In this episode of Two Grumpy Vets and a Duuude, the hosts dive into a lively discussion about the challenges and humorous aspects of daily life, from dealing with broken partials and internet upgrades to the complexities of modern relationships. Bryan shares a personal story about his daughter's tumultuous relationship, highlighting the manipulative behaviors of narcissistic partners and the importance of recognizing red flags. The conversation also touches on the resilience required to navigate life's unexpected hurdles and the value of maintaining strong family bonds.
The hosts also explore broader societal issues, such as the impact of government policies on housing and the economy, and the role of education in shaping future generations. They discuss the importance of critical thinking and the need for individuals to take responsibility for their actions and decisions. Throughout the episode, the hosts maintain their signature blend of humor and candidness, offering listeners a mix of personal anecdotes, social commentary, and thought-provoking insights.
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[00:00:34] Rich Chelson:
What's up, dude?
[00:00:35] Unknown:
What's going on, you penguin wearing zoot suit?
[00:00:41] Rich Chelson:
Not much, dude. I'm about to war the hell out, though.
[00:00:46] Unknown:
Shit. You and me fucking both. Yeah. So what's wearing you out?
[00:00:52] Rich Chelson:
Well, I was up at 04:30 this morning because my partial broke the other day, And, I had to take it to, the VA this morning, and they can fix it, which is a good thing. The only thing is and, I mean, it was fixed by 11:30 today, but I signed up to get better Internet. And so I had to be back here, so I couldn't get my partial, and I have to go back in the morning. And then, of course, the Internet guy got here, and that took quite a while. But I now have fiber to the house, so it's a good thing.
[00:01:36] Unknown:
Well, aren't you just fucking special?
[00:01:40] Rich Chelson:
Well, yes. I am, by god.
[00:01:43] Unknown:
It's gonna be one day I'll even get Internet. Oh. Ain't gonna be anytime soon.
[00:01:50] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, why not?
[00:01:52] Unknown:
Yeah. Because I don't have a computer.
[00:01:54] Rich Chelson:
You got your phone.
[00:01:56] Bryan Goodwin:
You got your phone.
[00:01:58] Unknown:
I do have my phone. You are correct.
[00:02:01] Bryan Goodwin:
But to pay another yeah.
[00:02:04] Unknown:
But to pay another x amount for fucking Wi Fi?
[00:02:09] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. I'll just go,
[00:02:12] Unknown:
you know, go dinosaur. You know? I I'll get what they provide me. Right?
[00:02:21] Rich Chelson:
Well, I'll have to help you float your boat there, cupcake.
[00:02:25] Unknown:
I do oh, shit. I don't fucking talk to anybody. So, yeah, that's that's about all there is to that. So you'll go back and get your partial tomorrow.
[00:02:37] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. So I have to get up at 04:30 again so I can get moving because walk ins, they take walk ins from 07:30 to 08:00, and it's kind of a crapshoot when they see you. K. Doing it that way, but oh, well. I want my partial back.
[00:03:00] Bryan Goodwin:
Kinda miss it already.
[00:03:02] Rich Chelson:
Well, yeah. Yeah. I do.
[00:03:07] Unknown:
I bet you're one of the people in '19 what was it? '81. I want my MTV.
[00:03:16] Rich Chelson:
No. I'd
[00:03:18] Bryan Goodwin:
no. I didn't No. He wasn't allowed to watch MTV. No. I wasn't. Gotta remember, he he wasn't allowed to watch anything other than Gunsmoke, Little House on the Prairie, and and and and and, and Bonanza. And the Waltons. Governor can't forget the Waltons. Oh, yeah. No. You can't forget the Waltons. And then and then watch Disney on Sunday evening. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Well, that yeah. That's that's when you got to watch all the all the really racy stuff. Right.
[00:03:48] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. No. But, yeah, I got I got my Internet, so I'm happy about that. Wound up switching my phone from Verizon. Oh, yeah? Cut my bill in half. Braytell to who? AT and T.
[00:04:06] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, okay. Oh, you bundled it all? Okay. So you got your your your cell on your and your and your fiber?
[00:04:14] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Yeah. The, there was another lady that works with AT and T, come by to make sure I was all set up and everything, and and we got to talking about, you know, my phone and stuff. And she asked me what I pay, and I said, oh, about $1.40. And she looked at me and she said, for one line? I said, yeah. Yeah? She's like, oh my. Oh, no. No. I she's like, hang on a minute. And so she started doing things, and I got to keep both numbers. Yeah. And, everything like this. I got I got the same thing I had with with Verizon for half price.
Well, that's good. Yeah. So I'm like so, yeah, I called Verizon, and the dude at Verizon I mean, he was cool about it. You know? And he was like, well, if you don't mind me asking, he's like he's like, you know, you've been with Verizon for three years. Have you tried to call us, see if you can lower your bill? I said, hoss, I don't think y'all can get half my bill down. And, I mean, the dude didn't try and bullshit me. He's like, yeah. That might be kinda hard. You know? But, I mean, he was real nice, and I told him who I was going with. And he's like, well, I'm sorry to hear that, he said, but I totally understand it.
You know? I'm like, you know, you know, any day you can save me half off my and plus, I don't have a contract with AT and T. That's good. So so my price is set. Now the only time that I might ever have a contract is if I buy a phone through AT and T. You know? Yeah. But but since I already had my phone, I'm not I'm not locked into any contract. That's good. So I was like, alright. We good.
[00:06:21] Unknown:
Well, there you go. Right. A dollar's a a dollar's a dollar, a dime's a dime.
[00:06:27] Rich Chelson:
Exactly. Okay. I got some fast freaking Internet.
[00:06:32] Unknown:
So that will, what, help you game better?
[00:06:38] Rich Chelson:
It'll just make things smoother. You know, pages load faster. I've already noticed, like, on TV because with with my other Internet and I didn't watch much Paramount Plus just because of the fact that with Sparklight, Paramount Plus was all jittery. I mean, god, it would take forever just to open the app and then to bring a show up. And then if I click the PlayDash show, it would have to buffer and think about it for a minute. And when I got my fiber hooked up, I went into Paramount Plus, kicked the show on, and boom, it started playing.
I'm like, there we go. So so, yeah, it'll it'll just make things smoother and operate better, and, you know, it and it won't slow down. I didn't, AT and T just got fiber Internet in town here.
[00:07:39] Unknown:
Oh, wow. Yeah. I know our area, we've had AT and T Fiber for four or five years now.
[00:07:50] Rich Chelson:
Okay.
[00:07:51] Unknown:
Because my next door neighbor, he was he was the only one, so they had to wire or I think they had to do a separate thing to get him wired in because it actually wasn't into I don't know. But he was the only one that had it. I'm like, well, amen, brother. You knocked yourself the fuck out.
[00:08:19] Rich Chelson:
Well, they, offered me fiber Internet gig speed at $65 a month.
[00:08:27] Unknown:
Well, that's pretty fucking good.
[00:08:29] Rich Chelson:
Right. Versus $1.15 for the Internet I had. So so, yeah, tomorrow, I gotta call them and, call the spark light and say, yo, I ain't keeping your service.
[00:08:44] Unknown:
So you saved half there, almost half. Altogether. Half on your half on your phone.
[00:08:53] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Pretty much. Altogether, I saved about a $120 a month. I was paying There you go. I was paying $2.50 a month between phone and Internet, and now I'm paying total of, like, $1.40.
[00:09:09] Unknown:
And you have fiber?
[00:09:11] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. And I got fiber. Yo. What a deal.
[00:09:14] Unknown:
What a deal. So Well, so I'm sure both of you have, and I know it's been on a lot of shows that Charlie Kirk was assassinated yesterday.
[00:09:29] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Yeah. And talked with the veteran today at the VA. I I don't know where he got his video, but it was shot at the event. And I'm talking, like, within 30 feet of Charlie Cook or Charlie Kirk, and it shows.
[00:09:50] Bryan Goodwin:
Yep. It shows the impact and Yeah. All of the damage.
[00:09:55] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. It does. Yeah. I think
[00:09:58] Unknown:
I think they have I think that one's been taken down.
[00:10:01] Bryan Goodwin:
Well, it might be. I've got a copy of it. So I've, you know, I've got it for for for for, just anytime I feel like I've not, not easing up as much as the or easing up a little what the rep might you know? If I feel like I wanna go easy, it's like, yeah. No. We're gonna hold on to that. That's gonna be a that's a that's something that's gonna be held on to because that's eventually, they're gonna say, no. He was never shot and be one of those times where you need to whip it out and go, no. See, that's not a freaking that's not a freaking oh, it's it's a it's a fake shot. So no. You see it you see the, the the the nervous system shut down in almost damn near instant. So
[00:10:51] Unknown:
Yeah. Well You see that? The
[00:10:54] Rich Chelson:
back. The, jugular get blown out Yep. With blood.
[00:10:59] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, yeah. No. It's, it's used to they they good chance that that thirty aught six went
[00:11:05] Rich Chelson:
with at least two arteries, if not three, on that side. Well, see, that's the thing. I hadn't found any information about the size of the weapon. All I had been hearing was a high powered rifle, but after seeing the video, I mean, it was minimum 30 caliber.
[00:11:22] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. It's a See here. See if I can find the I was thinking out six myself
[00:11:27] Rich Chelson:
with the damage it did. Right. It damn sure wasn't a 22.
[00:11:32] Bryan Goodwin:
No. By far. No.
[00:11:35] Unknown:
See. You know, and I saw the video, but, you know, I'm not gonna save it. I've I've seen it. I watched it twice, and that was plenty enough for me.
[00:11:46] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. I watched it once, and I you know, that there, couple of the articles I've read has said something that, you know, they think the shooter appears to be college age bullshit. A fucking a fucking 200 yard shot that tight because the neck is not
[00:12:09] Bryan Goodwin:
is is not an open shot. Yeah. And I think he more likely, he was aiming for whoever it was, was aiming for the head and just it he wouldn't he wouldn't he didn't compensate for some for some drop. But over on ABC News up at, at a at a 200 yards. Yeah. You ain't gonna have any drop. So ABC News said a mid demand hunt hunt for the subject who's believed to be college age. Official said Thursday that they're working around the clock to locate the individual. The FBI also said that it has recovered what is believed to be the weapon used in the deadly shooting, a high powered bolt action rifle was recovered in the wooded area near the shooting where near where the shooting took place according to the lake Salt Lake City FBI special agent Robert Bowles.
The rifle is an older model imported Mauser 30 aught six, caliber bolt action rifle wrapped in a towel. Multiple law enforcement sources, also told ABC News the location of the firearm appears to match the suspect's route of travel, the sources said. The call the spit cartridge is still chambered and three unspent cartridges containing wording on them, expressing what's law enforcement officials describe as transgender and anti fascist writing. So, basically, he pulled a Luigi Mangione, the guy that shot the shot the UnitedHealthcare CEO earlier this year?
[00:13:42] Rich Chelson:
I don't remember hearing about that. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah.
[00:13:45] Bryan Goodwin:
Because he had he had three, three rounds in his in his in his gun, and they had say, here, what was on Luigi Mangione bullet casings. They had, had, three bullets, and each one had had either delay, deny, and depose written on them, referencing the three d's of insurance claims. So may it looks like this guy was using the same using the same the same, you know, strategy of I've got your name on that bullet type thing. Unclear what that means what that means, and authorities are still looking to determine the meaning of whether the markings were intended as a misdirection or investigators.
That's ABC going, well, we don't know for because, they're one of the things that the left has been, on the news has been going. It's like, well, we don't know if he is, if he's really a what's who he actually is, and, we don't know what his, what the motivation was. I was like, damn. We know what the motivation was. He accomplished his motive. And so it was like, no. It's what the motive was. They did not agree with Charlie Kirk. It's not because there was also they were saying, well, it might be, some of his some of his followers who are really excited and accidentally discharged a weapon. Yeah. Don't fucking think so. Yeah. It's like, no. For you know, actually, we're responsible gun owners. We don't just stand around waving our guns around. That's sorry. That's the other side that likes to do that.
But, anyhow, the gun in the country just recovered were thrown to the FBI's main laboratory in Quantico, Virginia, and most for most techno technologically advanced forensic analysis, Law enforcement sources told told ABC News the focus is up to, look for lightened free fingerprints DNA. The source said, and upon completion of the forensics, the firearms will be disassembled for additional important information. So but again, yeah, the guy was up on top of the they they're they're at least getting somewhat smart. There's in that, they're finding high grounds to to take a shot at. It's just this time, the guy had a little more training as to, you know, end end of shooting. So
[00:16:18] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. I don't I don't think it was an everyday citizen. That's just my opinion. It could've been. It it it very well could be, but I don't think so. Right.
[00:16:30] Unknown:
I would have to agree with you on the phone, Rich.
[00:16:33] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. I've been I've been I've been somewhat known on that, you know, all day. I mean, it is possible, but, yeah, something something doesn't something's not breathing right. You know what I mean? Right.
[00:16:48] Unknown:
Oh, yeah. Absolutely.
[00:16:50] Rich Chelson:
So that's why it's just it's like
[00:16:55] Unknown:
because he would have probably been running for president in about twelve years.
