and white videos
coming up at all. No,
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I haven't seen them. Okay.
So here's
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one for the people at home.
I'll actually recently learned
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about this
a few months ago from Tofte
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for his baby.
And basically it's that,
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you know, babies
up until six weeks,
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eight weeks or ten weeks
roughly around
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that they don't really see the
world as the world that we see.
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It's quite blurry.
But what they see really
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well is contrasting like really
highly contrasted colors.
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So black and white for them,
they can determine the shapes.
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So if you want to do this now,
people at home you'd go find
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I just type in black and white
baby on YouTube.
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And what you get is these short
two long videos
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with some music overlaid will
just be shapes and circles.
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it would be like psychedelic.
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a psychedelic
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or something and watch it, it's
basically that.
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But for the babies
and you can actually see her
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eyes like pinpoint
where things move
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and stuff like that.
So that's pretty cool.
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So anyways, yeah,
you start to see
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a lot of more of baby things
but to the realities of cost.
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Yeah. Yeah.
How much does the baby cost in
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2023. What, what do you look
expectations
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both beforehand and afterwards.
No. Okay.
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So look I'll keep the things
away of like
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furniture in that because
the furniture you can kind of
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Oh oh that's so,
you know, precursory furniture.
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Yeah. Baby.
Specific like a bassinet
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changing table, you know, we,
we may do
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with a pretty cheap stuff
around that sort of furniture,
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but honestly, you're
probably going to need at least
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a couple of hundred dollars
when it comes to bassinet,
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especially like a safe bassinet
and your furniture pieces
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where they really get you well,
it really gets you
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the costs were really gets
you know, he also needs
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I guess you need a bath you know
you need a little bath for them.
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You can put them in a bucket.
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I said, you know, prams I've had
prams are really expensive.
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How much you reckon
we paid for our pram?
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I'll share with me more like 200
because we went a little bit
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more expensive. Oh, jeez.
I want to say reasonably like
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200 bucks or something.
Dude, dude, you're not.
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No, not like that's like
people are home now.
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I'm saying the Australian
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dollars I went in, I went in
as a just absolutely blissful,
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like a couple of wheels
of wheels and some
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I thought a couple of wheels,
you know, came on
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just get the thing that $700 down
700 is how much we paid and they
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it was like below $1,000.
It was slim pickings at best.
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Then the when sort of upwards
now, yes, you can get cheaper
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loans. You can.
But honestly the lower cost ones
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are so flimsy and probably
not even like useful, honestly.
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Plus, you know,
you get into those conversations
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around, you know, for a newborn,
it has to be completely flat.
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Then do you want to go
and buy a new pram
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in a year's time
where they're going
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to go on a certain angle?
So there's those complexities
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as well. Same thing
with a baby chip for the car
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that's again 400 and something
dollars and you can again,
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do you want to just be an infant?
Do you want to be 002
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for four years, 0 to 8 years?
You can have to mix up like,
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how long do you want this thing?
So, okay,
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so that's another big cost.
But honestly,
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I thought that that was going
to be probably the biggest.
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The reality is
I think the biggest cost it
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nappies I was yes just about I'm
going to I'm going to combine
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this with flexibility rocks
is another point I write down
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in in becoming a dad.
One of the things I've noticed
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is that, hey,
you better believe you're going
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to have to be flexible
to change the nappies of your
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baby and the parents at home.
They'll they'll get this.
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But for non-parents,
you'll be like, Wait, what?
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Basically on the daily
until a certain point in time
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you have to know
how many weeks and poos
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your baby does every single day.
And you need to keep
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track of that.
You need to keep track of that.
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Now in that we've sort of noticed
that probably like so now, right.
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How many diapers
would you think a baby would go
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through on daily?
Now on a newborn out of newborn,
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you'd imagine. No. Which newborn?
Yeah, a newborn. I'd maybe
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guess like six or something.
Do it again.
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I would have expected six.
That's gone on.
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I mean, we got given
two nappy bags that total
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up to 104 nappies gone
before the first ten days gone.
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Right. That that cost of nappies
or you know, if you want to get
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on the path of reusable nappies
washing everything else,
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you can do that too.
Yeah that costs is going
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to add up quick for people.
And you know, I think it's,
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you know, 20 $30 will not be bag
probably last year a week
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if that. So you're thinking
just like that additional costs.
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Yeah it's
going to be a normal covering
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it's a lot so it's a lot
so that and I mean again
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thankfully
breastfeeding is going really
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well but if you if you went
that wasn't the case
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then definitely formula
would be just an arm and a leg.
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And it used to be sorry,
expensive in Australia
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because everyone was trying
to buy it
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from for overseas and the like
while China was buying it
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from here. The Chinese trying to
was trying to buy
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while Chinese individuals
were buying in,
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some sending it over
or sending it direct.
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And then there was limitations
on how much
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you can actually purchase here.
Now I know if
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that's still the limitation
kind has come down, but again,
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that cost hasn't been.
But besides that,
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it hasn't been knit
well, probably as a family
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saving money
because we're not going out
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anyway. Right.
They'll think the right. Yeah.
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You know, I was actually looking
through the credit card statement
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and that and honestly,
we've probably been spending
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50%, 60% less
because it we're not out,
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we're not at restaurants,
we're not a dinners,
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we're not going out the place,
not buying coffee out.
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I'm cooking all my meals
and freezing all my meals,
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all eating at home.
It's fairly straightforward.
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Yeah.
You know, driving in that way,
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you don't using any fuel.
So, you know, net now
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they're saving a bit of money
because a lot of those
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a lot of capital
that came in the beginning
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I don't know is offset by that.
Wow that's that's funny. That's a
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that's a positive spin on it
that I haven't thought of. Yeah.
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One of the other things
I was going to say was
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I was asking my dad about,
you know, just the first time
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birth and whatnot.
So I was the first one
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and he was saying I was actually
like a really great child.
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And I think about by 12 weeks
I was sleeping
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through the whole night. And so,
you know, it is it's
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the the horror stories that
I have just heard in general.
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And this is just, you know,
offhand comments
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from just society and lodge.
This is terrible twos
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and the just say goodbye
to four five years of of life
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because that's all
I just really don't think it's
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like that man and look again
I'm just saying you know
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it might not be the reality,
but I'll give you an example,
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like a real example.
If you were looking at the video,
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you can check this out
and I can talk through it.
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But this is a little app
and I don't know
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if you can see that clearly here.
If I've seen an angle,
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this is just the the bassinet
that we use for her sleep.
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Now, that's the nighttime
patterns.
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So what you see in that sunshine
car right now
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is kind of a U-shaped view.
Absolutely.
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Kind of gives us an idea of
the amount of sleep
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that the baby gets.
Now, it's obviously just the time
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that they're in bed,
not how much they're asleep.
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But if you look at the blue
that I'm showing you right now,
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those are the big chunks of sleep
that that she goes
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through. Right.
And so if I was to read it out,
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you know,
we put it to bed at 857,
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she kind of got up at 930,
sorry, like nine, ten,
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went back to sleep at 930
all the way till two
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in the morning, said till 230.
Slept all the way to 5
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a.m.. Right.
So you know, for me right
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now, more or less
I wake up like two
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or three times anyways
through my sleep
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regardless. Right. Like I kind of
that's already me.
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I'm not sleeping
all the way through.
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So, you know, for me it hasn't
be so much of a difference.
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And I guess I'm.
Yeah, knock on wood.
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That's continues to be the case.
Might not be as it goes to,
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but that's probably something
I'll keep sharing through
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the podcast as well
if things changes.
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But at least from
my expectations about that,
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it's been pretty not what?
No. Wildly different.
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Not, not like it's
just been perfect,
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but it has been a lot better
than what I expected it to be.
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Nice. Nice.
What do you say we get on to the
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booster gremlins
and then we do some
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like psychological realities,
some of the the mental stuff
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that that's changed
that we can do that
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plus for people at home on you
to stick around
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because I'm going to be talking
a little bit as well about the
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the delivery and the expectation
this the realities of it as well,
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because this is the first time,
one I have been
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speaking since the
turn of the year, and
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it has has graced our our world.
So, yeah, our shores.
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Lots of cool stuff. All right.
Very good.
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Well, let's do the memorials
Booster grim.
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Let's let me just start off
with one thing. So I don't know
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if you've had time
to check into the last musings,
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but the we had a really, really,
really awesome week last one.
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Sorry night. So I digress.
Yes, I did relisten to that
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big portion
that you took through of
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all the sets
that did came through.
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And I'm basically I'm yeah,
a lot of stuff came in
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and I unfortunately
have to do to make goods
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because I missed them.
So that was one from here we go.
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So there was one from Dave
Jones and Self and he sent in
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and now once again this is,
is kind of hard because
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I'm getting like the 10th of it.
So I think he sent it
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in about 5000 sets and he said,
Thanks for the interview, Karen,
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and congrats to one and two.
Thank you. Dave.
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Yeah, sent sent one a little
congrats on the actual thing.
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It was as well.
And then there was
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one I think from Adam
Curry Self, which
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I can't remember if I did this
big massive one, the 77,700.
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So I did do that one.
So that was one from
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Chad if I heard my name.
So I had to boost
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maybe it was that one.
So that was one, two, three,
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four sets with pod verse.
Once again, I think
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I've kind of got this wrong.