[00:17:00] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. I just, yeah, I just think it's wrong that that when okay. I didn't know that was gonna happen. You know, I just think it's wrong that, you know, people, whoever the person is, had to thought they had to resort to violence. Right. Because they freaking disagreed with what someone said. You know? I mean, we're sad. We are sad as a nation if if if if we're allowing this type of behavior. Right.
[00:17:37] Unknown:
Yeah. Because who knows? It might have been that individual at one point in time may have had, you know, that one on one discussion that they that Charlie Kirk had at his events, and Charlie's fucking, you know, 100 disagree with them and, yeah, pissed them off.
[00:18:01] Rich Chelson:
And you see that Or,
[00:18:03] Unknown:
you know, embarrassed the hell out of them Right. Because Charlie Kirk will fucking he'll pick you apart piece by piece. Yeah. And with facts.
[00:18:18] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. With that.
[00:18:20] Unknown:
Mhmm. And so that that
[00:18:24] Rich Chelson:
that freaking goes back to, in in my eyes, the parents because the parents didn't discipline their children. You know? And I'm not I'm not saying, you know, capital punishment or anything. There's there are many ways to, say a discipline and raise children. But, you know, that person did who did it either was paid or if it was a student, they were just let to run wild and and to do whatever they want and express themselves however they want.
[00:19:00] Unknown:
You know, I think it I think it's much more like a hit than anything else.
[00:19:06] Rich Chelson:
Alright? I tend to lean to that side. Again, I could be wrong, but
[00:19:14] Unknown:
I don't know. Yeah. We can we can conspiracy theorist the hell out of it. Oh, yeah. You should You know, the but it I'm not doing it. I don't conspiracy theory shit. You know, I may have a whistleblower, word I'm looking for, not opinion, but a common sense common sense opinion. You know, I don't say that just because, hey. This is what I wanna say. You know, having this conversation, you know, what I've said, it has been thought out. It's like, you know, common sense. But, again, how long did it take for them to bring out the, JFK files?
[00:20:00] Rich Chelson:
Sixty two years.
[00:20:02] Unknown:
Yep. And what did it what did it basically come down to?
[00:20:07] Rich Chelson:
Freaking government did it. The government?
[00:20:10] Unknown:
Yeah. Took the hit or created the situation for to make the hit. Yeah.
[00:20:19] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah.
[00:20:21] Unknown:
Well, I think it's you know, I think this was a a hit.
[00:20:27] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. That's
[00:20:29] Unknown:
Because he was getting too many followers, you know, getting getting too big in in that person and or that group's mind, so he had to be contained.
[00:20:44] Rich Chelson:
That's that's my leaning right there. He was too popular.
[00:20:48] Bryan Goodwin:
Mhmm. Well, I mean, that's that is a possibility, but at the same time, I'm not I can't can't fully see that. I mean, I'm I I can't make that that particularly. I could see that yeah. I mean, there would there be some, you know, nefarious organizations going, yep. Yep. Yep. He's getting too big. He's getting too popular. We need to take him out. I mean yeah. But it would and it Yeah. I mean, it's You know? The the Local. You know, that Salt Lake City Communist Party, you know, something maybe like that, some little some little group that feature who envisions themselves as being, you know, a, the the the birthplace of the next revolution.
But as a as a whole, no. I think this was probably just a lone dude who took all the rhetoric that the left says to heart. Right? And thought, oh, well, I need to take this guy down, which, I mean, I'm I'm a firm believer that that liberalism is a is a mental disorder. Yeah.
[00:22:02] Rich Chelson:
But I don't know. Argue that point, would you?
[00:22:06] Bryan Goodwin:
But it's it's a it I think it was more of if there are there are conspirators, there's probably two, you know, maybe three. Right. But I don't think it's I don't think it's a whole, you know, part plot by by, you know, a quarter of the of the of the college, college student population, you know, or even, you know, 75% of the college student population, the way they're cranking them out these days.
[00:22:36] Rich Chelson:
Well, yeah. But but you see, you see, you I don't know. You see, that's the thing because most of your college students are are are definitely scared of guns. You know? I mean, they just they just don't wanna I mean, they even see the hint of a of a water gun, and they wanna, you know, scream and run. Right. You know? So that I mean, that's I don't know. It just and and liberalism being a mental problem, no. That that I can't agree with because of the fact that thinking that way is a choice. And and if it's if it's if it's a mental disorder, it's you kinda have a choice, I guess, but not really a choice. You know? Do you understand what I mean?
[00:23:35] Bryan Goodwin:
Mhmm.
[00:23:36] Rich Chelson:
So that's that's why that's why I can't I can't get behind that statement that, you know, it's a mental disorder because they choose to think like that.
[00:23:47] Bryan Goodwin:
Well, a lot of them do, but at the same time, they are fed this, and they're they're doing the one thing that, have has always been told, get them when they're young.
[00:24:01] Rich Chelson:
Oh, yeah.
[00:24:02] Bryan Goodwin:
So and they and they do. They there it was evident during during the Biden era when, you know, everybody was talking about, well, why does a five year old need a book on masturbation? Why does a five year old need a book on gender studies? Yeah. Starting, you know, start there with just these little kiddie books and working their way up, and then you've got you know, we all saw videos of the teachers who had the every every left wing ideology flag up in their room and and and, you know, they're not being taught math. No. And they're because, I mean, they'll they're not being taught to read. I mean, more kids more of the kids these days are struggling to even read coming out with, like, a third, fourth, fifth grade level reading skill, and they're they're high schoolers.
Yeah. Kids are are struggling to read, and that's because, again, teachers aren't doing their job. They're all excited and got the got their, the like, in their bean over the fact that, hey. We get to talk about we get to indoctrinate these kids. And do I think that there's teachers out there that are that are like that? Yes. Do I also think that there are a good deal of teachers who are just trying to trying to make a living and just trying to get get what, make sure that they get yeah. They're well, minimalist. They're just they're trying to try to teach the kid this the, the subject that they're assigned.
Yeah. And I think the majority of teachers are are some really incredible teachers who truly love the calling of of of of educating. Yeah. Yeah. I think there are those they're out there too. I think we've got still got some some younger teachers that are younger than us, but still have the same thought as, you know, missus Reisner who had, which I, you know, I couldn't tell you what missus Reisner's ideology was. I couldn't even tell I couldn't even tell you if she was married or not. And that's because husband's a good teacher. Well, yeah. Poetically speaking, she kept her shit to herself.
[00:26:27] Rich Chelson:
Mhmm.
[00:26:28] Bryan Goodwin:
And that's the way most people education needs to be. It needs to be education or it needs to be political free, but you have the radicalized and this is where I point my the finger at the at the at Gen X. It is the the the onslaught of of communist, socialist, communist teachers that are in school these days is on our shoulders. It's not that we want our kids to be communist socialist. I mean, we have those in our in our in our midst. I mean, I have friends who are you know, I've got one friend who I grew up with, and she has she is well embraced woke.
She's a teacher too, but it is one of those there there are those those, you know, those left leaning Gen Xers out there. But You know? But, again, we what us Gen Xers failed to do was to be vigilant about the communists when, like like, everything else that we've ever seen. Once the you know, once we defeated communism, sweet. They now know that communism sucks balls, and no one needs to be no one needs to be a communist because, you know, now all the, all the communists are realizing, holy smokes. Why? You get to have some pretty cool shit whenever you're you're in capitalism. You get to work and you get you don't you're not stuck on being being broke all the time. You're not spending your whole day standing in a bread line hoping that you were you, you're at least not the very last one to get the, the first one of the of the no bread people.
Yeah. And so those who were in East Germany, those who were in in Russia, I mean, they got to realize, holy smokes, man. This is pretty cool. Everything that we are being told was an absolute total lie and got to see and and are one of the greatest some those folks are some of the greatest proponents for, and for for capitalism. While, you know, we've got we've got blue haired septum pierced lesbian wannabes running around, not, yeah, in congress, but not even in congress, but just, you know, in in, in society who thinks that we are out to we have gone off and sold sold our children to build goods that that they're never going to and they're never going to be able to own a house or or or never be able to find happiness.
Well, you are. The trick though is that one, we have to do the really uncomfortable thing, and next time the housing market falls, let it fall.
[00:29:41] Rich Chelson:
We did that in a way, dude. No. We didn't.
[00:29:44] Bryan Goodwin:
They were they brought the banks up. They didn't let the banks actually fail. Oh, yeah. You had the whichever there was one of the large banks that that went under, and then all of a sudden, they did the George w Bush for all the good that he did. He went out and was like, alright. Well, here's a whole bunch of money for the banks so the banks don't put fail. No. Let the banks fail. Let them fall. Let the it it's not comfortable. We haven't had a an actual economic depression in a century. Coming up on a century, actually, not a full century, but we're coming up on it. And before then, we had fairly regular depressions.
There was actually a depression at the beginning of the night, the roaring twenties. Did you know that? No. Yeah. They had a depression in the twenties, and everything they did to reverse that, to to reverse the the depression led into the rolling twenties. K. And so there is and it it didn't last no ten years. It lasted, like, two, I think. But we had naturally have a cycle, economically speaking, to where you're going to have a growing prosperity. You're gonna have a great prosperity. Then you're gonna have a recession, and it's gonna go into into which is basically fall. And from fall, you're gonna have this barren winter session where things start leveling out or actually get leveled out and get back under their feet for the for the good times to come rolling back.
And, again, this is another problem with with when the government gets in the way of economic means. When you the government lets lets a hedge funds, the companies go off and buy up a huge swath of homes and property for higher than value prices, which is what happened. Yeah. Most of most of gen, gen z or most of the millennials and men and and and the vast majority of Gen z is going to struggle to buy a house. I still go and work, and I'm around down in Central Texas. And to buy a a single wide trailer house on a little I mean, under an acre of land, and they're still screaming for a $100.
Mhmm. It's like, no. Yeah. That's that's bullshit. Yeah. I know the government loves it because the government's going off and collecting their their their sliding scale rent from the from the property owner or the property renter, technically. And so, yeah, the government has lost, you know, has lost their their way. They don't lead, like, let people live their life that they that they, have a potential to get to, But because they because the government has done socialistic actions, like, you know, doing some type of some price control. Saint Paul was the re most recent one who was here recently become the city with the most aggressive price with, fixing and price controls on on housing.
And they quickly realized what they screwed up on and, because what you end up doing is when you have a you have someone set up price controls on a on a on a an apartment, they can only raise. Like, the one here to Saint Paul, what they ended up doing is they passed a a a resolution or a law or ordinance that's worked for, on on apartments that they can't be when someone comes in and rents, you cannot raise that rent more than 3%. So you get people who stick to one, it doesn't it doesn't incentivize them to move out because if they leave get up and leave, then that that apartment that they were in, that's when they get to try they they get to raise the price.
You wanna get a a get a more of a, of a better value from the, from that apartment? Well, you gotta find some way of getting this person to move out of the apartment so that you can then rent have somebody come in and rent it for a higher amount instead of letting the prices naturally rise up, which if you're if you're having scarcity in housing, then, yeah, the prices are gonna go up. And what you need to do is you need to allow for more housing to be installed. That's one reason why San Francisco's so damn expensive because everybody's all worried about the homeless. They oh, there's a there's a homeless problem. There's there where there's a housing shortage. Well, we're gonna put a, an apartment complex. Oh, no. You can't put an apartment here, not in my backyard.
And so they set these, you know, these restrictions up, and all of a sudden, you can't you can't get an apartment. And so the prices you know, the the cost of living flies through the roof, and the people who are already at apartments, they're not going to try to move because the next place they move to is going to be a higher gonna cost closer to actual market value. And so you have you have the birth of the slumlords showing up. They're not going to increase the the the benefits of of living in this apartment complex because, one, they're not making much money off of it. Cost of living is still going up, but, you know, I can all you know, went up 12%, and I've I could only raise it by three, so I'm losing a shit ton of money now.
So they're not they're doing everything they can to incentivize to try to incentivize the person you know, the tenants to move out so they can raise their prices. So you get the slump, and they're they're not fixing things. They're using secondhand stuff. They're, you know, running the housing into slums. And so it it's a it's a when you take open market out of stuff, things become crappier. The government can't help but destroy stuff. And that's that's the the it's not an anti government rant that I'm on because we do need the government. We need the government to be able to protect our actual rights. Doesn't mean that the government gets to bestow us rights, but they're there to protect our rights.
They're the government is there to protect us.
[00:36:47] Rich Chelson:
And You know that hasn't been happening for a long while.
[00:36:52] Bryan Goodwin:
No. Not I mean, especially not in the cities. No. Some of the smaller towns are have still got a lot of that where they are because they they're the closest to the actual community. When you're in the small towns like my hometown, you know, you're gonna get a lot of people who they know what they they'll go up and they'll talk to to to the mayor Right. And give them a give them a walk for if all of a sudden, you know, they raise water, the the water fee to, to something astronomical. Just throwing something in there. There's nothing I don't know of that's going on like that, but I haven't I haven't delved into into hometown politics in in forever. So
[00:37:36] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. But still, you see, that's the thing, though. You know? I mean, yeah, that's fine in in hometown politics, but that's normally where it stays. Some people might take it to the state level. Okay. And that's fine too. But that's it. Right. I mean, yes yes. People do call every day to their senators and and congressmen and all like that, but truly, honestly, how much gets done? You know?
[00:38:05] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. Not much. That's you know, it it is a it is better of not what you know, but who you know. And It shouldn't be that way, but it is. Right. So And and it shouldn't. But, again, it is. It's it's just when it comes to government, that's just how government operates is. Oh, well, okay. I've got I made it into
[00:38:28] Rich Chelson:
You see, though, per the constitution? That's treasonous. It's wrong. We Well We, the people, have the power to fix it,
[00:38:40] Bryan Goodwin:
but we don't wanna be bothered with it. Well, no. Because most of us are too busy, you know, doing what doing what the, what the constitution says or, you know, or or the declaration of independence. Go on for, you know, pursuing life, liberty, and the and the pursuit of happiness. We're that's what we're after. And so yeah. Then that's why when we find a a a, when when we find a problem with with something that is infringing upon our rights, that's when we throw start throwing a big fit. And we get louder the more people start to press against that that right that limit of our of our rights.
[00:39:25] Rich Chelson:
We should have been throwing a fit for the past thirty years then. Oh, yeah. We should have. Come on now. I mean I mean, because our our our right afforded to us by, you know, the Bill of Rights, Constitution, whatever you wanna you know, whichever documents you wanna use, okay, the government has been infringing on those for
[00:39:49] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, especially since since February.
[00:39:54] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Well, even in the '90.
[00:39:56] Bryan Goodwin:
You know? No. There's still it's some in the nineties, but, I mean, it was it was a big leap forward when when, the Patriot Act came about.
[00:40:05] Rich Chelson:
Oh, yeah. And yeah. But see, that's you see, that's the thing. But, yeah, every everyone wants to jump on one small little thing and raise a big fuss over it instead of going after the the problem. With a solution, I'm not saying balance is the answer because, you know, we don't need it. We can get shit done. Just walk in and say you're fired. Get the hell out. You know?
[00:40:37] Unknown:
Yep. But
[00:40:39] Rich Chelson:
that's not what people are gonna do. They're just gonna sit and bitch and bitch and bitch and stress and just get up and go to work the next day. Because if they don't show up to work, they don't get paid, and that's our life. You know? So, you know, if that's what people wanna do, that's fine, but stop your fucking bitching then. You know? I'll say what's on my mind, and I don't care if people like me or not.
[00:41:06] Unknown:
Right.
[00:41:08] Rich Chelson:
But that's just my 2¢ on that. Let's get 2¢. I might have three later if I think about it long enough. But don't push for four because you ain't getting four.
[00:41:24] Unknown:
I bet you if we poke the bear hard enough, we'll get fucking five.
[00:41:28] Rich Chelson:
I don't know. I'm wore out, like I said, dude. You know, 04:30 this morning being up and then leaving the house by 06:30 so I could hopefully I I was I was hoping to get there, have them fix my partials, and then, you know, I could just come back home and be okay. But, you know, if I could've stayed there till 11:30, you know, I'd have been fine. But the Internet guy was coming between twelve and two, and he showed up about, I don't know, twenty after one. So he was in his window.
[00:42:05] Unknown:
Yeah. Yeah.
[00:42:07] Rich Chelson:
So that's why because the nurse asked me if I could stay, and I said, actually, I can't. You know? Because, I mean, knowing my luck, if I would have stayed and left right shortly after, you know, 11:30, I wouldn't gotten home till 12:45. And knowing my luck, it would have been early. Right? So that's why I was like, oh, I can't. I says I've got another appointment. And, I says, I was thinking real quick. I'm like, I can come back tomorrow because I really want my parcel. Yeah.
[00:42:42] Bryan Goodwin:
So Kinda nice being able to eat.
[00:42:45] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. It is.
[00:42:46] Bryan Goodwin:
And and and you doesn't feel like your face is falling in. So
[00:42:51] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Because yeah. You know, having not not having my partials and having that space up front there is that has really been driving me up a wall. Right. I mean, at night, you know, when I take my partials out, it at night, it doesn't bother me because I, you know, I I consciously take them out. So, you know, I expect that. But, you know, like like I say yesterday when that that hot AT and T sales girl came and talked to me. My partials were broke. They weren't in my mouth. And I'm sitting there, you know, trying to So consciously going, you know? God. Don't look at my face. Don't look at my face. I hate. Right? I was like I was like, you know, I mean I mean, this girl was young and whatever, but still, it's the fact that, you know, I'm I'm I'm vain about this stuff.
You know? I mean, not saying not saying
[00:43:46] Bryan Goodwin:
I had a snowball's chance in hell with her. It's just wasn't being about it. But still, you know, but at the same time, you any type of of pride. It doesn't matter whether you're it's male pride or female pride. Right. It is it is pride in in in yourself. You take pride in who you are. Mhmm. And when you don't have don't have the partials in, you know, that's a that's a slide upon who you are. You show up a 100% of who you are. And at that time, your 100% didn't meet the level of what you approve of. And so, yeah, you wouldn't you wouldn't be wouldn't be proud to be seen like that.
[00:44:31] Rich Chelson:
Right. And then, yeah, that's why that's why it just you know, it's just like, that's why I said, I will come back tomorrow and get them. You know? Right.
[00:44:43] Unknown:
So with not having them in at night doesn't affect your mask fitting?
[00:44:48] Rich Chelson:
No. No. No? Okay. No. Because they, I mean I mean, it's just three teeth up front. I've got the rest of them. Them. Yeah. Oh, I know. So yeah. No. It doesn't no. It doesn't mess mess with it at all.
[00:45:04] Unknown:
Oh, that's good.
[00:45:05] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. At first at first, when I first had all them teeth pulled, though, I really had to brush my teeth because if I didn't, I guess I guess little bits of food would get worked around, you know, if I had my mask on. And it would Oh, yeah. It would make, like, an air pocket, and it'd freaking wake me up. Yeah. Because the air that was getting blown in was was like, you know, a freaking tunnel or something. Or it was Yeah. Yeah. Because it's pressurized air. Yeah. And it's it's like, oh my god. It woke me up. So it's like, I had to make sure every night that I brushed my teeth before I went to bed, you know, just in case a little piece of food
[00:45:52] Bryan Goodwin:
got in the wrong place. Dislodged and all of a sudden Right. Yeah.
[00:45:57] Rich Chelson:
So that happened once or twice, and I was like, yeah. No. I'm good.
[00:46:04] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. I'm nuts. That's a that would be a bit on the annoying side for sure. It's like that. I'm kinda sleep here. I don't need my don't need to attack the broccoli.
[00:46:17] Rich Chelson:
I know. Dude, it's just rude. It is. It's been rude. You know? I mean, you'd be sleeping good, and then all of a sudden, a little piece of broccoli just hitting the next spot. And then it feels like you got just a jet stream of air going right into a nerve. Your Oh, wow. Okay. Instantly come open.
[00:46:40] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah.
[00:46:43] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. That mask comes off pretty quick. What the fuck? Then once you wake up after saying that, then you're like, yeah. I know what I need to do. So but the good thing is they, they set it up to where I could claim travel pay today. Oh, really good. Yeah. I was shocked because I, I had I had sent a message to my nurse because one of my, prescriptions didn't have any refills. I'm like, yo. Hey. I need this refilled. And, I was looking on the VA app. It says, you have one trouble claim to to, claim. Let me look.
[00:47:25] Bryan Goodwin:
Like, hell, yeah. Got a lot of money.
[00:47:27] Rich Chelson:
I will have in a couple days. But Oh, yeah. But and and what's nice, though, is is you can go on the VA's app. And before, you would have to go to the travel website, the VA's travel website, submit your claim, and blah blah blah. Now you do it all right there in the app. It's couple buttons, check a box, hit the last button. We're reviewing your claim. I see. Two, three days, money is in your account. Yeah. Yeah. It makes it nice from, what it because you see before, see, before with travel pay, VA didn't have a limit on it. Right? Right.
I mean, you know, if you had, you know, if you had a travel claim from six, eight months ago, you could still claim it. Well, the VA came through and said, yeah. No. You have to do it within thirty days of of your appointment ending.
[00:48:29] Unknown:
Oh, hell.
[00:48:30] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. So once you go to that appointment, you got thirty days to claim travel pay. If you don't claim it, you lose it, which I get it. So that's why it's you know? And I'm not I wasn't looking to claim Travelpay today. But when the offer was in there, guess what?
[00:48:51] Bryan Goodwin:
I claimed it. Exactly. He ain't gonna he ain't gonna, to poo poo a couple bucks.
[00:48:56] Rich Chelson:
No. Y'all know. I mean, shoot. I think they give me, like, $17 for a round trip. So yeah. Okay.
[00:49:08] Unknown:
Pays for your gas.
[00:49:10] Rich Chelson:
That and and a little bit more because I don't use $17 in gas going to Biloxi and back.
[00:49:17] Unknown:
Well, yeah, that's true.
[00:49:19] Rich Chelson:
You know, I I might use 6, maybe 7.
[00:49:24] Unknown:
Well, there you go. Then you can take yourself out to dinner.
[00:49:27] Rich Chelson:
No. I have to worry about punk ass.
[00:49:31] Bryan Goodwin:
Damn dog. Well, just bring her a little bit of a po'boy sandwich, and she'll be okay.
[00:49:36] Rich Chelson:
Bite your tongue. Didn't come from a share po'boy sandwich.
[00:49:40] Bryan Goodwin:
Alright. You love her, you will. I You mean you mean mean man? Yeah. Not sharing any food with her. Nothing like that. No. That's abuse.
[00:49:54] Rich Chelson:
No. It ain't.
[00:49:57] Bryan Goodwin:
No. It ain't.
[00:49:58] Unknown:
Like I said last week, eventually eventually
[00:50:03] Bryan Goodwin:
Rich Rich is gonna be paying cheese tax. Yep. He's gonna he's gonna have he's gonna start setting aside two finger wide pieces, of of po'boy. He's just gonna slice that just cut that out, and he's gonna set that off to the side, and that'll be, I I I'm sorry I had to leave without you there.
[00:50:22] Rich Chelson:
Nope. Sorry. Nope. Not happening. Not not my po'boys. That just that's just not dog food. It it isn't. It is prime dog food. Yeah. No. I do. That.
[00:50:40] Unknown:
You're gonna sleep one day. You're gonna you're gonna sleep one day, and you're gonna give her, you know, half of you know, just a half a piece of cheese, and that'll be it.
[00:50:51] Rich Chelson:
I you know, I don't know. I don't know. She's it's just not real big into human food. I mean, I haven't really tried, but, you know, and that's the thing. Bella doesn't ask either. You know?
[00:51:05] Unknown:
Well, that's good.
[00:51:07] Rich Chelson:
I mean, she's more worried about you know, if I take one step that that might be out of her sight Yeah. She has to have her nose up my crotch knowing where I'm going. You know, it's like, damn, dog. I'm just going to the bathroom. Let me follow you in and see. Sure. Yeah. Figure that. And then Yeah. That yeah. That's and that's that's their job.
[00:51:32] Unknown:
No. Yeah. Okay. Bullshit. That that is her job to make sure she knows where you're at at all times. Well, look at the aspect the last time you had her in the Jeep, and she didn't wanna leave out of the fucking Jeep.
[00:51:50] Rich Chelson:
Right?
[00:51:51] Unknown:
So she that is when you know that you truly have their love and respect.
[00:52:01] Rich Chelson:
Well, sometimes I like a a quiet moment to myself.
[00:52:06] Unknown:
That doesn't fit with the fucking narrative of love and respect. Go ask Bella. It doesn't fit her narrative.
[00:52:16] Rich Chelson:
Right. Right.
[00:52:18] Unknown:
And she's gonna and I know that she's you said she's not very boisterous No. Of a dog.
[00:52:26] Rich Chelson:
Well But You know, it's funny since I, you know, fence you know, put that fence up for her. In the house, Bella doesn't really play. But get her outside, oh my god. She'll play with the balls, sticks, water bottles, you know, that are watered up. I mean, she'll just have a freaking field to do with that. But in the house, no. She won't. And I've tried to get her to play with that stuff.
[00:52:55] Bryan Goodwin:
Uh-huh.
[00:52:56] Rich Chelson:
But, yeah, outside, oh my god. I know it would just go and go and go, so she can hardly breathe. Then she finally stops.
[00:53:08] Unknown:
No. I have I have forgotten all about that fencing. How does it give her a pretty good size area to run around with?
[00:53:17] Rich Chelson:
That's about the size of my house now.
[00:53:20] Unknown:
Really?
[00:53:21] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah.
[00:53:22] Unknown:
Wow.
[00:53:23] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. It looks like 16 feet from being the size of my house and square footage wise.
[00:53:33] Unknown:
Wow. That's a lot of room to run.
[00:53:36] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Oh, yeah. She does too when I'm out there. When I'm not out there, she didn't do nothing. Once in a while, she will, but very rarely.
[00:53:48] Unknown:
Well, again, she's probably getting used to the fence and, you know, the new abilities.
[00:53:57] Rich Chelson:
I don't feel that seem to bother her. I mean, she still didn't bark much. So But when she does, it gets everyone's attention.