So I was probably about 12,000.
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But yeah, yeah.
A couple of make goods there.
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Yeah, it was Chad
I did forget to do his apologies
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for, for those two.
It was, it was a big
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it was a big week last week
and I do I did hear that
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you were very appreciative
and it does help
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when you get weeks
like that. Yeah.
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Especially when you're doing it
on your own as well. Right.
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Like, well, it fills the content
and it's good you like, Oh,
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this zap came through
at a good time for sure. Yeah.
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So let me start from here.
I've got a couple from
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so I may 12 onwards we've got one
from ourselves car.
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And so this is, well,
this message well this message
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make it to the diary stream
telegram and just got bottled
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fire on the next musings
which it did on northern states
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I'm I'm sad that it. Well yeah
it seems annoying
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that some of these things
are not coming through.
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I think I've been chatting
I've been chatting with them.
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Some other people in the
Telegram chat
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were also saying the same thing.
So yeah, hopefully, hopefully
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that has been fixed, but
it's been
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fixed many times in the past.
So many times before.
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We've got one from Mad alt V,
thanks 100% using fountain.
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Brilliant, brilliant.
Thank you very much.
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We're going from Scott 1234 SATs
and using Perverse so he says
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congrats on learning coding.
You are correct.
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Lots of people learn a new
programing language in a week.
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I've done it several times.
I love your analysis though
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I do feel like sometimes
we use programing languages
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to communicate with other humans.
We've had algorithms
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that didn't make sense
until the other person showed me
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the code
does kind of like visualize
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for spoken explanation.
Well, I appreciate it.
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Thank you so much. Man.
I can't say I've learned coding.
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I, I tried learning it
and gave up.
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That was that was basically
the UK of that whole thing.
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You know how I said to you
in the past I've said, like,
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you know, I can kind of I could
I know that I can read code
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the particular code,
but I can kind of understand it
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and have some conversations
with people.
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And look, that might be true
to some regard.
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But then when I was reading
this about, you know,
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learning coding,
I don't know if you've listened
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to the conversation between Lex
Freedman and Wolfram.
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Yeah, so great.
So that's Stephen Wolfram.
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I am about midway through it
at the moment.
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The latest one. Yeah. Yeah.
Like the one that came out
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seven days ago.
And honestly, dude,
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it's like I'm a child, I'm,
I'm listening and relistening
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and going like,
I thought I understood
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what they were talking about
and just certain things
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just fly of me.
I kind of think about it
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in this way of,
you know, when you say
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like learning coding or,
you know, coding,
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like, you know it
to a certain standard, just like
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I know to a certain extent
until that saying it changes
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completely or you're
talking about something else
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and it's like, Whoa, yeah, I'm
not understanding
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what's going on.
Yeah, yeah, I can't,
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I can't take any,
I can't take the compliment.
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It's a, it's my, my,
my bad habit kicks in again.
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But yeah, I appreciate it.
We will text books again.
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We will take the biscuits
and the cigaret,
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especially because it was from
verse and it was kind of that,
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you know, just from Scott.
I don't know who's got us. Do
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you know who's got us to that?
No, I don't know.
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So that was really cool.
Just, just getting in
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like a, a message from someone
who has some kind of an answer
489
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,920
that presents before.
Or at least you reckon
490
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,960
this would have been
from the book review.
491
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,680
Now, I can tell you it was.
No, I can't tell you.
492
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,759
No, it wouldn't be.
The book reviews
493
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,759
these don't come into the.
Yeah. Yeah.
494
00:24:34,759 --> 00:24:37,319
So it would have been from the,
the chat with Dave
495
00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:39,880
because I did speak about coding
and whatnot though.
496
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,880
So there are a couple
that did get
497
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,640
well I've got, I've got one more
one more that came in today
498
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,400
from Martin and he's let's test
the screen with a symbol
499
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,119
and he put two little Rocket's
rocket ships in it
500
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,519
That's 500 south
using Portland. Yes.
501
00:24:55,519 --> 00:24:58,319
So the cool thing and
he's been doing a lot of like
502
00:24:59,279 --> 00:25:03,200
it's funny. So I reached out to
for the depths
503
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:09,599
of who I use their actual
that their products so this is
504
00:25:09,599 --> 00:25:12,440
this is Mitch Downey
with pod verse this is Stephen
505
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:18,119
B with Kerry Acosta.
This is, I suppose Fountain
506
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:21,559
So him all the time, Oscar, Mary
and then also Martin
507
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:23,880
from Pod Friend.
And you know, he was
508
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,039
he was saying like, oh yeah, it's
so awesome getting these booster
509
00:25:25,559 --> 00:25:31,079
cramps coming in.
And really it's kind of like
510
00:25:28,039 --> 00:25:31,960
it feels like the kind of meant
for me now as well.
511
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,960
And they are but this season
1% in the split but
512
00:25:36,039 --> 00:25:41,480
you know he's already sent in
probably more than he'll
513
00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:43,039
get from us in I don't know,
two months or three months,
514
00:25:43,039 --> 00:25:45,440
just just with us
being the new testing food.
515
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,279
So it's one of those things
where it's like, you know,
516
00:25:47,279 --> 00:25:50,000
if you're just kind to people
that that typically kind back.
517
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:55,200
So absolutely. And you know, like
unannounced kindness so I didn't
518
00:25:56,079 --> 00:25:58,640
ask for anything from
any of them was just like, hey,
519
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,759
I just want to put you
in the splits. That'd be
520
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,440
that'd be cool. So yeah, thanks.
Thanks to him. So hopefully Will
521
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,519
will be his standard
test grade from now on. Kid.
522
00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:09,880
Yeah. Okay. So there's a
couple here
523
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,039
that I can go through which
didn't come through the app.
524
00:26:13,039 --> 00:26:17,880
So I don't know if I talk about
this one, but no, I didn't.
525
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,160
So you'll,
you'll be glad to hear this one.
526
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:25,559
So 2222 and this is from
a random person using cosmetics.
527
00:26:25,559 --> 00:26:28,559
I can't actually see the name.
It was anonymous. And they said,
528
00:26:28,559 --> 00:26:31,079
Look, Dave, I'm glad to hear
you're going to build the X
529
00:26:31,079 --> 00:26:33,000
border That includes value box.
At some point.
530
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,720
I'm going to want that too.
So Dave, being prescient as usual
531
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,480
and saying if one person wants
it, other people will want it.
532
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,480
So yeah, that's
that is something that
533
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,240
I, I hopefully will need
in the near future as well.
534
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,680
And it was,
it was just once again
535
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,680
like one of those ones
where I was like, I assumed,
536
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,000
okay, he's
getting these, the stuff
537
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:57,720
that's coming from Fountain
and he's just
538
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,799
reconstructing the feed
and then that feed
539
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:02,160
goes out to everyone.
But no, it's, it's
540
00:26:59,799 --> 00:27:06,000
kind of all in the database.
It really just kind of showed
541
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:10,160
how little I know
about databases and, and what,
542
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:14,839
how they actually work,
what stuff that you'd think
543
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:18,720
would just be a natural fit.
Oh, it's that he would just get
544
00:27:14,839 --> 00:27:21,000
that data, reconstruct
an RSS feed
545
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,599
and you know that would go
but man,
546
00:27:21,599 --> 00:27:25,119
that would probably be a whole
ton of work to do that day.
547
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,839
So yeah, it's all these like
hidden things in the back room.
548
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:35,880
7777 sets from none
other than Peter he exists is
549
00:27:32,039 --> 00:27:37,359
Oh no, I did see this.
I did see through
550
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,799
I didn't see it at the time,
but I saw it come through.
551
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:41,799
It would have been Legos
on Fountain.
552
00:27:41,799 --> 00:27:44,000
Yeah, it could have been that.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
553
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,799
And he says Dave Part pod, bro.
Jones keeping it real
554
00:27:46,799 --> 00:27:51,200
and then a, a double
little double motif exists. Yeah.
555
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,319
So he actually saw this
discord message.
556
00:27:53,319 --> 00:27:58,799
I sent him a fair while ago.
He responded to that
557
00:27:55,319 --> 00:28:01,200
and was just like, Yeah, no,
you know, nothing.
558
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:04,920
Nothing in particular.
He was just tired of NFT talk
559
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:08,839
and any NFT talk. And I was like,
Yeah, well, I guess we actually
560
00:28:05,279 --> 00:28:10,680
have had some in there, so
but not really,
561
00:28:09,279 --> 00:28:14,960
really appreciate it.
Peter And also I appreciated
562
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:18,240
that he's, he's not to his you
can catch up to him still he's
563
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,680
he's left that gap there
so it's not it's not still
564
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:23,400
Yeah he still left it
available for people
565
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,000
if they want to jump in. Yeah.
If you want to send through
566
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,759
3,000,003 million
that's just straight in.
567
00:28:26,759 --> 00:28:29,480
If you'd like to try to catch up.
If you're fresh, feel free
568
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:33,519
to do so. Yeah. Brilliant.
I think you got the absurd
569
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,480
one there.
You missed your own one, Dave.
570
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,839
Good to see the main man back
on. Thanks for this chat.
571
00:28:37,839 --> 00:28:41,680
Another other than 1g1g
in the in the house.
572
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,559
So that was you?
I didn't even know
573
00:28:44,559 --> 00:28:47,559
you changed your name to that,
so that was pretty cool.