[00:54:06] Bryan Goodwin:
Mhmm.
[00:54:07] Rich Chelson:
You know, a lot of times, you know, she barks. It just kinda yelps a little bit. And then after a few times, you don't hear anything.
[00:54:19] Bryan Goodwin:
Shit. They're not paying attention anyhow, so I might as well just shut up.
[00:54:25] Rich Chelson:
Well well, sometimes it's almost scary. You know? Because, like like, this morning when I went to the VA, you know, I put Bella in her account because I knew I would only be gone a couple hours at the most. And, as I was getting in the Jeep, she was barking a little bit. And, yeah, after that, now she just quiets up and doesn't doesn't say much. And and then I get home, and she, just looks at me like, okay. Let me out now. Then, of course, see if she had to jump on me. Of course. So but she is smart as a whip because she will get on the top step of the back porch and try and open that freaking door.
Stand up on her hind legs. She can reshot doorknob. And I did not teach her that.
[00:55:25] Unknown:
What? Trying to use basically trying to let herself back in. Right?
[00:55:29] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Yeah. Because oh my god. Dad's inside. Oh, yeah.
[00:55:35] Unknown:
Oh, wow. Yeah.
[00:55:38] Rich Chelson:
She's smart. She's very smart.
[00:55:41] Unknown:
So is she still sleeping on the couch?
[00:55:44] Rich Chelson:
No. I've got her in her in at night, I, put her in her kennel because, left her out one night, and she, woke up next morning, and she decided to use the bathroom. And it's like,
[00:56:01] Bryan Goodwin:
Yep. They like to most dogs like to go to the bathroom around 04:30, 05:00 in the morning.
[00:56:07] Rich Chelson:
Well, you know, it's like, no. You see, that's the thing. You know you know, before, now I'd sleep till whenever you know, get up whenever. Now I'm up by and I'm normally up before my alarm goes off, but I'm up by 06:30 every morning Right. Just because of that. You know? It ain't 04:30 or 05:30, but, you know, I figured I'll I'll sleep till 06:30, you know, and then get up, let her go potty, then feed her and all like that. You know? Mhmm. But, yeah, it's like, uh-uh. I I'm not I'm not cleaning up dog piss and dog shit every morning. Not gonna happen.
[00:56:50] Bryan Goodwin:
I understand.
[00:56:52] Rich Chelson:
So and and it just and, I mean, it doesn't hurt her to be in her kennel.
[00:56:56] Bryan Goodwin:
No. No. It's just a little uncomfortable.
[00:56:59] Rich Chelson:
No. She has more than enough room in her No. No. No. No. No.
[00:57:03] Bryan Goodwin:
How uncomfortable are you when you have to pee and you can't?
[00:57:08] Rich Chelson:
Oh, yeah. I get that.
[00:57:10] Bryan Goodwin:
So that's what I mean by a little more. I'm just a little uncomfortable.
[00:57:14] Rich Chelson:
So Well, at the most, she's waiting, what, hour, hour and a half?
[00:57:20] Bryan Goodwin:
Because Possible. Yeah.
[00:57:22] Rich Chelson:
I've got I've got my alarm set for 06:30, and I'm normally up by six. And I don't and I don't tell myself to get up at that time either.
[00:57:32] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. No. That's just that's that's you having normal, you know, normal biological clock
[00:57:41] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[00:57:42] Bryan Goodwin:
Response. You you end up you know, I'm gonna get up at 06:30 in the morning. Well, most people who are able to set their set their wake up at that time, wake up about 05:10 minutes early.
[00:57:59] Rich Chelson:
Right?
[00:58:01] Bryan Goodwin:
So that's that's just our our just one of the really cool things about how human bodies and minds work is that we often do. We wake up, you know, five, ten minutes early. We I think what happens a lot of times, we do little micro wake ups where we're laying there, and we wake up just enough to see what the clock is. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, we got ten minutes. Let's get up. Alright. So
[00:58:32] Unknown:
Yeah. Not not this body.
[00:58:36] Rich Chelson:
Dude gets But Drinks coffee, has a cigarette, and goes back to bed.
[00:58:41] Unknown:
Right. On the fucking weekends? You damn fucking right. And and during the week, when that alarm clock goes off, it'll go off, like, three, four, five times. And I'm like, fuck. Alright. I get my fucking ass out of bed and go to work. Yeah. I'm not a I'm not a first ring of the alarm talk type individual. No. Never have been in my life that type of person. Now is it too late in life to start? Well, absolutely not. However, I'm not fucking going to. I will get up Saturday morning, make myself a mug or fucking tumbler of coffee, have a couple smokes, and take my ass back to bed.
And sometimes that I'll go back to sleep, and I won't wake up until fucking 11:00 or noon.
[00:59:45] Rich Chelson:
Oh my god.
[00:59:47] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, yeah.
[00:59:48] Rich Chelson:
I've lost three fourths a day that way. Oh, yeah. No. I I can't do that either. I might not do anything all morning. You know?
[00:59:57] Bryan Goodwin:
Still At least be awake. Yeah. Right. Yeah.
[01:00:02] Unknown:
Yeah. Fuck that. His partner just to snooze.
[01:00:07] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Then I wake up refreshed. Then what?
[01:00:12] Unknown:
Then I wake up refreshed. But having that alarm clock go off, no. Never not one time have I beat my alarm clock to getting up.
[01:00:27] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. I can't say that.
[01:00:31] Unknown:
And now I say that tomorrow, I'll fucking beat the alarm clock.
[01:00:35] Rich Chelson:
That'd be funny. You know?
[01:00:38] Unknown:
Yeah. But I'm gonna get up, go take pee, and go back until that motherfucker goes, get up, motherfucker.
[01:00:48] Rich Chelson:
See, I've I've I've got a an annoying alarm, and, I mean, it jolts me awake. So when that thing goes off, there ain't no way I'm getting back to sleep. I I mean, I I've done I've done I've done jumped two foot up off the bed just because I was snoozing.
[01:01:11] Unknown:
Uh-huh.
[01:01:12] Rich Chelson:
And that thing decided to go off. No.
[01:01:15] Unknown:
Yeah. No. I'll however, I can't do that this Saturday.
[01:01:21] Rich Chelson:
What's that?
[01:01:23] Unknown:
However, I can't do that this Saturday.
[01:01:26] Rich Chelson:
Why?
[01:01:26] Unknown:
Because I already told somebody that they're gonna go wheeling.
[01:01:32] Bryan Goodwin:
Cool. Kicked you out.
[01:01:34] Rich Chelson:
Where are you going wheeling at?
[01:01:36] Unknown:
They got a new place around here called Domo.
[01:01:39] Rich Chelson:
Oh, okay. Okay.
[01:01:41] Unknown:
And it's not a bad park, but it's not they don't have the rock climbing, a lot of rock climbing obstacles to do yet. However, we had one guy when I went out there three weeks ago. I think it was three weekends ago or two weekends ago. And this was the last minute that noticed thing because I declined, you know, a couple of times with the one of the Jeep clubs I'm with going out to Domo. And so this one was a last minute thing, and I said, yeah. I'd go out there, and then they post pictures. And, of course, I get one individual. It's like, oh, you'll go with those guys, but you won't come out there with us. I'm like, god. I didn't. Word just fucking travels fast, doesn't it? Jesus. So so we had a, kinda like a Jeep invasion in Killeen last Saturday night.
I don't know. There's probably about a 100 about a 100 Jeeps that came out for it. And it's just basically there wasn't any charge for you to come out and, you know, hang out and let people look at your Jeeps. But there wasn't a very big crowd coming outside of the Jeep community. You know? And they had a couple of high school bands, you know, doing doing their routines, but there wasn't a lot of, you know, just civilians coming out to book.
[01:03:27] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[01:03:29] Unknown:
Maybe they'll improve it next year. Who knows? You know, get a little bit more word out. But, you know, that was fun.
[01:03:38] Rich Chelson:
So But, yeah, I think it's they'll start someplace.
[01:03:42] Unknown:
Yeah. So the leader of the other group that I'm in is like, well, we're going to Domo next week. You going? I'm like, you know, as we're all sitting around as a group. And I'm like, yeah. I don't know yet. She's like, yeah. You'll go with the other group, but you ain't gonna go with us? That that's not nice. I'm like, you know, okay. And then when I said that, she was like, say it again so everybody here can hear you. Say that say that you're coming. So because if I say I'm coming, I'm gonna go. You know? Right. And then when I got home, the event was up on the on the Jeep page, and, yeah, I clicked on that I was going.
So it's like, okay. There. There's officially your sign. Then I'm going out next weekend. So Saturday, I can't sleep in because I gotta go wheeling.
[01:04:55] Rich Chelson:
Well, that's cool. But
[01:04:56] Unknown:
but we had and, yes, there's they don't have as challenging of obstacles now. They do have some obstacles because one of the guys that I was with two or three Saturdays ago whenever we went out there broke his driver's side rear axle on the the trail is called Bonnie And Clyde Because to get out of this at the end of the trail, you have to either go up this steep slope or that steep slope. You either have to go out Bonnie's side or Clyde's side. I don't know which side he went out of, but he broke his rear axle. The previous time he went out to this park, he broke his rear axle. Same axle.
Two times in a row of going out to this park. I'm like, damn. You're getting that's getting to be fucking expensive.
[01:06:00] Bryan Goodwin:
Right. For sure.
[01:06:03] Unknown:
Because Chromoly axle shafts are not fucking cheap. I think mine and the TJ were, like, a 100 and $140 per axle. So, basically, $280 up front and then $280 in the back. Right. You know? That gets expensive awfully quick. So and he wasn't he I think in the reason why is because he bounced trying to go up the obstacle. And as soon as he bounced and came back down, oh, you heard it snap because of all the all the torque when he bounced.
[01:06:51] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[01:06:52] Unknown:
So, yeah, Domo does not like his Jeep whatsoever.
[01:06:58] Rich Chelson:
Well, no. It went in a park. He bounced it. You don't bounce.
[01:07:03] Unknown:
No. You don't bounce. You don't bounce.
[01:07:06] Rich Chelson:
Jeeps don't bounce too well.
[01:07:09] Unknown:
No. They don't.
[01:07:10] Rich Chelson:
You know? I mean, that's why I don't bounce my Jeep.
[01:07:14] Unknown:
Oh, yeah. I I I resemble that remark. I don't bounce mine either.
[01:07:21] Rich Chelson:
You know? I'm starting to I'm not saying I never bounced it, but I got lucky and didn't break anything.
[01:07:28] Unknown:
Right. Because you stopped applying pressure on the skinny panel and started applying pressure on the brakes. Right. Right. Yeah. He didn't do that. He just kept applying pressure on the skinny pedal.
[01:07:43] Rich Chelson:
Well, you know, by god, you gotta send it somehow. Right?
[01:07:47] Unknown:
Yeah. Pretty. Yeah. Once in a while, you just have to send it. Right. So me and Dave went to the other side, which was actually slickier because you weren't getting any traction because we had gone through the mud because there's a lot of water holes at this particular park. And, yeah, it was real slickery. So even at 12 pounds of pressure and he was at five because he has beadlocks. Was not was not getting up that that obstacle, so he got winched. And then when I tried that because I wasn't gonna go up the side that set broke his axle on, and I wasn't getting any traction.
Nope. Just stopped and said winch it. That's what we got them for. I know I'm a proud wheeler, but I ain't fucking dumb. If the ability is there, I'm gonna use the tools at hand. That way I don't break a knuckle axle. Yeah. Yeah. So last night, well, I didn't join the chat last night because I went to bed at fucking, like, 08:55 last night. I I was freaking just dog tired. And tomorrow, I have to go troubleshoot some equipment when I get to the branch that I am delivering to to see why they're having an issue with these cryogenic vessels.
Yeah. I can understand one having a problem with the with the gas line. I can have I can understand one vessel having that problem. But when you have four, no. You don't we don't have four that fail at one location. No. That does not happen. So I get to troubleshoot all that tomorrow.
[01:09:52] Rich Chelson:
Sorry, guys. I had to let my furry shadow in.
[01:09:58] Unknown:
That's all good.
[01:09:59] Rich Chelson:
And and it was funny. I let her in. Right? And he comes tearing through the house and and then and and, I mean, just comes I mean, running right past me and then jumps on the couch and sitting there. And, I mean, while I was up, you know, I went to the restroom. Came back out, and I said I said, I'm going back here. Are you coming? And she jumps off the couch. I stopped in the kitchen, grabbed the headache powder, and she comes running right past me, didn't even see me, and and and was almost back here to the computer room. And then she stopped and was like, oh, shit. There's dad.
[01:10:39] Bryan Goodwin:
Dad. Dad. Dad. Dad. Oh, there you are.
[01:10:43] Rich Chelson:
Right. I was just like, you're no fucking soup sandwich.
[01:10:47] Bryan Goodwin:
What's that?
[01:10:48] Rich Chelson:
That's like that's like the other night. You know? She'd been outside all day. Right? Well, most all day. And I let her in, and that dog was so wore out. She jumped on the couch and looking right at me, and and I was up getting water and stuff like this. I hadn't sat down yet. As soon as I sat down, I looked over at her, and she face planted right into the couch and passed out, didn't do it for two hours. She goes, poor dog. I was so damn tired.
[01:11:22] Bryan Goodwin:
And
[01:11:23] Rich Chelson:
and she laid there, and I went out and have a cigarette. Of course, she has to come. You know? Uh-huh. I'm like so I hook up the lease. Come on. And everything. And and then as soon as I'm done, you know, she's like, okay. We're back in. I'm on the couch, and I'm passed out. You know? It's it's it's hilarious. But, yeah, she just ran right past me when I was coming back here and was didn't even realize that that she had passed me.
[01:11:57] Bryan Goodwin:
Well Mhmm.
[01:12:00] Unknown:
Well, she well, at least she knew where you were supposed to be. Supposed to be.
[01:12:05] Rich Chelson:
What and and you see, that's the thing. I mean, you know, I've taught her a few things. But for the most part, I really haven't taught her much. She's just, you know, picked up on on this stuff. You know, when I say I'm going in the back, she knows exactly where I'm going. Right. You know? And it's like, you know, of course, she's running. And I'm I mean, I've got her to where you see, before when when I would take her outside or or if I'd go on the front porch, smoke cigarette, and I'd hook the leash up to her, oh my god. She wanted to just bolt out the door.
Well, now that I told her to stop. Now she walks out the front door. Because, I mean, damn, she'd run out and try and jerk my arm out. It's like, uh-uh. We ain't doing this. Yeah. For the most part, though, no. I I haven't. Well, I don't think I've taught her a lot of stuff. You know? I mean, the dog watches me like a hawk. So Oh, yeah.
[01:13:13] Unknown:
And you're teaching things because she's watching you like a hawk.
[01:13:16] Rich Chelson:
Right. But that's the thing. Sometimes it's like, no. Don't pay attention. That's something else we gotta worry about. Yeah. In the morning, when I go back to the VA, I'm I'm gonna take her for a ride and let her ride with me. I just I just leave her in the Jeep, you know, pop the window up. You know? And, you know, I've got water in the Jeep, so she'll be fine. Because I shouldn't be in there an hour, if that. So and she'll be happy because, you know, she gets to ride around.
[01:13:53] Unknown:
Right.
[01:13:54] Rich Chelson:
Of course.
[01:13:56] Unknown:
I get to go ride with the Jeep with dad.
[01:13:59] Bryan Goodwin:
I get to ride with paw. With paw? What do you do?
[01:14:07] Unknown:
Yeah. You kinda look like a paw.
[01:14:10] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Bite me. I don't Well You look more like a paw than I do.
[01:14:16] Unknown:
I don't know. I'm not the one out on the porch, you know, whittling a stick.
[01:14:22] Rich Chelson:
I ain't whittling no stick.
[01:14:25] Unknown:
But now I got you to think. It's like, gee. I could whittle a stick. Actually, you wouldn't be able to whittle a stick because Belle would be like, why do you have the fucking stick and I don't have a stick?
[01:14:39] Rich Chelson:
Right. Right. Yeah. She'd be like, hey. That's my play toy. Leave it leave it alone. Yeah. That's the thing. It's it's having a dog like Bella, very cheap on toys. I get sticks falling falling my yard all the time.
[01:14:56] Bryan Goodwin:
Uh-huh.
[01:14:57] Rich Chelson:
Hey. I got free toys.
[01:15:00] Unknown:
All day every day.
[01:15:02] Rich Chelson:
My god. Because, yes, some of them toys are fun. Expensive, man. Like that call. I'd say I got her that call, and that that thing was, like, damn near $20.
[01:15:13] Unknown:
Uh-huh.
[01:15:15] Rich Chelson:
Hey. Where'd you go? Lord knows where she went. Probably passed out on the couch.
[01:15:24] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. Came back to her and said, oh, he's sitting there talking on talking on the on his computer again. So
[01:15:32] Rich Chelson:
And she's like, this, I'm gonna go pass out. Catch a few z's before I go to bed. Yep. You're gonna take a nap.
[01:15:42] Unknown:
Hey. Like I just said, I remember that remark. Go take a nap so she can get up and go to bed. I just do it in reverse. I go to bed and get up to go take a nap.
[01:15:56] Rich Chelson:
Oh, she can do both. Trust me. She can do both. I I try I try and keep her going as much as I can, you know, to wear her out.
[01:16:07] Unknown:
Yeah.
[01:16:08] Rich Chelson:
You know, keep her active and stuff like that because I don't I don't want a dog that's just you know, that you've seen them dogs that their their whole ambition in life is to walk slower than you. Well, at least at least that's what it seems like to me. You know?
[01:16:33] Unknown:
Because most of them are fatter than me?
[01:16:35] Rich Chelson:
I mean, you're right. But, but, yeah, I mean I mean, I'm you know, I want her to be you know? I mean, shit. She's still a puppy. You know? Right. Yeah. In a few years, you know, she wants to chill more. Hey. Go for it. I I will definitely be more than ready for that.
[01:16:56] Unknown:
Yeah. Oh, I'm sure.
[01:16:59] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. She got wound up today because she got to meet a couple people from the from, AT and T that that was over here. Yeah. I freaking brought her inside and and you know? I mean, these people like dogs. So yeah, and so, yeah, Bella got got to meet new people. Oh my gosh. Made her day. Damn dog.
[01:17:28] Unknown:
Of course. She got loving from somebody else.
[01:17:31] Rich Chelson:
Mhmm. So so, Brian, you said you said something last night about you had some drama going on.
[01:17:41] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, well, yeah, if you wanna call it drama. Yeah. It it it's come to find out, sadly, you know, we're I've talked about a bit about, my doc my daughter in the past. Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, how she had suddenly decided to go off, get married to just this random guy. Right. Right. Who she didn't really know that much. Well, it didn't it a lot has come to come to, fruition here within the last week Oh, wow. Because yeah. Because she finally got out from underneath it, and that's the proper phrase to use because it was the this dude's a fucking work of art.
Really? Oh, yeah. The and my daughter, she didn't she didn't want to see the the the red flags when they were when they cropped up. But, yeah, this, this guy was as as we keep getting more conversations with her and and stuff like that, it was yeah. He was full on manipulation if not just doing the whole narcissistic, you know, entrapment type of, of action. So it was it was started out with the with the the quintessential love bomb where it was just you know, he was throwing everything at her. He was taking her out on these great dates and dragging her off to this church, that church so they could find a church they both like to go to. And it but everything was all very considerate, you know, and it was just all about her. You know, is let's do this, do this, you know, this this this. Let's go hike out Powder Canyon, and it was a great time because, I mean, the dude was doing what a lot of narcissists do in that they just blind you with all this amazing stuff. They just they know how to get the dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, all all of it all mixed together, and so you have this high infatuation rate.
Right. Right. And she'd kind of been one of the guy who would, you know, take her out on dates and stuff like that because last, you know, several of the guys that she'd gone with before, they were, you know, just as broke as she was. And so going out on a date was, wanna go to the park and walk around for a little bit? So that's a date. You know? And that was about the closest that she would come, and that was and so she finally found the guy that was like, hey. Come on. Let's go to the theater. Let's go hang out. You know, let's go watch a play, and then let's go, you know, go over here. Let's go to a nice restaurant. Let's do this. Let's do that. Let's go let's both spend the day down in the canyon, you know, and all the other things that she had kind of romanticized about.
Well, then, along came, July when they got married. And what was the basically, the response that he made shortly thereafter was, well, you are wife on paper now.
[01:21:02] Rich Chelson:
Uh-huh.
[01:21:03] Bryan Goodwin:
And proceeded to manipulate and kept getting, you know, and was starting to started to get physical. Yeah. It was where, you know, if, calling her any any and all I mean, hell. Let me see if I've still got some of these.
[01:21:22] Unknown:
Can't remember when she sent them over
[01:21:25] Bryan Goodwin:
here or not this one. No. It's it's you see, that's that's that's what that's what, you know, hurts That's what all of us were were feared about. And that was in telling us to talk with Jan, and I was like and once all this really started to come about, we were like, well, that explains why she was because one of the things that pissed Jan off the most about all this was was whenever we would bring up our concerns and what was going on, she was or how we felt about the circumstances. She was just very flippant about it. She was just like, oh, well, you know, we just it's just it was just that. It was just, you know, she would just laugh it off. And it would just kind of we were like going, no. You can't just be flipping about it. I mean, come on. We've been there for for you for, you know, the majority of the majority of your life. You really you know?
So we we feel, don't not not that we are are entitled, but we felt like, you know, an ex explanation as to why you just suddenly decided to fall off the map. Why did you suddenly just move out without even telling your brother? Because she was living with her brother at the time and and had a good little setup. She only had to pay $400 a month. And if she couldn't make it, he was like, well, well, make it up, you know, make it up, you know, what you can. You know? He wasn't he wasn't being, you know, a landlord of, hey. You've gotta get shit paid now. Blah blah blah blah blah. And so he would, so he got he started working really fast, which is kinda what I figured he was going on because of how much he was working to isolate her from us, from Jaden, from his friends, and she wasn't having the conversations she was having were very short, very you know?
Again, flip it would be a good way to describe it because it was a very uncaring, unnatural humor about it.
[01:23:37] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[01:23:39] Bryan Goodwin:
And so, yes, she it was as she talked about it, it's like he loved bond until, until they got, until he convinced her to get married. And then once that was done, it was it was a switch was flipped, and it was where all of a sudden, she's a whore. She's fucking cut. She's all this other stuff. Yep. And, and just was being just a well, be a piece of shit is what he was being. And, started that That's what Marxists do, man. Oh, yeah. Yeah. They they got what they need, and then now it's time to start keeping, keeping the person's equilibrium off by, you know oh, yeah. You're you're I'm sorry. I've been I I just I had a lot on my mind blah blah blah blah. I didn't get them. Oh, okay. Well, it's you know? Never mind. Never mind. We're we're okay. And then, you know, hit them again with something. And and for four months, it's been like that. And and so it took until last last week when, apparently, they got into a such a huge fight that, the neighbors actually called the police.
[01:24:52] Rich Chelson:
Oh, wow. And
[01:24:53] Bryan Goodwin:
police told her, you've gotta leave. Grab your kid. Leave. Let things cool off. And so he he is a lock changer. He if you if you don't do what he wants you to do, he he goes and buys a new lock and changes it out. So she never actually had a key to the front door. She never had a key a working key to the house.
[01:25:18] Rich Chelson:
That means just leave.
[01:25:19] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, yeah. Well, then she he started throwing I mean, see here. I mean, she's see, I'm where were some of these? Yep. And I've
[01:25:32] Unknown:
I've lived through that same thing.
[01:25:35] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, yeah.
[01:25:36] Unknown:
With my daughter. Yeah.
[01:25:39] Bryan Goodwin:
And, I mean, she's and she's been going back and forth on I mean, if there's ever I've never actually witnessed trauma bond before, which is something that often hap apparently happens with when you're with narcissist is because they tie your emotions in so many knots that, yeah, you could sit there and she's going, I know he's horrible for me. She's, you know, in middle of tears. I know he is he is horrible for me. He puts me in it makes me a person or has me act like a person I don't wanna be and and all this other stuff. But at the same time, she's going, but I miss him.
What is wrong with me? And and it's just that is just the most nefarious action that, you know, I it could ever do. I hope I never run into the son of a bitch because, dude, you know, it's gonna be he's gonna find himself in the back of an alley. And if he ever tries to touch touch my girls again after all this is said, done, and I find out about it, and we got it on recording, and I have no problem fessing up to it if I get, if I get asked about it is you'll find him buried somewhere out in out in the out in West Texas.
[01:27:01] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[01:27:02] Bryan Goodwin:
I have no problem saying it like that. They've got pig farms out there. I was just thinking, you know, you could bury somebody out in the middle of of West. You know, go out to, you know, South Of Of Pecos, anywhere in that area, and it's just flat, and you could dig it dig a freaking hole and put them in there, cover it up. No one would be able to find it.
[01:27:27] Rich Chelson:
Well, that is true because yeah. West Texas is a big damn place. Yeah.
[01:27:34] Bryan Goodwin:
And so it'd be like, hey. We heard you were you were doing a you're the last one to see him with with the with this dude and be like, yeah. Yeah. I was. You know where he's at? Yeah. Yeah. I do. Where is he at? Out in West Texas. Where? I couldn't tell you. I don't know how to get back to where it is. Nope.
[01:27:55] Rich Chelson:
He took a trip. I don't know where he took a trip. He just started walking. Yeah. No. She Oh. Yeah. I used to just walk away and maybe get some help or whatnot to figure this out because that's the thing. A narcissist is really good at fucking
[01:28:16] Bryan Goodwin:
mind. Oh, yeah. Yeah. And does a great great job of it, Tim. I mean, hell, he the thing. Isn't he was he was mad because he lost all control with her once she moved out. And, I mean, he started reaching out to everybody. And, I mean, he and I have no problem sharing out what what he said to me because, well, it's to me. But as first message she got after that is tell your daughter she can bring my belongings along with my debit card tonight so I can or I file a a police report for the destruction of property. And I was like, okay. Go ahead. Yeah. Basically, and I was like and then he posts up a picture of looks like about a about a fist sized hole in in a door, and his response was, this is your little angel. Handle her before I make her make the law do it for her. I was like, well, okay. Whatever. And then shows another picture of, like, a bed that's covered up with a whole bunch of, a bunch of shit and stuff, and then a, then there's a hole in what looks like it's probably a a, in a door that's maybe a a water a hot water heater closet instead with the response of, like I said, handle it before I do. Thanks. And I replied with, well, how do I know that was done today?