574
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,880
One here from Chris
last another big one,
575
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:56,720
the 77,777 says
Just a great Chinese
576
00:28:56,839 --> 00:29:01,000
conversation made me love
Dave even more. This was a great
577
00:28:59,079 --> 00:29:03,119
listen while Brant and I
were driving around
578
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,559
and there's been some bump
and good stuff
579
00:29:03,119 --> 00:29:06,480
coming through in the boot.
Trans fat.
580
00:29:04,559 --> 00:29:08,440
Yeah, and really, really cool.
So wow, I've reached out to
581
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:12,000
Chris. We've got a conversation
lined up for hopefully the 25th
582
00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:16,920
and I'll have 24 May 25th.
May Yes, correct.
583
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,559
And I'll have to ask him
about getting him a shirt,
584
00:29:19,559 --> 00:29:22,960
so I would like to
get one to him. But he wasn't
585
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,920
he didn't immediately jump on it
when I reached out
586
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,920
the first time.
So I'll just be sure to do it
587
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:32,119
in person. I can confirm that
another Miyamoto shirt is out in
588
00:29:32,119 --> 00:29:36,359
the wild today.
I have posted one going to Adam,
589
00:29:36,559 --> 00:29:41,559
so I got him to Adam
Curry speaking. Yeah.
590
00:29:41,559 --> 00:29:45,200
And then finally
as I was trying to post it,
591
00:29:42,799 --> 00:29:48,640
so he gave me a P.O.
box as far as where to send it
592
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:52,519
to. And I didn't make a scene
or anything at the post office,
593
00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:56,079
but I gave them this, you know,
fill in all these details,
594
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,400
all of my details,
all of his details that I know.
595
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:06,000
And then they get it
and they go, Oh, I don't know
596
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:09,559
if we can send to a P.O. box.
And this is just like I'm
597
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:12,279
sending from a post office
to another post office.
598
00:30:09,559 --> 00:30:14,720
Isn't this what you do? Oh, you
come on. That can't. You can't.
599
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,839
This is not how post offices
work. No, obviously. No.
600
00:30:17,839 --> 00:30:21,480
So. So that one is a to be seen
if it'll get delivered or not.
601
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,559
Okay. So it's in transit. Adam,
if you're listening to this,
602
00:30:24,559 --> 00:30:29,160
I really hope you actually get
that damn shirt. Yeah, Let's hope
603
00:30:27,119 --> 00:30:31,200
the Australian Post works well.
Yeah, I should like for sure.
604
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,279
Now, this one, I'm not.
I'm not sure if it's a booster
605
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:36,759
gram or not. It's.
It's only $0.10. So I mean $0.10
606
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:40,519
is very much appreciate it.
But it was just says thanks
607
00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:43,960
and it was from at mad
and mad out V
608
00:30:44,079 --> 00:30:48,920
sent using fountain.
So I think that might be one of
609
00:30:46,079 --> 00:30:50,279
those comments where it's like
I don't know what it is
610
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,200
a comment, but it's not a boost
something something like that.
611
00:30:52,200 --> 00:31:00,319
But yeah, definitely
some some stuff coming in. I also
612
00:30:56,799 --> 00:31:02,599
had something to talk about.
Yeah,
613
00:31:01,319 --> 00:31:05,039
those, those were the big ones.
Oh, one of the things
614
00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:08,000
I was going to say is we've met.
We've never actually really used
615
00:31:05,039 --> 00:31:10,799
the numerology a lot.
Part of that is because we've,
616
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,640
we've screwed it up
a whole bunch of times.
617
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,119
You know, even just in this,
I screwed up some of the
618
00:31:14,119 --> 00:31:17,119
the numbers coming in now,
I believe
619
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,039
a bunch of sevens like that
as a strike, a boost.
620
00:31:20,039 --> 00:31:22,839
I'm not sure what
a striper boost is. I think it's
621
00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:26,000
another album or something
like from from back in the day.
622
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,480
But I was I was going to say
a suggestion
623
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,160
for the memorial arts at home is
if you're
624
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,359
if you're going to boost
something in I would suggest
625
00:31:32,519 --> 00:31:39,880
sending in a3838. The baby boost.
The baby boost
626
00:31:36,359 --> 00:31:42,920
because that is 3834
baby on a calculator
627
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:45,480
if you hold it upside down.
And yeah, I think
628
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:49,599
that'll be a fun one for one.
So they got 3838
629
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:53,039
so in a baby boost.
Okay so for next week
630
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:55,000
we see plenty of baby
baby seven to see 3838
631
00:31:53,039 --> 00:31:59,119
coming through. So you know
even if you normally send 5000
632
00:31:56,119 --> 00:32:01,039
st 383i want to see more three
eight threats. Yeah definitely.
633
00:32:01,039 --> 00:32:02,960
So the Instagram lands
just for everyone
634
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,440
who is wondering
like what the hell
635
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,440
all these messages and numbers,
random numbers, you're
636
00:32:07,519 --> 00:32:12,279
you're speaking out.
So the way that we get support
637
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:16,640
from this show in a monetary
form is we just ask you to go
638
00:32:12,279 --> 00:32:18,319
to new podcast app Stockholm
and choose
639
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,079
one of the ones from there.
And it's essentially
640
00:32:19,079 --> 00:32:22,079
as you can send in money
in the actual podcasting app.
641
00:32:22,319 --> 00:32:24,359
Now this money is Bitcoin,
but you don't
642
00:32:24,359 --> 00:32:27,160
actually have to really know
that much about it.
643
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,880
You can just kind of
convert it to Fiat
644
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:34,200
and then you get a whole
bunch of numbers and then
645
00:32:30,759 --> 00:32:35,440
you can from fiat into Bitcoin
and send it through.
646
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,920
So I'm working on
making this easier.
647
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,920
I'm trying to do
some work on the site.
648
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,039
I'll talk about this in the
housekeeping right at the end,
649
00:32:43,039 --> 00:32:44,400
about all the things
I'm trying to do.
650
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,839
But that that's, that's
one of the ones
651
00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:49,319
making it easier for people
because I have had a fair
652
00:32:49,319 --> 00:32:52,359
few conversations with people
recently about you're
653
00:32:52,359 --> 00:32:55,440
making it hard
to for us to support you.
654
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,880
And so I'm like, okay, here
I need to need to work on that
655
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:03,240
and make it make it easier,
make a streamlined. These
656
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,240
are messages that
people are sending in to us and
657
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,799
and thinking with an amount
to help support the show.
658
00:33:09,799 --> 00:33:13,119
So very much appreciate it
for everyone who has done that.
659
00:33:13,319 --> 00:33:15,960
Yeah. Yeah, absolutely.
All right.
660
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,720
Let's get back to the normal
proceedings of meetings here.
661
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,400
We're talking
about the psychological. Yeah.
662
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,599
So you had some so is there
is there a difference?
663
00:33:24,599 --> 00:33:26,839
Does it has the weight
of the world hit you on that?
664
00:33:26,839 --> 00:33:31,079
Do you feel different now that
the little Vienna has come out?
665
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:36,480
And do you feel, I don't know,
more responsibility?
666
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,000
It's you know,
you're holding this tiny little,
667
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,720
little creature in your arms
and it's like, wow, I'm now,
668
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:49,079
you know, 50% responsible for
at least the next 18 years of
669
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:54,720
of of molding this child into,
I don't know, something good.
670
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:59,920
You know, it's it's all,
you know. Yeah. I think and again
671
00:33:58,079 --> 00:34:01,400
this might be an unlock
this might not be the general
672
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:02,960
answer to something
like of that question.
673
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:06,279
But for me at least personally
I'm like all the
674
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,320
I'm not anxious about that.
I'm almost like excited
675
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,880
to the front of how this doesn't
feel like a responsibility.
676
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,800
This feels like fun. Like this
is exactly what I wanted.
677
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,400
So I'm also
looking forward to it.
678
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,679
There is definitely being you
like dangling hair off a balcony
679
00:34:20,679 --> 00:34:24,079
of a michael Jackson Jackson's
Now Isn't this fun?
680
00:34:24,599 --> 00:34:27,880
But there has been it's in the
in the minutia
681
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,199
that the responsibility
is quite apparent.
682
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:36,760
So we have a large dog at home.
Right. And, you know, leaving her
683
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,800
all for any
more than a couple of seconds,
684
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,960
you know, throughout day
fills you
685
00:34:41,199 --> 00:34:45,400
with a little bit of the anxiety
slash responsibility of,
686
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,519
oh, my God, where is she?
What's happening?
687
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,360
Is she breathing?
Is she not up against
688
00:34:46,519 --> 00:34:50,679
like a cushion or a pillow?
Always a dog around.
689
00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:54,159
So there's a lot of that extra
responsibility, at least like
690
00:34:54,159 --> 00:34:57,559
psychologically, that you go.
I think normally, you know,
691
00:34:57,559 --> 00:35:00,000
your mind might be filled
with other things,
692
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,639
like let's take a leave from you
right now. Right.
693
00:35:02,639 --> 00:35:07,280
There's probably a lot of stuff
in your mind right now around
694
00:35:03,679 --> 00:35:10,800
just finding a partner.
Doing X-Y-Z
695
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:13,440
is taking a little priority.