Also, handle it before you do? That sounds like a threat, sir. Okay. He replied, unless you want her to catch a catch a felony, try being a father to her to your kids instead of instead of random guys the guy she fucks dad. And, with that, I replied with the with the meme, the gift of the, the old guy from from Lord of the Rings when he when Gandalf tries to, you know, use magic on him and the guy just laughs, goes, you have no power here. I threw that back at him. And, he didn't like that, so he ramped up with you dumb fat piece of shit. I see why she turned out like that. Family, I'm being bred idiots who can't lift a finger for themselves. Don't worry. I'll take care of it.
[01:30:25] Rich Chelson:
Wow.
[01:30:26] Bryan Goodwin:
And hold up real quick. See you.
[01:30:30] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. That's yeah. You see see, that's the thing. I've, you know, I've dealt with people like that and everything, and they you know, that's the thing. Call, you know, call us bluff. They do something about it. Stop talking and do something because he won't. He won't. He's scared.
[01:30:48] Bryan Goodwin:
You know? Well, he, yeah, he he he wants the he wants people to be influenced by what he what he says. And so there then he replied with, you're no model of a parent, Brian, and your daughter is becoming increasingly reckless, posing harm to those around her. Not to mention, she stole from me, so I suggest you convince her to get my shit back to me ASAP. Oh, and did I did you know that Lexi and Jayden were fucking which Jayden is is my son. And it's like, no. He conveniently forgets that while she was living with with Jaden, the father of their kid of her kid, was living with her also.
So, you know, trying to trying to stir stuff stuff up in in that department or just overlooked it being absent and all. You bred some sick, fucked up kids, man. Take your own advice and choose, choose now to be a dad. And you should advise your daughter to do the the right thing before someone else has to show her how. So, again, boisterous blowhard. Yeah. And,
[01:32:04] Rich Chelson:
and all that is.
[01:32:06] Bryan Goodwin:
So and then a couple through see, what was that? That was on the fifth of the following day. Didn't get anything else from me from that day, and he was like, still doesn't have any any, power over me. Hasn't been able to incite any response from me that is of of, that is of of, of any use to him. So tell your cut ass offspring to quit fucking with my Internet before I file harassment charges. Well, she is the one who'd gotten the Internet, so she turned it off. She turned off the, Well, good. She bought she she was with what little money she still had, she was paying for, for Netflix.
And it was under her her deal. And so my daughter just wanted to watch Ponyo, and your little victim took that, from us. Tell her to come tell her to let her know to contact me for her the ring her grandfather made her in a prescription glasses. Oh, and don't think I know about your checkered past, Brian. I hear you have a taste for young ones too. And that is in response to yeah. That was that's in response to the allegation that my oldest daughter, Kira, had made. Right. And my response to that was, I do? Interesting.
And, yeah, I hadn't heard anything back from him after that. He he shortly he blocked me shortly after that one, which pissed me off. I was like, goddamn it. I was one because I was planning on just kinda lingering in the background. And and whenever I No. Yeah. No. I was gonna linger because what I'm wanting to do is anytime I see that he's found himself another check, I'm gonna touch base with check going, you might wanna get a hold of a few people here and ask them questions about who mister Mason is.
[01:33:58] Rich Chelson:
You see, honestly, someone like that, I I probably wouldn't even waste my breath because, you know, for a fact, he's not gonna do any of the research, you know, because he knows he know he's he's smart enough. He knows the answers to all this. He's just he's just trying to get you wound up, like, you know, the the
[01:34:23] Bryan Goodwin:
the lingering behind isn't for my satisfaction at all. I just wanna protect the other women that he goes off and and and bedazzles with with his actions.
[01:34:36] Unknown:
Right.
[01:34:37] Bryan Goodwin:
That's all I wanna be able to do. Of course, then my daughter had a really good point. And she's like, oh, dad, don't even sweat that because Amarillo is so small. I'll know when he has a boyfriend or another girlfriend. Right. I was like, oh, okay. Good point. Because, yeah, she's tell she's she's telling me about all the the other boyfriend boyfriend her old boyfriends that have that have gotten other girls, you know, gotten other girls knocked up and and stuff like that. And she's like, so, yeah, she's she's somehow keeps a pulse on on on everybody.
And Okay. Of course, again, like I said, Amarillo is a small enough city that, yeah, you pretty much know what don't know the everybody, you know somebody who knows somebody who knows the the other people that you don't know. So Right.
[01:35:25] Unknown:
And then that person knows Kevin Bacon. Exactly.
[01:35:31] Bryan Goodwin:
That's a good one, dude. That's the that's the true example of six degrees of separation, and that's that's actually a real thing. You know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows you Or say it, you know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who also knows you. I think that's how it goes. I'm now that I've gotten that I'm talking. I'm like, oh, that's not quite right. But, yeah, the sixties can make it to someone who knows somebody or is you can you can point to any movie, and there is gonna be somebody in there who worked for somebody who worked for somebody who worked for somebody who worked with Kevin Bacon.
Right. It is the actual is how the six degrees Kevin Bacon is, but that one actually was a a play off of the six degrees of separation Of separation Let's see here. Oh, no. It's a movie. See, six degrees of separation is a concept posting that any two people on earth can be connected through a chain of no more than five intermediaries. So resulting in a total of six or fewer social links. So you could say an idea was first suggested by the Hungarian author of Figueres Karathin in 1929 and was later supported by Hanley mill Stanley Milgram's small world experiment in the sixties, which which connected people through limited social ties. The concept has been explored in various various forms, including the 1990 play, the 1993 film, six degrees of separation, and the basis of the game, six degrees of Kevin Bacon.
So the so, yeah, it's everybody is connected to everybody by at least six degrees of separation. So I know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows Donald Trump. I also know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows Vladimir Putin. I know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows Kevin Bacon. That that's how the that's how the whole that whole theory works.
[01:37:46] Rich Chelson:
Okay.
[01:37:48] Unknown:
So You don't have a game
[01:37:51] Bryan Goodwin:
named after you? No. No. No. See, that's how awesome Kevin Bacon is.
[01:37:57] Unknown:
I mean, you know, it's how many movies he's been in.
[01:38:01] Rich Chelson:
Oh, it's been quite a bit, but, honestly, Kevin Yeah. I don't mind Kevin Bacon. I'm Oh, he would do it. Some of his movies were stupid, but not all of them.
[01:38:14] Unknown:
Well, I mean,
[01:38:16] Bryan Goodwin:
you can't have incredible awesome, awesome movies. You can only make trimmers once.
[01:38:23] Rich Chelson:
Right. Well, you also have the original Footloose, which I like that one.
[01:38:29] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, yeah. Yeah. Sounds good. Footloose is forever a classic.
[01:38:36] Unknown:
Yeah. Oh, yeah. It's like Rocky Horror Picture Show.
[01:38:40] Bryan Goodwin:
Right? Absolutely. That's having that's a great movie to watch and a, and a live viewing.
[01:38:50] Unknown:
Yeah. I've
[01:38:52] Rich Chelson:
never seen it live.
[01:38:53] Unknown:
You okay. But you have seen it. Right?
[01:38:57] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Years ago. Okay. Years ago.
[01:39:01] Bryan Goodwin:
Hell, I haven't. You need to watch it again, Rick. I got it because my daughter wanted to, was wanting to show it to a, to one of her boyfriends. She liked to she was one of those that liked to put, like, to try to shock her her boyfriends, you know, just do something weird to make them wonder what in the hell they got themselves into. And so that was one of the things. She would bring them over. She would they would sit out on the in the living room and sit down and and would watch Rocky Horror Picture Show. That's the most of most of her boyfriends had never even heard of of Rocky Horror Picture Show.
Oh my god. And so I've been looking, trying to see if I could find, you know, a live because the last time I've seen a live version of Rocky Horror Picture Show was was over in San Diego. And I don't know if they if that, that theater group still still does it or not, but be cool if they did, Ray. But,
[01:40:04] Unknown:
yeah. Did they
[01:40:06] Bryan Goodwin:
did the actors act out the entire movie? Oh, hell yeah. You had the they had the act out. They had you know, they do the one of the funniest things that still cracks me up is that the girls the the girls that were playing Magenta and Columbia, anytime they had the the the naked statues of David would show up, they would sit there and be trying to jump up, trying to grab his ding dong.
[01:40:33] Unknown:
And I'm like
[01:40:36] Bryan Goodwin:
And so, yeah, you had the whole you know, they would they they didn't have all of it so that you didn't you wanted not to bring in rice or toast because they didn't want bugs, but, they did have the they they hand out a squirt gun with waters for the rain scenes. And, and, you know, you had all the all the, the the responses to stuff. So, you know, like, Columbia, what's your Frank, what's your favorite color? Magenta. And, where do you get your cocaine? Columbia. It's stuff like that. So you had a it was just a lot of it was a lot of fun to actually go and and, you know, everybody everybody needs to have their, their Rocky Horror picture show cherry popped.
So it's a it's a it's a fun time. It's just it's one of those little weird little cultural things that's more fun than it should be.
[01:41:32] Rich Chelson:
Yeah.
[01:41:34] Unknown:
Definitely a cult classic.
[01:41:36] Bryan Goodwin:
It is a the the definition of cult classic. Absolutely.
[01:41:41] Unknown:
That is probably definitely in the top three
[01:41:46] Bryan Goodwin:
Right.
[01:41:47] Unknown:
Of cult classics.
[01:41:49] Rich Chelson:
So so, Brian, let me ask. Has has Alexis moved out of this guy's house in the back in Oh, yeah.
[01:41:59] Bryan Goodwin:
Now she is she's moved out, and, that's why he was need to bring because he's he's gone off and say some of the more recent stuff that, see.
[01:42:16] Unknown:
So are they getting the marriage annulled, or does she No. No.
[01:42:21] Bryan Goodwin:
You have to file because in Texas, the only way you can actually have a marriage annulled is if you can prove fraud.
[01:42:30] Unknown:
Oh, okay.
[01:42:32] Bryan Goodwin:
Or or under the influence, and they were standing in front of a judge, so can't prove that either. So got a judge going, yeah, about that.
[01:42:42] Rich Chelson:
So And the bad luck.
[01:42:45] Bryan Goodwin:
So,
[01:42:46] Rich Chelson:
Okay. Well, yeah, get through this and move on and stay away from dickheads like that.
[01:42:54] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. And that's it. I mean, that's the big thing. If there are any women listening to this show, pay attention to those red flags. Good example. And something that, I pointed over to my daughter also was she's like, well, it's it sucks because I couldn't even have any alcohol anymore because and because whenever we have out because whenever we drink, that's all we do is we get into big fights, and that was even before they got married. I was like, well, there's that's a good example because there's only true two true people out there. There are small children, and they're drunks.
Alcohol brings out the real you. Right? So when you when you could not get along with him while you were while he was drunk and you were drunk also, that shows y'all aren't compatible. Right. That's the difference between me and between her and him and the missus and me. Uh-huh. I mean, it's it is that's what well, that's one reason why I don't get drunk out in public is because I one, I I that's, that being drunk is is a at home deal only that I did. And that's if I wanna get drunk. But most of the time, I'm, if I am getting drunk and it's in a semipublic place, it's with just a bunch of a bunch of other friends.
And I don't I'm I'm still too busy trying to be try to be a protector of the missus. And so I really can't have a whole lot of I have a good time. Don't get me wrong. I love, you know, I love the the sensation of being drunk. I love the fact that my nose somehow is still on my face, but I can't feel it. You know? That's always the funniest thing. It's like, yeah. My nose is gone. This is weird. You know? So but it's it's one of those one of those deals where Mhmm. I'm not going to rob the guard on my wife just because I'm drunk, and she's she's, you know, she often will get belligerent about topics that she feels very compassionate about.
Right. But at the same time, it's really easy to distract her from the other stuff. It's like, hey. Look at this. So she she you can get off topic quite easily, and so you don't have to worry about, you know, things getting blown out of proportion. Right. Right.
[01:45:38] Rich Chelson:
But yeah. No. You say that's the thing, and and it took me many years to learn that. But, yeah, when people get drunk, that's when you find out who they really are because Really? Yeah. Because a a drunk person, whether it be male or female, they're gonna be honest. Yeah. Yep. Because, you know, they don't care. They've they've that that wall comes down, and you can actually find out if the person's decent or not. Right. You know?
[01:46:08] Bryan Goodwin:
I know. And so that's I told her that's, yeah, that's I told her that's like, you know, when you finally get back to, hopefully, she actually understands what I'm telling her this time, and she takes it to heart. Because, I mean, before Dickhead, you know, stepped into the picture, I told her, it's like, after after Max, you got to wait at least a year, and I would really appreciate it'd be better if you could hold off two years. Right? Find yourself a place for you to live where you're on your own. You've you're you're making ends meet. You're doing it. You can live on your own without, you know, with as minimal of assistance as possible with little bit.