Kind of like imagine 90% of
696
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:17,079
that gets replaced
with, hey, is baby doing okay?
697
00:35:17,199 --> 00:35:19,519
Hey, what's changing, Nappy?
Hey, is the crying
698
00:35:19,519 --> 00:35:22,519
I do have to do this, that,
that, whatever with the baby.
699
00:35:22,639 --> 00:35:25,440
That's kind of the feeling,
I guess the transition of it
700
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,559
with the responsibility.
It just feels like
701
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:30,559
it's always on your mind
between me and my partner
702
00:35:28,559 --> 00:35:35,400
at the moment.
Honestly, I reckon we've talked
703
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,920
about other things in the baby,
you know, a handful of times
704
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,440
in the last 12 days,
but not really.
705
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,119
Like it's just been purely
like about the baby,
706
00:35:40,119 --> 00:35:41,519
whether the baby's
going to the toilet,
707
00:35:41,519 --> 00:35:44,000
whether the baby's gone,
you know, going to go for a walk
708
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,960
or the baby's fed,
not fed, all this sort of thing.
709
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:51,400
So just the avalanche of time
that you're spending
710
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:53,960
it just consciously on the baby
come just fills you
711
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:56,119
with that extra responsibility.
But in the long term, nah,
712
00:35:53,960 --> 00:36:00,000
not so much. Doesn't
put that impact, I guess, on,
713
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:02,039
oh, I've got to deliver
or I've got to be
714
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,880
the sort of person
you answered that
715
00:36:02,039 --> 00:36:04,800
like my dad did.
I was saying, you know,
716
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,400
I really when I came in, did it
did it feel different?
717
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,039
He was and he just went, yeah,
that's and I was wondering
718
00:36:11,039 --> 00:36:14,760
if it was just because,
you know, that 30, 31 years ago.
719
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,760
So he's kind of
just forgotten about it or.
720
00:36:18,119 --> 00:36:20,320
Yeah, look,
I honestly would have expected
721
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,760
it to be a lot more like,
Wow, I'm a dad. Whoa.
722
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,639
This means I got to do this.
This.
723
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:30,480
I mean, they've got to do that.
Like, Yes, but then talking
724
00:36:27,199 --> 00:36:33,679
with other, you know, either
new dads or people have been,
725
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:37,639
you know, that recently as well.
A lot of it was, you know,
726
00:36:34,079 --> 00:36:39,599
getting is of back to the
the reality of who you are
727
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:43,119
as a person.
Not losing the individualism of
728
00:36:39,599 --> 00:36:44,519
who you are is very important.
Now, I get it wrong.
729
00:36:44,519 --> 00:36:48,719
I'm not saying that you can't
absolutely do anything like you
730
00:36:45,599 --> 00:36:51,960
absolutely have to, you know,
take some differences
731
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:54,960
in the path that you're doing.
But I'd probably be similar
732
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:57,400
to say that like, you know
how much that psychologically
733
00:36:55,119 --> 00:37:00,159
pressing on you.
Yeah. Yeah, not that much, man.
734
00:37:00,159 --> 00:37:02,400
I'm going to me and me in
Vienna are going to bond
735
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,599
in 20 years time
when she hears this son
736
00:37:04,599 --> 00:37:07,599
a mike in my dad
didn't give a shit about me
737
00:37:07,639 --> 00:37:10,639
the same way your dad doesn't
give a shit about you.
738
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,920
Like this is going to grow up
to be just this beast.
739
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,239
Yeah, she probably will.
She probably will. Delivery.
740
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,480
Let's.
Let's see the delivery story,
741
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:22,599
what we're going to say.
Okay, so delivery front again.
742
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:28,440
Expectations.
You know, I'll keep out
743
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:30,280
like any of the graphic details
and all the details,
744
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,559
but most of it is like
the dad Ryan as a partner,
745
00:37:33,119 --> 00:37:37,800
the expectation for me
was going to be,
746
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:39,039
hey, it's just going to happen.
Like so all of a sudden.
747
00:37:39,039 --> 00:37:41,800
So even even
before you get into that,
748
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:46,199
what is the general procedure
nowadays in 2023?
749
00:37:46,199 --> 00:37:49,800
Are you allowed in the hospital?
Are you allowed in the room?
750
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:54,880
Are you
can you be in there but with the
751
00:37:52,199 --> 00:37:57,679
mask on or things like this.
What,
752
00:37:54,880 --> 00:38:00,079
what what's that kind of. Yeah.
Sorry. These here in Australia
753
00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:01,679
that's a little limitation
that you can only have
754
00:38:01,679 --> 00:38:04,119
maximum of two people
in a delivery room
755
00:38:04,119 --> 00:38:06,960
as to all the people
and then all of the staff
756
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,239
that are needed
therefore for the purpose.
757
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:13,199
So does that limitation.
You can't really rotate in
758
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:16,320
and out of people
don't need a mask which call
759
00:38:13,199 --> 00:38:17,199
for the hospital afterwards.
When you're staying there,
760
00:38:17,199 --> 00:38:20,199
just stay on one person
who can stay with the mum.
761
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,159
Again, that's differing
depending on public private,
762
00:38:23,159 --> 00:38:26,199
what type of level you go to.
But that's by the by right.
763
00:38:26,199 --> 00:38:30,360
And the general expectation is,
you know, as natural
764
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:32,280
as you can get is
what break or contractions begin.
765
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,000
You go to the hospital,
you get checked in, you
766
00:38:33,599 --> 00:38:38,719
go to the maternity ward,
go through
767
00:38:36,119 --> 00:38:41,920
all the process you deliver,
and then you go and stay for 24
768
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,719
or 48 hours in the hospital
and then you go home.
769
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:46,280
Yeah, that's generally
So that's like, what, 48 hours,
770
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,000
something like that.
Maybe some of that's
771
00:38:47,159 --> 00:38:50,639
kind of like operation
Now for us,
772
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,840
it was slightly different
in the sense that it was kind of
773
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,280
a more prolonged
delivery in that, you know, baby
774
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,519
was overcooked, there's no due
dates come and gone
775
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,599
and it was more of that.
You need to do
776
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,199
a manual intervention
to make sure that the baby comes.
777
00:39:03,199 --> 00:39:06,440
But that meant that
it was quite a long distance.
778
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,639
So from the time that, you know,
Vienna actually was born,
779
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,840
it was two days that actually
began theoretically.
780
00:39:14,079 --> 00:39:16,079
So it was kind of like
working through that.
781
00:39:16,079 --> 00:39:18,119
And I'm actually stopped
completely working.
782
00:39:18,119 --> 00:39:21,119
So it was, you know, back
and forth with hospital visits
783
00:39:21,119 --> 00:39:24,360
and seeing how is going on up
until a certain point in time.
784
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,400
Right now, the expectation of me
always is going to be,
785
00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:31,679
hey, it's going to be not fast,
but it's going to be like
786
00:39:31,679 --> 00:39:32,800
it's just going to start
happening.
787
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:37,159
It's going to be intense.
And so, yeah, there'll be it
788
00:39:33,599 --> 00:39:38,400
will be things just so you know.
So it wasn't like that
789
00:39:37,159 --> 00:39:39,840
for a little while. We were like,
Oh, you know, it's kind of
790
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:44,480
just taking time,
trawling through until it hit.
791
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,440
Until it hit.
And let me tell you,
792
00:39:45,559 --> 00:39:51,440
folks out there first
all, you know, as a partner
793
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:53,880
or a significant other as a dad,
you better be prepared
794
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,599
for the onslaught that happens
throughout it, because, again,
795
00:39:57,599 --> 00:39:59,760
it can happen.
Daytime can happen in my time.
796
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,599
So for us, it was probably
it was all through the night.
797
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:08,639
So let's complete
all through the night. I think it
798
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:10,639
all started roughly at about
10 p.m..
799
00:40:10,639 --> 00:40:12,760
I think 10: 30 p.m.
was kind of started
800
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,559
and she was delivered 1059
in the morning the next day.
801
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:23,639
So that was intense
delivery stuff. So you know,
802
00:40:21,119 --> 00:40:25,400
it was getting to the place.
I never would expect it.
803
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,480
I just thought, Oh man, it's
going to be so intense for the,
804
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:28,840
you know, delivery
for my partner.
805
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,079
And hopefully the baby goes
well and it's all healthy
806
00:40:32,079 --> 00:40:36,360
and all that.
I bet halfway through, dude,
807
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:40,280
I was tired. I was like, man,
I am like, gasping for air here.
808
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:44,559
Like, this is hard yakka.
So that's something
809
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:47,599
I didn't expect that.
I was like, Oh, wow,
810
00:40:44,559 --> 00:40:51,800
this is very, very hard.
So I caution to the
811
00:40:48,199 --> 00:40:54,000
to the folks out there who are,
you know, potentially looking
812
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,159
to do that in the future.
And you want to be that
813
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,880
which one? I say
you should definitely be the
814
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:01,320
they need to support present day
man do not underestimate
815
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:05,400
just how much of an effort that
is and that honestly it's not
816
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:11,719
it's not the same. Right.
But it was comparable to
817
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:12,400
when I did Kokoda 96 kilometers.
It was like that.
818
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:16,719
Well, it was like
that mentality of like,
819
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:19,920
oh, I've got to not sleep.