And behind that is a lot of what, you know, kinda kept her there because he he pulled it away. He butched that she was a mooch and that she was that she was sucking all the money dry in the in the in the household. But then she's like, alright. Well, I'll go ahead and I'll go get a job. You ain't getting no damn job. You ain't gonna be a fucking slut. You know? And just start attacking her for the suggesting of I'll go work a toot and total. Wow. Yeah. These. Yeah. And so it was it again, that was the whole keep her equilibrium knocked off and have it to where, a, she doesn't have the money. She doesn't have any means of being able to leave.
You've decreased her her self worth to a level that, you know, the moment that he says, oh, you did a really good job. All of a sudden, that feels amazing. It feels like, you know, God just came down and and hugged you and said, good job, kid. You're the best person on the face of the earth. Because before that, you were, you know yeah. They were telling you, you're you're shit. You're, you know, the person you're supposed to be love loving as supposed to be loving you unconditionally is calling you all these horrible, ruthless, no good names. And then all of a sudden, they're going, yeah. I love you. And it feels real nice. And so, yeah, you're going to have this trauma bond. They caused all this all this emotional turmoil within you and then turn and I don't like the word term trauma.
But at the same time, when I say that that, again, it's like the term addiction. There's no real addiction, but you say it because people understand what you're meaning Uh-huh. Type of deal. And, trauma bond's one of those because there's no actual drama there. There's a lot of high stress situations, and you've taught yourself how to handle that high stress high stressed situation, but it's not traumatic. Now if all of a sudden he pulls out a gun and shoots somebody, then, yeah, there that's that's a traumatic you know, there was when there is actual trauma that goes on, an actual medical trauma, then, okay. Yeah. That is very traumatic.
But, again, that's just how I view I view stuff. But at the same time, when I say trauma bond, most people get a have an understanding of what a trauma bond is, where your where they they cause so much harm and and and uncertainty within you that when the moment they actually throw a little little crime of of of love and compassion your way, you just suck it up because you're so starved for it.
[01:49:59] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[01:50:00] Bryan Goodwin:
And, I mean, then she's she's having to she's, you know, decompressing from that because, yeah, he was again today. Apparently, she, she didn't block him on email. Apparently, he said that, well, I the only channel I've got that I could still talk to her by is email, and so he shot her an email. And started off with with I'm I I love you and miss you and all this other stuff. Started out with the doing the love bomb thing. And Lexi Dawit, she was on the phone whenever she got it, and she was reading it. And all of a sudden, she's boo hooed a bawling her eyes out. She replied to him and was like, no. I can't.
Let's grow up. Let's mature a bit. Yeah. And and she but at the same time, she's like, oh, and I miss him so bad. I miss him so much. How badly would y'all hate me if I went back? And I was like, we wouldn't hate you. But at the same time, don't don't be surprised if I am rooting for Max to have to have Aspen while you're in that environment. Because my sister is the same way. My sister is in a in a abusive relationship. The dude loves to use her head as target practice for beer bottles. Oh, man. And my my nephew or my nephews actually were there, and eventually eventually, Bradley got fed up enough with it where he went and grabbed two of the two of the, of the, the butcher knives out of the, out of the butcher's out of the knife block and was threatening to go after her boyfriend if he didn't leave her the hell alone.
And shortly thereafter that, she made the choice. She made the the conscious choice of sending the boys away. She didn't she didn't she didn't go with them. She stayed behind.
[01:52:02] Rich Chelson:
Right. But is wrong.
[01:52:05] Bryan Goodwin:
And I agree. It's like, well, you had the choice to and and the oldest one, he he resents her majorly for that. Right. Because she chose this this asshole over her own sons.
[01:52:21] Rich Chelson:
Yes. Yes, miss. Hey, dude. Take your pills.
[01:52:25] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. I was gonna say I heard the beep beep beep. Yeah. I heard that too. That's why I was Which is interesting because Zoom normally blocks out sounds. And all of a sudden, we I heard that. I was like, wait a minute. Yeah. I almost wanna I almost wanna try try some of the some of the, the audio, some of the the sound effects on the on the computer again and see if they actually come through or not.
[01:52:53] Rich Chelson:
Well, I mean, you could try, but, yeah, I I don't know. Zoom Zoom normally does a good job, but I guess every once in a while, Zoom kinda Yeah. They got a hiccup. Yeah.
[01:53:04] Unknown:
But Well, that was alarm that was alarm number two.
[01:53:07] Rich Chelson:
Oh, I know. Okay. Serviceman. I just heard
[01:53:12] Unknown:
Yeah. Yep. I already took the drugs, man.
[01:53:18] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. So, Ron, what how so, Ron, what's been going on in your world besides for you getting to finally go do some wheeling again?
[01:53:29] Unknown:
You know, my life just is, unfortunately, pretty much the same.
[01:53:34] Bryan Goodwin:
Yep. Working up. Working home. Working home. Yep. Yep. That's about right. Hopefully, be getting a roof on the house here pretty soon.
[01:53:43] Rich Chelson:
Nice.
[01:53:45] Bryan Goodwin:
And I need to see if I can see if I can find enough baseballs to throw at the roof so I can so I can say we had a flash What? Hailstorm on on my house only. So Yeah. That's what it was. My house has hit 20 it it it's hit the twenty year limit on it, so it's time to get a new one. And I have not been a responsible homeowner and saved up for it. So
[01:54:12] Unknown:
Well, we'll see what what I have to come up with my deductible amount. Right.
[01:54:18] Rich Chelson:
Of
[01:54:19] Bryan Goodwin:
course, I don't even have a froggiest clue on how much it cost to change up, you know, roofs on a have a roof redone.
[01:54:29] Rich Chelson:
You just have to call a few people and have them come out and quote you.
[01:54:34] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. Yep.
[01:54:36] Rich Chelson:
I mean because it's like here. You know, when when I was thinking about my roof, I yeah. I was trying to do some research, and, yeah, I was seeing anywhere from 25 to 30,000 plus. And I'm like, oh, fuck no.
[01:54:50] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. Exactly. I'm like going, man, I still owe that on my house. Right? Yes. Like, good night.
[01:54:56] Rich Chelson:
And and then when when I got the quote for a rescrew at, what, $13.05 or something like that. I'm like, that's just for screws, man. Maybe maybe a few panels if needed or maybe some, you know, of the wood last last as knee if needed. And then they said 20,000 for a brand new roof. I'm like, yeah. I ain't stupid. You know? I mean, I might have been born in the morning, but I wasn't born that morning.
[01:55:31] Bryan Goodwin:
Right.
[01:55:32] Rich Chelson:
You know? I was like, oh, shit. I'll just I for the extra money, I'll just go have it have it all done, and I ain't gotta worry about it. Yep. Very much so. In fact in fact, I gotta call them and schedule because since they did the roof, they will come out once a year, inspect my roof, and clean it. So I don't have to get up there and, like, sweep it off, you know, the of any limbs or leaves or pine needles that are up there. They'll they'll freak come out there and do it.
[01:56:04] Unknown:
Yeah. And that's for how long?
[01:56:07] Rich Chelson:
The next ten years.
[01:56:08] Unknown:
Ten years? Wow. That's pretty good. Oh, they, yeah, they
[01:56:12] Rich Chelson:
they, even though the roof has a twenty or twenty five, thirty year warranty, you know, just because it's a metal roof, they Uh-huh. The company themselves for the next ten years will come out and inspect it and make sure it's good. And and if something fails and it's due to their product, they'll fix it right there. You know? Yeah. They'll fix it for free. And and if something was to happen and and it proved to be, you know, their fault in in the first place and it damages the inside of my house, they will fix that too. That's good. Yeah. So I I mean yeah. Even though it was, you know, that much for a roof, you know, I felt I felt getting the couple extra perks was Yeah. Was worth it. You know what I mean?
[01:57:08] Unknown:
Oh, yeah.
[01:57:09] Rich Chelson:
So that's why I was like, yeah. And plus these guys are really in fact, the the main dude, Chad, he was a foreman over the crew, you know, that that did the roof.
[01:57:22] Bryan Goodwin:
Uh-huh.
[01:57:23] Rich Chelson:
He showed up one morning, and he was sitting there talking to his wife, FaceTiming her on the phone. And I didn't know he was on the phone. I said something to him, and his wife said, who is that? And he turned the phone. He says, this is Richard, the homeowner we're we're doing the work for. And she's like, hi. I'm like, good morning. And I was just like, okay. I mean, I don't know who you are, but I you know? But yeah. I mean, they're just nice people. You know? Yeah. So so that's why I didn't really have a problem. You know?
I still didn't wanna spend the money, but, you know, I felt better.
[01:58:08] Unknown:
You know, that's kinda like me in the air conditioner. Didn't really wanna spend the money, but I like being cool.
[01:58:16] Rich Chelson:
Well yeah. Yeah. By the way, how is that working for you? You know, it's been pretty good. My highest bill
[01:58:23] Unknown:
this year was, I think, $303,119. And we're talking we're talking 1,800 square foot, four bedroom house. And and I have not had to put the window unit back in to help with the cooling. It has I mean, it stays constant at what do I have it set at? 73, I think it is.
[01:58:56] Rich Chelson:
Okay.
[01:58:57] Unknown:
And so yeah. Where last year, one of the months was $800 for electricity. Yeah. Yeah. So but I happen to pay, what, $12,000 for that unit.
[01:59:15] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. But, you know, it it just saved you a shit ton of money.
[01:59:21] Unknown:
Yeah. You're right. Because I pay, what is it, $404,120 dollars a month for the unit for
[01:59:31] Rich Chelson:
For the unit and the install?
[01:59:34] Unknown:
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For everything. And to oh, that loan's paid off. I think I did it for four years.
[01:59:42] Rich Chelson:
Okay. So So by by nine or ten years, you'll probably be in the clear then.
[01:59:50] Unknown:
Oh, yeah. Well Yeah. Like I said, do you know, even with having this payment and the electricity payment is still cheaper than a couple of months of just electricity
[02:00:06] Rich Chelson:
last year. Right. That's man, that's crazy, dude. That's awesome. Yep. That is just that is just way too awesome. I'm glad I'm glad that that thing really worked out for you. You know? Yes. Oh, yeah. Because I I just meant fucking a 100 degree heat. That's you know? And and, you know, think about it back in the eighteen hundreds or early nineteen hundreds or whatnot. You know? I mean, it was still hot in Texas.
[02:00:38] Unknown:
Oh, yeah.
[02:00:39] Rich Chelson:
You know? And and I just, you know, kinda wonder how people survived.
[02:00:46] Unknown:
I mean, we've gotten soft, to be honest with you. Oh, yeah. Hell, yeah. We are.
[02:00:52] Rich Chelson:
You know? I mean, I'm not lying. I I'm soft. I'm soft as squeaky.
[02:00:59] Unknown:
Well, yeah, Well, yeah, you resemble that remark. That's very true.
[02:01:05] Rich Chelson:
No. It's true. I ain't I ain't gonna lie. I mean, I
[02:01:10] Unknown:
I don't know how they fucking did it without a without AC. Yeah. Fuck that shit.
[02:01:17] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[02:01:18] Bryan Goodwin:
Well, heck. You got you it's like I was reading came across something. I think it was over on Reddit where they were talking about, like, in the Scandinavian countries. Uh-huh. You know, what they what they normally like to do? Okay. Let their babies sleep outside.
[02:01:36] Rich Chelson:
Okay.
[02:01:37] Bryan Goodwin:
In the wintertime in Scandinavia. This is like the top part of Canada type of cold. Yeah. No. I'm good. They just bundle them up, put them in their in their in their in their little bassinet, you know, their their trolley and bubble them up and put put a blanket over them, set them outside. They just sleep, which, I mean, is good. It is and and people have said have always said that the healthiest, people sleep you actually have better, more restorative sleep in cold in a in a cold room.
[02:02:16] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[02:02:17] Bryan Goodwin:
And, and so I see how it can be healthy Yeah. For for a kid because, I mean, they it's not like they're just taking them, laying them out in the snow naked or anything. They're, you know, they or they're all bundled up, but at the same time, you know, we we set them, bitch, about, about you know, we look like Randy from the, from the, the Christmas story when we go outside and we're still complaining about being cold. It's like, you're not really cold. Well, I don't. I'm still walking around in shorts and a sweatshirt, but, you know, you're just weird. Right?
[02:02:55] Rich Chelson:
I mean, yeah, I'm a call a spade a spade here, dude. You're just weird. I mean And I own it. I own it. I I have no problem being considered weird. Oh, shoot.
[02:03:08] Bryan Goodwin:
But it yeah. It is just one of those, it I I the cold, I don't like my feet being cold.
[02:03:17] Rich Chelson:
I don't like no part of me being cold. My legs
[02:03:21] Bryan Goodwin:
my legs could be cool, but, it'd be cold. But I also unless my core core temperature drops to where I get the shivers. Yeah. And, I mean, I've had that happen in, you know, in the middle of of summer in Dallas. He's sitting in a restaurant, and all of a sudden, just just jackhammering away with with my teeth clattering.