I've got to watch what I'm
820
00:41:17,039 --> 00:41:23,079
eating or not eat.
I've got to be like completely
821
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:25,440
in that full intense mode
for a very, very long time.
822
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,719
So when you think about it,
right, you're working through
823
00:41:27,119 --> 00:41:32,199
like contractions and the like
you might have to support.
824
00:41:32,199 --> 00:41:35,039
You know, what I'm saying is put,
you know,
825
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,559
you can go like a few days
if you want, like it's very,
826
00:41:35,039 --> 00:41:41,159
very intense. I support that.
You'll be giving for about 40,
827
00:41:38,159 --> 00:41:44,639
50 seconds and then you get
a few like 20 or 30 seconds
828
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:47,280
breather and you go again.
And now do that for 5 hours
829
00:41:44,639 --> 00:41:48,559
straight.
It's full on. It's full on.
830
00:41:48,559 --> 00:41:52,599
So that expectation just blew me
out of the water completely.
831
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,400
And then afterwards, you know,
chilling in the hospital
832
00:41:55,400 --> 00:42:01,920
like it just wrecked.
Absolutely. Like smashed because
833
00:41:59,639 --> 00:42:04,079
you've barely even any food.
You've got nicely, if any.
834
00:42:04,079 --> 00:42:07,559
And you're just lying there,
the hospital bed with a newborn,
835
00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:10,320
you know, like, wow,
what do I do?
836
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,840
And that the next little stage
of the delivery.
837
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,840
So we were at the hospital
for a little bit over 24 hours.
838
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,920
Again, you've barely slept,
you've barely eaten.
839
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,320
Got to get someone to go
and drop me food off.
840
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:26,239
Just starving. And you're
trying to deal with a newborn
841
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,440
that's barely sleeping once
a feed every couple of hours.
842
00:42:30,159 --> 00:42:32,639
Again,
like that was just wild time.
843
00:42:32,639 --> 00:42:36,559
So I can I can see why, you know,
sometimes you see like a new dad
844
00:42:37,199 --> 00:42:40,199
or new mom or new family
walking around the hospital
845
00:42:40,199 --> 00:42:42,079
and they're like, Oh, man,
they look disheveled.
846
00:42:42,079 --> 00:42:45,239
Dude, I must have looked
just absolutely distraught,
847
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,119
annoyed until I got home.
So and again,
848
00:42:48,119 --> 00:42:51,519
I think I'm out of brush
my teeth like two days before I
849
00:42:51,559 --> 00:42:53,280
had, like, you know,
how much longer it went?
850
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:57,440
Two days, I think that I didn't
brush my teeth
851
00:42:55,119 --> 00:42:59,400
more than that for a shower.
Like it took forever
852
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:02,199
to have a shower.
So there was a lot of that
853
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:04,320
that I underestimated for sure.
And even then I was
854
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,800
putting a lot of like, Oh, wow,
this is going to be like
855
00:43:05,599 --> 00:43:10,800
pretty intense. Nothing to what
I actually imagine it to be.
856
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:15,239
Now, the most important question,
how many push ups did you get
857
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:17,880
done whilst in the hospital?
Zero zero push ups is up.
858
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,559
No worked out nothing.
Nothing done.
859
00:43:20,559 --> 00:43:22,199
I'm really disappointed
with that.
860
00:43:22,199 --> 00:43:25,440
I think there was push push ups.
I did actually did set up.
861
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,440
The first thing that I did was
when we got home
862
00:43:28,599 --> 00:43:31,639
the next day, I did some sit
ups in front of it.
863
00:43:31,639 --> 00:43:35,159
It sounds like a lot,
but a couple of sit ups,
864
00:43:32,039 --> 00:43:40,599
but yeah, there was
there was no space, no time, no
865
00:43:35,159 --> 00:43:44,039
energy for any of that. And
yeah, it was
866
00:43:41,639 --> 00:43:44,599
yeah, it was, it was wild stuff.
It was wild stuff.
867
00:43:44,599 --> 00:43:47,159
So I'll keep, I'll,
I'll keep most of the other
868
00:43:47,159 --> 00:43:52,400
gory details out of it.
But yeah, I would say as a dad
869
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:54,440
that's the,
that would be the crucible
870
00:43:52,679 --> 00:43:57,079
I think almost
you know how you think
871
00:43:55,079 --> 00:43:58,440
through of,
you know, there's like the kid
872
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,039
going into the adults
or the into the teenagers.
873
00:44:01,039 --> 00:44:02,920
You've got to go
through a ritual.
874
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,679
This is one of these rituals.
This is like one of the rituals
875
00:44:04,039 --> 00:44:09,239
of, of human society
is being there
876
00:44:06,679 --> 00:44:11,880
for that birth track.
It's like a crucible
877
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,440
that everyone should go to.
So that was it was cool.
878
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,440
Like I look back on now
going like type that was
879
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:21,320
exciting, intense, crazy.
I still don't like
880
00:44:19,599 --> 00:44:23,320
want to repeat it right now?
Like, it's like, no,
881
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:26,079
I don't want to repeat that.
I don't like it if I'm like,
882
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,199
Dude, I'm not the mum, right?
I'm not delivering that.
883
00:44:27,199 --> 00:44:30,320
I'm like, I don't want to go
through that at all right now.
884
00:44:30,559 --> 00:44:32,960
There's no way I would want
to go through that again.
885
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:34,920
But similar to the Kokoda
Challenge, right
886
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,440
in the first few months
afterwards, I was like,
887
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,239
I'm never doing this again.
But now I'm like,
888
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:41,239
Hey, I've got to go now.
It might be the same
889
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,480
in a few years
when she starts getting cute
890
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:46,000
and when your memory
is getting a little bit hazy.
891
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:50,880
Fuzzy Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Exactly. Look, the final one
892
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,800
I was going to bring up, which
is a bit of a different one.
893
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:55,639
I've got a couple of
more nights, but I think
894
00:44:52,639 --> 00:45:00,400
we'll all end on this one.
The reality as a dad of the love
895
00:44:56,039 --> 00:45:02,159
for the child, because I think
is an interesting one
896
00:45:02,159 --> 00:45:06,599
not many people look into
because it's often discussed
897
00:45:03,039 --> 00:45:08,000
that the mum, you know,
you can kind of go both ways.
898
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,519
You can go down the path of baby
like you just before
899
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,360
baby comes out.
You can either be like
900
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,239
really excited for it
or you might feel like,
901
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:16,800
you know, I'm not really
connected to this baby.
902
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,800
Like it's not a real thing.
As soon as the baby comes out,
903
00:45:18,119 --> 00:45:23,519
one of two things happen.
You're like immediately
904
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:25,719
connected, overjoyed,
or you might see a little bit of
905
00:45:23,519 --> 00:45:28,719
be like apathy, like,
Oh, hey, I'm not going to
906
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:32,039
you know, that changed over time
before the dad, I, I wasn't sure
907
00:45:29,039 --> 00:45:33,920
what's going to happen.
I was like,
908
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:37,320
I feel some connection to
the baby beforehand, but like,
909
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:39,920
is it going to be immediate?
Yeah, not particularly
910
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,760
because the the chemical balances
that happen, you know,
911
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,000
from a female perspective,
when I deliver on the oxytocin
912
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,280
release, that's what
it really bonds together.
913
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,639
Same thing with breastfeeding.
That doesn't happen with that.
914
00:45:48,639 --> 00:45:54,199
So at the very beginning
did I had as much connection
915
00:45:51,079 --> 00:45:55,000
to the baby as I had
before I was born.
916
00:45:55,000 --> 00:46:00,039
So for Vienna I was like, Oh,
I connect with her, but
917
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:03,960
not connected fully with her.
And it hasn't
918
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:06,159
been really till a few days ago
where that started
919
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:10,440
to really transition.
Now that might be because
920
00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:13,440
they start operating and showing
emotion through their faces
921
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:15,039
and a little cuteness and that.
So it does take a while.
922
00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:19,559
And I think some people can think
in the first few days, oh, like
923
00:46:20,679 --> 00:46:24,239
I show I care for this thing,
but it's still in my mind.
924
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:28,079
It's like, Oh, this baby is my
baby's my daughter is it my son?
925
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,519
It it does it takes a little
while for that to grow on you.
926
00:46:31,519 --> 00:46:34,840
And, you know,
I don't know exactly what it is
927
00:46:32,679 --> 00:46:36,480
that you can do
extra for it, but obviously,
928
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:39,239
spending a lot of time
with the baby obviously helps.
929
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:41,199
So do that, people.
But don't be surprised
930
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,639
that it takes a few days.
Not that I didn't expect.
931
00:46:42,639 --> 00:46:45,199
I expect that there was going
to be same as a mum.
932
00:46:45,199 --> 00:46:49,559
Bang baby has dropped, you know.
Well, not dropped delivered.
933
00:46:49,559 --> 00:46:51,320
And you're like,
Oh my God, I'm so in love.
934
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:56,039
No, that's not how it worked.
That over a few days
935
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,920
you kind of start building
that connection just like
936
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,039
you would a friend
or a lover or whoever.
937
00:47:00,039 --> 00:47:03,559
Maybe it does take that
time to see like, Well,
938
00:47:03,559 --> 00:47:06,239
what the hell is this thing
in front of me? Oh, it's a baby.
939
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:10,440
And then you start attaching it
to It's Vienna. Oh, it's my baby.
940
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:11,880
And then the love sorta starts
pouring through.
941
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,480
So that that one was a
definitely an I wouldn't if
942
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,360
they had any expectations,
but I had if I had to put it, it
943
00:47:17,039 --> 00:47:19,519
definitely
didn't meet the expectations
944
00:47:19,519 --> 00:47:22,119
of the realities
of becoming a dad. Okay.
945
00:47:22,119 --> 00:47:26,440
Interesting.
I want to squeeze one more in,
946
00:47:22,599 --> 00:47:28,000
which is so, you know,
there was something
947
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,960
you referenced before,
which is like you need to track
948
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,840
the sleep of the baby
and you need to track
949
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,840
how many poos and wheeze
and stuff that she's doing.
950
00:47:34,199 --> 00:47:39,400
Now, if you had to compare
what you would imagine
951
00:47:36,599 --> 00:47:43,360
it would have been like
to have had a child in 1923
952
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:52,960
and then let's just say
12 2023, what what would be
953
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:55,840
what would be different
about the experience
954
00:47:52,960 --> 00:48:00,599
now compared to those, too?
Because, you know,
955
00:47:55,840 --> 00:48:03,880
it's still your child and mum,
some sort
956
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:05,079
of medical professional helping
to deliver the baby.
957
00:48:05,079 --> 00:48:08,079
I imagine that's the same across
all of those scenarios.
958
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,159
Is there anything special
about the modern age
959
00:48:11,159 --> 00:48:13,440
that requires
all of these things?
960
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,440
Like do you think you can get
too worked up over
961
00:48:16,679 --> 00:48:19,280
tracking the baby's
poos and ways and whatnot?
962
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:24,039
And it's just, you know,
we've been doing this
963
00:48:21,559 --> 00:48:25,760
for tens of thousands of years.
It's not maybe
964
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,760
that necessary to track
with all the modern technology.
965
00:48:29,519 --> 00:48:34,800
Yeah, that's a good point
because there's things like
966
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:37,320
so we know that child
mortality rate
967
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:38,760
was much higher back then. Yes.
So that's a big difference.
968
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,239
And and of the mother as well.
Yeah. And then look,
969
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:45,559
that is a big difference.
But how much of that
970
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:49,719
is associated with,
you know, diseases that we can
971
00:48:45,559 --> 00:48:54,239
now, you know, deal with versus
just being by the numbers
972
00:48:51,599 --> 00:48:55,679
and kind of preventing it?
I think it's two different
973
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:57,599
things.
Say, you know, in comparison
974
00:48:57,599 --> 00:49:00,840
to, you know, say 100
or 500 years ago,
975
00:49:01,679 --> 00:49:04,199
you know, counting
counting the person weighs,
976
00:49:04,199 --> 00:49:07,039
okay, it's
not as important, really.
977
00:49:07,039 --> 00:49:09,159
And if you're getting down
to the basics of it,
978
00:49:09,159 --> 00:49:11,159
it's probably not as important
as it was back then.
979
00:49:11,159 --> 00:49:13,239
But it's it's
not that It's making like this
980
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,840
unbelievable, crucial difference.
Because if the baby did
981
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,480
get really sick, for
whatever reason,
982
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:21,519
you weren't counting that,
well, something's wrong. There's
983
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,800
probably things that can be done
from a medical perspective.
984
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,320
So, hey, losing weight.
We can do this.
985
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:30,039
Hey, the kidneys not producing,
not getting rid of a particular
986
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:32,679
thing properly, okay?
We can use these lights
987
00:49:30,039 --> 00:49:35,199
to help that on.
So there's lots of things
988
00:49:32,679 --> 00:49:36,840
that occur, right. That wouldn't
have back in the day.
989
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,719
And, you know, whether you count
your baby's poos and we ain't
990
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,719
going to change that.
What I think it does in
991
00:49:41,039 --> 00:49:46,719
the differentiation is a
it's a proactive nurse
992
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:50,000
slash the pre and preemptive
medical treatment,
993
00:49:47,199 --> 00:49:51,639
which is kind of somewhat,
you know, the same
994
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,800
sort of medical treatment
that would happen for adults
995
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:54,840
or the steps that you would take
before getting sick.
996
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:59,159
So, you know, before you got fat,
you got diabetes, you can
997
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,840
you can track your blood work
and your insulin sensitivity
998
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,559
and things like that
to understand
999
00:50:04,559 --> 00:50:07,199
whether you're going to go
and get this diseases or not.
1000
00:50:07,199 --> 00:50:11,400
Same thing applies with maybe
checking on your epigenetics
1001
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,119
or general genetics
to see if you're,
1002
00:50:13,119 --> 00:50:16,440
you know, susceptible
to whatever disease or,
1003
00:50:16,559 --> 00:50:19,760
you know, having a colonoscopy,
you know, is there a difference
1004
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,679
between getting close to be
now and 500 years ago? Well,
1005
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,800
not necessarily.
If you've got the same
1006
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:28,519
if you've got the cancer,
but now you might do it
1007
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,079
and you get preventive
look at whether you have to go
1008
00:50:30,079 --> 00:50:32,360
get treated to
maybe get rid of something.
1009
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,360
So I guess I see it
more in that way.
1010
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:40,440
I wouldn't say it's, you know,
if you babies are general
1011
00:50:38,119 --> 00:50:42,880
generally is that you baby
should we about
1012
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:45,119
as many times of the days
have been born up
1013
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:48,679
until a certain time
you know if it's a full day and
1014
00:50:45,119 --> 00:50:51,920
they we three times all the way
five times you shouldn't like
1015
00:50:48,679 --> 00:50:56,239
go lose your marbles over it
But if the baby's nine days
1016
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:58,679
and weeing once a day,
it's probably something wrong,
1017
00:50:57,199 --> 00:51:00,679
you're probably going to get that
checked out by a professional.
1018
00:51:00,679 --> 00:51:05,039
But 100 years ago, 400 years ago,
you're probably either like,
1019
00:51:03,079 --> 00:51:07,920
you know, the baby would be fine,
just continue on
1020
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,079
or get really sick
and then you have to
1021
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,760
go take it in. So nowadays
it probably get really sick
1022
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:15,519
if that was going to be the case.
But you take it in
1023
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,280
and then go like, Hey,
you're an idiot,
1024
00:51:15,519 --> 00:51:18,760
you need to do this.
Okay, fine. Mhm.
1025
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,760
Yeah, I'm just, I'm just curious
about things like, you know,
1026
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,920
the medical profession is great
at these real serious
1027
00:51:26,559 --> 00:51:33,960
interventions of heart
transplants, of amputated limbs
1028
00:51:30,559 --> 00:51:37,320
off of things like that.
But it kind of
1029
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:40,519
sucks with these slow growing
stuff where there's no particular
1030
00:51:40,519 --> 00:51:44,280
cure for it
and, and, and whatnot.
1031
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,880
And, you know, going into a
hospital is full of sick people.
1032
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,639
Pete, on the last conversation
was just saying
1033
00:51:51,639 --> 00:51:56,639
how he's just gotten so sick,
basically since joining hospitals
1034
00:51:56,639 --> 00:51:59,400
because they're going to day
care, they're bringing back
1035
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,199
all this shit.
And it's just constant,
1036
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:04,199
constant, constant.
And, you know, hospitals
1037
00:52:01,199 --> 00:52:06,480
are essentially the same thing.
Oh, for sure. And look, I'm
1038
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,400
I'm for sure
expecting that in the future I'm
1039
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,400
going to get that same sickness
from child care and whatnot.
1040
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:16,840
But I mean, like for me
personally, like I do similar
1041
00:52:14,639 --> 00:52:19,440
tracking with a lot of things.
It's like I'll try to preempt it
1042
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,880
on my side.
But yeah, in real life
1043
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,679
you can only do so much
to stop people getting sick or,
1044
00:52:23,679 --> 00:52:27,320
you know,
getting yourself to a position
1045
00:52:24,599 --> 00:52:29,119
where, you know, you know,
I think as you put it,
1046
00:52:29,119 --> 00:52:31,239
the more I can keep them away
from the hospital, the better.
1047
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:35,280
Yeah. Yeah. It's not just,
you know, the preemptive,
1048
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,440
your worrying
about so many things.
1049
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:42,039
And in the grand scheme of stuff,
it just doesn't matter.
1050
00:52:42,039 --> 00:52:45,360
You know that.
Yeah, like, you're right.
1051
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,599
You're right. Like,
I might be, like, again.
1052
00:52:47,599 --> 00:52:51,360
I'll show you the details
with the sleeping. You know,
1053
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,199
I could get down to the point
of, like, Oh,
1054
00:52:53,199 --> 00:52:56,280
she slept half an hour less.
She's sleeping one hour more.
1055
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:00,679
It doesn't like that
as long as a sleeping front.
1056
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,320
And then on knowing you like
they're going to sleep. That's,
1057
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:08,039
as you say,
it's literally in our genes
1058
00:53:05,039 --> 00:53:09,480
to do this.
Right. What are you going to do?
1059
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,000
You going to force them to sleep
extra like you going to
1060
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,480
put a little nightshade
out of their eyes? Right.
1061
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,960
You're going to do that.
It's going to
1062
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,960
from from a human perspective,
there's a way that they can
1063
00:53:19,039 --> 00:53:20,960
evolve and grow.
You probably don't
1064
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,800
have to do that much to it
as long as you're putting
1065
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:27,400
the right things in place.
That's that. In that data,
1066
00:53:26,119 --> 00:53:30,840
by the way that I showed
you isn't even something that
1067
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:34,079
we track ourselves personally.
It's just that the
1068
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:37,559
the bassinet that we have
does that, but we actually use
1069
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:39,440
a bassinet for other reasons.
It's just kind of cool.
1070
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,639
So until we talk about it.
But oh, she woke up this summer.
1071
00:53:41,639 --> 00:53:45,840
This time. This time, yeah.
Honestly, are we the hours,
1072
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:48,280
a longer sleep or something?
Not really.
1073
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,519
Yeah. Like it's not the case.
Yeah. So Koko.
1074
00:53:49,519 --> 00:53:52,559
But in any case, folks,
that's at a few things
1075
00:53:52,559 --> 00:53:53,760
are the realities
of becoming a dad.
1076
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,159
We're going to hear now
for almost, almost an hour.
1077
00:53:56,159 --> 00:53:59,239
So we might put a little cap
on this one as well.
1078
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,599
But I will pass first to calm,
just talk through some
1079
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:08,760
some housekeeping items. Yeah.
So just for everyone wondering,
1080
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:12,119
I suppose, why I mean,
even I'm wondering as well, one,
1081
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:15,159
do you reckon
this is going to be something
1082
00:54:12,119 --> 00:54:18,039
doable for the next while,
the Wednesday episodes,
1083
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:21,039
the life ones, I think.
Yeah I think that
1084
00:54:18,039 --> 00:54:24,360
so one of the Yeah.
People might know this one
1085
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:27,079
I know is when I have kids, but
kids generally go through these
1086
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:29,639
like evolutions,
like just little leaps
1087
00:54:27,079 --> 00:54:32,119
and there's like ten of them
or 12 of them in the,
1088
00:54:29,639 --> 00:54:35,679
in the first few months. Yeah,
it might come a point
1089
00:54:33,599 --> 00:54:37,719
that one of these leaps comes
and it's like, Oh wow, I'm great.
1090
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,599
I can't, I can't do it
on a particular day.
1091
00:54:39,599 --> 00:54:42,800
It won't work.
But right now, look, it's
1092
00:54:40,559 --> 00:54:43,880
working fine.
I had a chat with the partner
1093
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,239
about it.
It seems like it's going good,
1094
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,079
so it looks like
we'll be able to continue this
1095
00:54:46,079 --> 00:54:49,079
for the next few foreseeable
Wednesdays at least online
1096
00:54:49,679 --> 00:54:53,880
and start even moving towards a
a few in-person ones as well.
1097
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:57,760
So yeah. Nice. Coco. Cool, right?
Beautiful. Just for me.
1098
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,480
So I've been
I've wrote down a quick list
1099
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:03,719
and you've probably seen
the monthly goals,
1100
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,880
how this will expand out.
But I've just written
1101
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,880
fix website, fixed audio backup,
all files, transcripts, role
1102
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,519
files, prep for more detailed
episodes, prep for conversation
1103
00:55:11,519 --> 00:55:14,519
guess before they move
to blueberry experimentation
1104
00:55:14,519 --> 00:55:17,760
soundproof for the room, people
not being able to support.
1105
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,679
You know, there's all of
these things that are kind of
1106
00:55:19,679 --> 00:55:25,800
in the back of my mind and I'm
wondering, you know,
1107
00:55:23,559 --> 00:55:27,119
what's what's the best thing to
to fix up first and whatnot.
1108
00:55:27,119 --> 00:55:30,639
But I can tell you,
you know, all of the
1109
00:55:32,079 --> 00:55:34,440
I want to say, like the
the podcast I feel
1110
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,639
is going to take a step change
in the next six months,
1111
00:55:35,639 --> 00:55:40,639
I would say,
because I'm probably going
1112
00:55:37,639 --> 00:55:44,119
to spend more effort on it
in a not like this
1113
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:48,519
in a in the sense of
of I think making it more kind
1114
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:50,079
of professional in a way.
And it's it's not that
1115
00:55:50,079 --> 00:55:53,079
it has been unprofessional,
but it's just
1116
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:59,119
I think that that was areas
that just neither
1117
00:55:55,679 --> 00:56:02,920
of us kind of had capacity to
to work on
1118
00:56:00,599 --> 00:56:04,880
the website being one of them.
You know, I've always kind of
1119
00:56:03,199 --> 00:56:07,280
just taken a very hands off
approach that
1120
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:12,239
we got something up and running.
But I do want to make it better
1121
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:16,239
so that people can if
because I have had a couple
1122
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:18,599
of experiences recently of just
people telling me
1123
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:21,760
what their experience
was like of trying to support
1124
00:56:18,599 --> 00:56:22,480
or going onto the website,
then it was like,
1125
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,239
Oh, this happened
and then this happened, and it's
1126
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,320
not so hard to see things with
a fresh eye, fresh pair of eyes.
1127
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:32,440
So yeah, just, just, just
general housekeeping is that.
1128
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:37,760
And then also,
I am still really committed
1129
00:56:34,599 --> 00:56:39,360
to doing the making sure
there's coming out on the Monday
1130
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,280
and something coming out on
the Friday with the live episode
1131
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,599
kind of taking place
on the on the Wednesday.
1132
00:56:45,599 --> 00:56:49,000
So well he is on
and actually just
1133
00:56:49,199 --> 00:56:51,599
as a housekeeping
so slight change and again
1134
00:56:51,599 --> 00:56:53,639
this to the reality
of becoming a dad
1135
00:56:53,639 --> 00:56:56,760
dude reading went out the window
and it will it will
1136
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:00,559
literally go out the window
for a long time if I didn't
1137
00:56:58,199 --> 00:57:03,760
do something about it.
So I've committed myself
1138
00:57:00,559 --> 00:57:07,039
to waking up slightly earlier
than I have been normally
1139
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:09,480
or shortening my work out
to do reading
1140
00:57:07,039 --> 00:57:11,199
before I hit the gym,
which I used to do
1141
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,599
like years ago.
So it wasn't finding time
1142
00:57:12,599 --> 00:57:15,519
to be able to find time
to put together book reviews
1143
00:57:15,519 --> 00:57:18,320
and stuff like that.
So yeah I'm becoming really
1144
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:20,880
to become a dad, to
go to find time somewhere else.
1145
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:23,599
Yeah, well,
I mean, that's that's just a
1146
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:26,880
bonus, to be honest. You know,
I've always
1147
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:28,440
kind of considered the book.
Any book you do to,
1148
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,960
to be a bonus either, but is
you have the kind of schedule
1149
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:35,079
and just give me a small break
and, you know, let me read a 500
1150
00:57:35,079 --> 00:57:39,039
page book because I'm not in a
rush to rush and get things out.
1151
00:57:39,039 --> 00:57:42,320
So they have very much
to appreciate that meant and
1152
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:46,519
I don't know if you know this,
but the David Goggins book
1153
00:57:46,519 --> 00:57:50,679
review you've done is easily
our best performing episode
1154
00:57:50,679 --> 00:57:52,519
on the these. You didn't
mention that on the audio.
1155
00:57:52,519 --> 00:57:56,880
Yes. Yeah.
And I think that Eddie, Eddie,
1156
00:57:54,239 --> 00:57:58,920
Jack who won you did a while ago
as well is also pretty good.
1157
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,519
I am the happiest man on earth,
correct? Yes. Yeah.
1158
00:58:01,519 --> 00:58:05,039
Yeah, that one.
So yeah let's cool
1159
00:58:02,039 --> 00:58:07,679
things happening.
But yeah, the ones on Mondays,
1160
00:58:07,679 --> 00:58:13,119
they'll either be a conversation,
it'll be the monthly goals or
1161
00:58:09,239 --> 00:58:16,239
it will be a like a themed one
I guess a solo themed one
1162
00:58:13,119 --> 00:58:19,920
that I'll do so now.
Or a meandering if, if and
1163
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:22,480
when we get back to doing those,
which I think we will.
1164
00:58:20,599 --> 00:58:25,440
Which I think we will as well.
So yeah not not straight away,
1165
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:26,519
but I think we'll get back to
some of the entries as well.
1166
00:58:26,519 --> 00:58:30,239
Yeah. Yeah. Just, just you know,
maybe once a month will be,
1167
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,559
will be the do. Oh, and I'm
spending a lot more time
1168
00:58:31,559 --> 00:58:33,360
on the I'm
creating clips as well.
1169
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:37,599
So the clips should improve.
I tried actually I won
1170
00:58:37,599 --> 00:58:40,760
one of the things that either
you sent through or someone else
1171
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:48,920
the it was hilarious how
it titled and labeled things
1172
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:51,000
I did of the ones
with the Pete episode,
1173
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:54,920
which is really great
because Pete's is able to cover
1174
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:56,639
so many topics really quickly
and he doesn't mean much.
1175
00:58:56,639 --> 00:59:00,119
So you can create really good
clips from that and basically
1176
00:59:01,119 --> 00:59:04,320
you throw it in this thing,
it does whatever it does,
1177
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:09,599
and then it'll give you 15 clips
and they're the usually longer
1178
00:59:06,039 --> 00:59:12,760
than 30 seconds to a minute.
But all of them had names like
1179
00:59:13,199 --> 00:59:18,159
The Shocking Truth behind
x, x, X, and it was
1180
00:59:18,159 --> 00:59:21,159
there was probably like five
or six shocking truths that
1181
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,239
keep coming out the
like shocking truth about this.
1182
00:59:25,239 --> 00:59:28,320
Yeah, I'm trying to
just bring it up as as we speak,
1183
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:34,199
and here we go. So it was Opus.
Opus Dot Pro is what I used.
1184
00:59:35,199 --> 00:59:38,199
And yeah, basically you
don't even have to upload it.
1185
00:59:38,199 --> 00:59:41,199
You can just give it a link
to the YouTube video.
1186
00:59:42,039 --> 00:59:48,360
And so here we go,
the instructions,
1187
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:51,360
blah, blah, blah. So uncovering
the shocking truths of parenting
1188
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,880
and experimentation,
the cutthroat
1189
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,920
world of millionaire
influence is uncovered.
1190
00:59:55,920 --> 01:00:00,159
You won't believe it.
The surprising reason why
1191
00:59:57,159 --> 01:00:01,960
some singers rarely get sick,
unleashing childhood power.
1192
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,239
What happens when children
Have Control?
1193
01:00:04,239 --> 01:00:08,400
Uncovering the Shocking Truth
About Financial Advice
1194
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:10,320
YouTube Channel An inside
look at my favorite sounds.
1195
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:14,320
It's sounds enticing.
It does sound enticing,
1196
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:15,960
but what we would come up,
they're great.
1197
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:19,840
They're great names.
They are also not reflective
1198
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:21,360
of what was actually fantastic
was actually discussed.
1199
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:25,400
And when you have 15 shocking
truths titles
1200
01:00:25,559 --> 01:00:27,960
and you and you're going
to pass them back to back,
1201
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,159
yeah, it's just governments
losing power.
1202
01:00:30,159 --> 01:00:34,000
So yeah, that was only really
one of them, which I was like,
1203
01:00:34,159 --> 01:00:36,559
yeah, this
I think this was great.
1204
01:00:36,559 --> 01:00:41,400
For example,
he would talk, it'd be talking
1205
01:00:39,079 --> 01:00:43,559
and one of the cool things about
this is can even include
1206
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,679
little emoticons in.
So it creates and creates
1207
01:00:43,559 --> 01:00:49,960
the clip,
it creates the subtitle text
1208
01:00:45,679 --> 01:00:51,880
and it does it in white
and yellow and different colors
1209
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:54,920
and whatnot.
And even for certain words,
1210
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:56,400
it will come up with a
a little emoticon
1211
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,159
of like power or money
or something like that.
1212
01:00:59,159 --> 01:01:02,159
And Pete was talking about this
one section of,
1213
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,320
you know, really, really
making fun of people
1214
01:01:05,519 --> 01:01:08,519
who are creating money
or getting money in these
1215
01:01:08,679 --> 01:01:13,119
certain ways or something.
And the little emoticon was,
1216
01:01:10,119 --> 01:01:16,440
you know, the
the smiley for smiley dolls
1217
01:01:13,519 --> 01:01:19,400
with with dollar signs.
And it was just so inappropriate
1218
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:21,119
for what the context
of what was being talked about.
1219
01:01:21,119 --> 01:01:27,639
So that the AI stuff is cool.
But it is it's still a still
1220
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:29,159
going to need some fun still.
But it's not replacing the human
1221
01:01:27,679 --> 01:01:31,599
just yet.
Not Replacing the not okay,
1222
01:01:31,599 --> 01:01:37,079
you want only they reacted
the little value for value spiel
1223
01:01:33,519 --> 01:01:38,679
before we absolutely go
Oh I'll give it to you
1224
01:01:37,079 --> 01:01:40,559
to old folks.
Obviously you talked about the
1225
01:01:38,679 --> 01:01:42,360
the scams
that we went through, the B scam
1226
01:01:40,559 --> 01:01:44,000
lounge.
I can't talk about it in depth,
1227
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,519
but what we're trying to do here,
you know, we're like a value,
1228
01:01:46,519 --> 01:01:48,920
which means we're trying
to provide value to you
1229
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,000
in the form of this podcast,
right through the audio
1230
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,079
or video, whatever
you watching it at home.
1231
01:01:53,079 --> 01:01:56,199
And the hope is that you sent
through some value back for us.
1232
01:01:56,239 --> 01:01:57,760
I mean, sending three satoshis
through
1233
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:00,519
any of the platforms out there
that enables you to send
1234
01:02:00,519 --> 01:02:03,960
boost games or streaming stats
through podcast platforms
1235
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,239
that found
this pod versus cast somatic.
1236
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:11,800
You can obviously listen to
us and various other platforms
1237
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:15,519
Spotify, Apple, YouTube, etc.
but we do want to see the support
1238
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,199
coming through in that form.
And look what
1239
01:02:16,199 --> 01:02:18,280
we've been seeing in there
in the last couple of weeks.
1240
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,119
But there's also been periods
where we didn't have that.
1241
01:02:20,119 --> 01:02:23,559
What we want to establish is
we want to be providing
1242
01:02:22,039 --> 01:02:24,960
enough value
back to you more and more lines
1243
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,480
so that you are providing it
back in that way.
1244
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,440
And we do really, really
appreciate it being through.
1245
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:33,360
We know station, which is a
fractional bitcoin amount.
1246
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:38,280
Again, as I mentioned,
we want to make it easier for you
1247
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:40,559
to support us to help us out.
If you have been doing
1248
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:43,559
so already. Amazing.
If you want to hand in terms of,
1249
01:02:40,559 --> 01:02:46,559
you know, maybe your interest
that you really want to support,
1250
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:48,199
but you you can
and you want to personalize help.
1251
01:02:48,199 --> 01:02:49,800
Look, we'll give you a white
glove service.
1252
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,679
We've done it before
with a couple of people,
1253
01:02:51,679 --> 01:02:54,239
send us written messages,
emails, whatever it might be.
1254
01:02:54,239 --> 01:02:57,559
We're happy to help out.
But those are the primary ways
1255
01:02:55,199 --> 01:03:01,440
that you can help us.
And if you send in 100,000 sets
1256
01:02:57,559 --> 01:03:04,760
and that is
we will send a t shirt
1257
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:08,000
your way, as I was explaining
Miyamoto's t shirt,
1258
01:03:05,039 --> 01:03:09,960
it's it's pretty quick.
It's actually
1259
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,519
it's a good t shirt. I like it.
It's try
1260
01:03:11,519 --> 01:03:14,079
I try not wear it too much
because I don't want
1261
01:03:12,639 --> 01:03:16,079
to wear it out, to be honest.
Yeah. You don't wear that. Yeah.
1262
01:03:16,079 --> 01:03:21,920
The so the cost of that at
the moment is probably about $40
1263
01:03:22,039 --> 01:03:24,719
and that is just
with the bitcoin price.
1264
01:03:24,719 --> 01:03:27,599
Now bitcoin price goes up, we're
not going to be lowering it.
1265
01:03:27,599 --> 01:03:30,239
So no,
keep me on $100 on Saturday
1266
01:03:30,239 --> 01:03:34,679
if you want to get in quick.
Yeah. It's just an incentive
1267
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:37,760
for those who support early.
You know you can get
1268
01:03:34,679 --> 01:03:40,199
you can get the thing,
you can get the prize,
1269
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:42,440
you can win by without having
to actually spend as much.
1270
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:46,679
So and I'll I'll take a leaf
out of Bobby hundreds as well.
1271
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:51,639
This is a limited edition.
You know this one real straight
1272
01:03:49,519 --> 01:03:52,880
this one.
We're not going to recreate it.
1273
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:56,079
We're not reprinting it.
None of that. Yeah. If you think
1274
01:03:56,079 --> 01:03:58,320
if you get into it, you get it
right at the beginning,
1275
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,440
I'd say there's never again
with running 50 and shirts left
1276
01:04:01,679 --> 01:04:05,599
if I had to guess again.
So if you want any of those 15
1277
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,840
remaining ones,
you might make sure
1278
01:04:05,599 --> 01:04:09,039
you send in three. If not,
they'll never be created again
1279
01:04:09,039 --> 01:04:12,519
and never make sure
you're a medium or large or
1280
01:04:13,559 --> 01:04:16,559
because.
Because they don't have that
1281
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:19,280
many other tools as I've left.
Exactly. Me more or less
1282
01:04:18,239 --> 01:04:21,199
willing to leave it there.
Thank you very much for joining
1283
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:23,559
us. Amusing using.
Thank you for welcoming me
1284
01:04:21,199 --> 01:04:26,719
back to the podcast
and thank you for coming
1285
01:04:23,559 --> 01:04:29,840
to keeping the sales afloat
and the wind in our sales
1286
01:04:26,719 --> 01:04:31,480
in the last couple of weeks.
So thank you very much, Kyrin
1287
01:04:30,039 --> 01:04:33,039
Thank you very much.
I remember I was listening about
1288
01:04:33,039 --> 01:04:35,719
the immortal lines
that is all won out,
1289
01:04:35,719 --> 01:04:40,480
carrying out who we good? Nice.