[02:03:45] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[02:03:47] Bryan Goodwin:
It was just like, you know, it I eat as quick as as quick as possible so I could step out in 100 degree weather and be like, okay. Yeah. We're warming up now. And then you have to get to the point where you actually I actually started sweating before I felt normal again. Right. And so, yeah, it's a, I mean, it's a it's a it's it's it's crazy what what you can get used to and what a lot of people you know, if you if you've listened or, or read anything about what is his name? Wimhaw, Wimh, w I m h o f f. He is I don't think he's Norwegian, but he's something he's he is Northern Europe, which, you know okay. Snow Country, he's part of the Great White North weird weird folks. He's Dutch.
Dutch. Dutch. Yeah. And he is a firm believer in that you actually have the ability to control your your body temperature. You have full control over your body because, like, cavemen beforehand, yeah, they may wear some skins and stuff, but they didn't have high insulation. Right. So how were they able to stay warm, and how were they able to live? Were they just walking around going, fuck. It's fucking cold. Goddamn. How long you know? They won't walk around cussing about that. They just accept the fact that, yeah. Okay. It's that time of the year where it gets really cold, and you just have to accept it. Yeah. So how would they how were they able to do that? And they they've done research stuff and found that babies as a whole start off with and that's one reason why, you know, sticking your kid out in the out in the out in the cold when they nap is good for them because they develop what's called brown adipose tissue, which is also known as brown fat.
And this is, they believe that this brown, adipose tissue is what is used to actually regulate your internal body temperature. And you can activate it and you can deactivate it if you know how to how to handle it. And that's why he's able to Wim Hof was able to swim underwater under a frozen lake for as long as he was able to because he was able to control, a, his breath, but, b, was able to control his internal body temperature. Right. He was also able to he there's a book that's called What Does It Kill Us, which is about Wim Hof and about how a reporter joined him on his I think it was shorts and a T shirt only hike to the top in a fast hike. It wasn't just a it wasn't a okay. Well, we're gonna go up to this area, and we're gonna we're acclimating ourselves. We're gonna go to the next area, and we're gonna sit there for another three days until we acclimate ourselves.
It was we're gonna start here at the base of Mount Kilimanjaro. We're gonna hike up to the top, and we're gonna hike back down. And the only time we're gonna stop is for the night so that we actually can get some sleep. Right? And and he they they actually do it. I think well, I think what it was is they were gonna be just in shorts. They were gonna be with no shirt and and no pants. They were just gonna have shorts and tennis shoes on. And, eventually, they to be able to do it, they ended up having to be it had to be at least have a T shirt on, except Wim Hof somewhere along the way. I think he decided to take his off, and they did it. They went all the way up to, Mount Kilimanjaro to in all the cold and and all that made to the summit and came back down. And instead of taking, like, whatever it is, like, a week and a week and a day or week and a half or whatever it was, they did it in, like, four days.
[02:07:58] Rich Chelson:
Oh, wow.
[02:08:00] Bryan Goodwin:
They just went up they went down, and and and they were not worse for the wear. It was just like they got finished doing a really long really long hike.
[02:08:10] Rich Chelson:
Right? And that's good for him.
[02:08:14] Bryan Goodwin:
It's good for him. I'm not doing that.
[02:08:18] Rich Chelson:
No.
[02:08:20] Bryan Goodwin:
I'm just I'm just letting everyone know I'm not doing that. But see, I think that would I think that would help you out just being, you know, how you hate the cold. Because one of the things they talk about is in there is they're in Austria or someplace, somewhere else up in it might have even been in Scandinavia or someplace like that. But it's up in the up in the cold area of the world. There was well, I'm gonna say was, because because I'm going from a story, but I think he's still alive. But there was a blacksmith who had severe arthritis in his hands.
So bad that he was he was going to have to give it up because, you know, it's a a blacksmith who can't hold something in his hands is not a great blacksmith. Right. Right. But he actually went and and studied under Wim Hof to understand how this how his he can control his body. And one of the things that he started was a polar bear club in his, in his, town that he was in. And he because of the being in the polar bear club, doing the the breathing exercises and controlling and and and controlling what his body the way that he was is able to do, he was able to get his hands back.
[02:09:51] Rich Chelson:
Really?
[02:09:52] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. He was able to revert, interestingly enough, reverse that rheumatoid arthritis, all the joint destruction that had happened. Fascinating book. And that's where I kinda started going ahead and I mean, I've always been a a shorts kid growing up in, you know, during we'd have snowstorms. And most of us boys in in in my hometown just when we were we were one of the the one of the first classes that was allowed to wear shorts to school. Right? And so we were like, yeah. We're not letting this go. And nowadays, I mean, you've got, like, the my kids' school when they were going to school. They you can wear you can wear them all the way up to a certain point, but after, I think it was, like, around October, you had to start wearing pants. They would only allow pants until, like, the March, April.
I was like, well, why? You why not just wear shorts, you know, the the whole, you know, the whole school year? It's not like it's not like they're setting out a cold the whole darn time. You know? They're inside of a, of a a classroom. It's it's adequately adequately heated, not always to the to the tip you'd like it to be, but, you know, it's adequately heated. Right. Right. But and that's what we used to do is, when I was growing up, we'd go I'd walk to school in snowstorms, T shirt or well, not a T shirt. I'd always had you know, I'd have a coat, but I'd still have, you know, my jean shorts. Look like, you know, look like a look like your quintessential modern dad.
Even back in high school, we we had denim shorts, the cargo pants, you know, or cargo shorts, something like that. And so, yeah, we would and we all it didn't bother us. I mean, if we had to stand outside for a little while, yeah, you'd see people's kneecap jumping all over the place, but that was just that was just how, you know, that's just how we did it. That's how we rolled until we got, then we got old enough to be able to drive, and, by god, we were we were gonna drive. And still, we drove with shorts. We'd have we'd have our coats and our our Letterman jacket on and and shorts, and that was that was just how we did it.
[02:12:14] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Yeah. I never I never did that. When it was did that. No. When it was cold, I bundled up. That's just that's just how I roll.
[02:12:26] Bryan Goodwin:
Well, maybe maybe you need to start rolling a little polar bearish. No. No. I'm not.
[02:12:32] Rich Chelson:
No. No. No. No. No. Obviously, you're not. You're below. I've been in 40 below with with wind chills, with with the wind blowing twenty, thirty, 40 mile an hour. I'm good, man. I'm good. I promise you. I have been in these tapes of weathers, and they they have not served me well.
[02:12:56] Unknown:
However, you remember them quite well.
[02:12:59] Rich Chelson:
I'm a great. That's why I live in Southern Mississippi down by the Gulf. Yeah. I didn't I didn't get a chance to play no AM radio today. I'm gonna try and play play tomorrow because I I mean, I mean, everything's working for this weekend. So you know, because that contest is this weekend. So I'm kinda looking forward to that. I'm glad signals are coming back.
[02:13:25] Bryan Goodwin:
Right.
[02:13:26] Rich Chelson:
You know? Because, yeah, I don't know. I just I just like it when, you know, when I when, well, because you see a lot of times when we type a call sign in when we're talking to somebody
[02:13:38] Bryan Goodwin:
Uh-huh.
[02:13:40] Rich Chelson:
You know, brings up their name, address, and all that. You know what I mean? Mhmm. And so I've I've noticed this. We've we've gone to using first names, and it's actually kinda cool because, you know, people feel you know, it's it's it's true what they say. You know, if you're talking with someone and you and you use their first name, it it makes you feel good, you know, to Yeah. For, you know, to hear your own name. You know? And so, like like, the other day when when I was on the radio, there there was a few guys that I talked to, and, you know, when I typed their call in, it brought the information up. And, I, you know, called them by name and everything, and you can kinda notice a difference in their voice.
You know what I mean? So but yeah. And they're they're like, oh, man. Thank you for Mississippi because, apparently, not a lot of people play ham radio in Mississippi. Really? Yeah. It's weird because, like, in and and there's actually a lot of hams down here. Okay? And, like, during contests, I've looked at the scores. Right? And in in, Mississippi, I see on the average between five and ten people that that participate in contest. You know? And it's like, I don't know why. You know? I'm like, you know, do a contest. It's fun. Yeah. Yeah. Sometimes it's a pain, but, you know, that just comes with the territory.
[02:15:24] Bryan Goodwin:
Right.
[02:15:25] Rich Chelson:
You know? And and it's and it's funny when I talk to people up north during the wintertime, they talk about how cold it is. I just sit here and think, yes. I'm in I'm in my warm house. I ain't gotta go outside. And if I do, it's maybe 45 degrees. I can kinda deal with that as long as long as I have a coat on. I'm not going out in shorts. I tell you that right now. So oh, shoot. A freaking contest. Hold it. What is tomorrow? Is tomorrow Friday? Yes. Yep. Oh, shit. Contest starts tomorrow evening at seven.
[02:16:03] Bryan Goodwin:
Whoop. Whoop. Whoop.
[02:16:06] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. It just hit me. I was like, oh, shit. Because it runs Do do the montage with the eye of the tiger. No. Yeah. It starts at 07:00 tomorrow night, goes through Sunday night at 07:00.
[02:16:22] Bryan Goodwin:
There we go.
[02:16:23] Rich Chelson:
This is a long one. This one's 48 hour. So Alright. I can't wait I can't wait for these other contests. You know? They do have a winter field day. And now last year, it was butt ass cold up here or down here. Right? You know, when we had all that snow and shit? Right. Right? Because winter field day you know, the whole point of winter field day is to go out, set up your station, and then operate with with emergency power, like batteries, generator, whatever. Right?
[02:17:01] Unknown:
Right.
[02:17:02] Rich Chelson:
And I thought about it until it snowed eight inches, like, two weeks before the contest. I'm like, no. I'm keeping my ass inside. I'm not going outside. Not gonna do it. No. I'm not gonna do it. It's not prudent at this juncture. At this juncture.
[02:17:24] Bryan Goodwin:
So
[02:17:25] Rich Chelson:
so now this year, I don't know. I'm hoping we have more of a regular, winter down here. So if it's, you know, if it's, like, in the forties, I might set up outside. Might. It's still it's still a ways away. It's it's when is it? January. So I'm gonna look and see if it's it's on a weekend. So this year or for 2026, it'd be the twenty fourth and twenty fifth, something like that. So we'll see if I venture outside. Yeah. It's Saturday and Sunday. See, I'll be twenty fourth and twenty fifth next year. Okay. So when I called and made made a couple more appointments at the VA.
[02:18:24] Bryan Goodwin:
Oh, yeah? Yeah.
[02:18:26] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. I'm going to ortho on the thirtieth. I've got my regular checkup in my labs. I gotta do that day. So I'm gonna do ortho that day. And then in November, I'm gonna go get my hearing retested because trust me. Well, dude will find out when he comes down here if I turn TV on. It'll freaking blow him out the water.
[02:18:52] Bryan Goodwin:
Okay. Get you some of them some of them Bluetooth, headphones that you're able to control the, roll the volume on.
[02:19:02] Rich Chelson:
Actually, well, it depends on my hearing test. But if it's if it's gotten worse, I think I might go after, the Bluetooth hearing aids.
[02:19:13] Bryan Goodwin:
They've got them. I I know. I know. But what the reason I laugh is because I saw this meme. I can't remember if it's Facebook, Reddit, or where. But anyhow, it is me playing shows us shows someone sitting there sitting in front of a computer like it like, they're playing. It's like me playing playing Call of Duty wondering why there's no sound. My grandfather in in the next room and his, with his Bluetooth hearing aids connected. It just shows shows this guy, and he's all he his all his eyes are all big, and he's got in the background, all these tanks and shit going off. So we're living this shit, having a flashback.
[02:19:57] Rich Chelson:
Oh, man. But yeah. No. It was it wasn't last year. Year four was that stubborn. There's this guy. He was in his seventies. He was a veteran, and these are Bluetooth hearing aids. You charge with a type c cable.
[02:20:12] Bryan Goodwin:
Yep.
[02:20:13] Rich Chelson:
Okay? And you can tie your TV, your phone right to them. Yeah. And it's like you know, I and, I mean, then, I mean,
[02:20:24] Bryan Goodwin:
you know, I mean I mean, my hearing has been bad, you know, even back then. I'm thinking,
[02:20:30] Rich Chelson:
And that guy looked at both me and Matt and was like, y'all ever need hearing aids, make the VA give you these. These things are the best things since cupcakes. And he's like, I just have to charge them once a day. They take about, I don't know, less than an hour to charge. And he was like, man, I'm good to go. I'm like, okay.
[02:20:51] Bryan Goodwin:
Amazing. Yeah.
[02:20:53] Rich Chelson:
So, yeah, we'll see. Because yeah. I mean I mean, right now, I mean, I've got captions turned on, and I normally have to turn the TV up. You know? Just Right. You know, noise decent. And then sometimes when I'm playing the piano, a lot of times I can hear, but but sometimes and I don't know why. And I gotta ask the doc about this. Sometimes is that it gets muffled, and I can't and I can't hear the how the notes sound, and it screws me up. Right. You know, if I'm trying to play a chord and it sounds all funky, I'm like, uh-uh. You know, I stopped trying to figure it out, and I'm playing. You know, I've got the right fingering. It just doesn't sound right in my head.
So, I don't know. I'm gonna see
[02:21:44] Bryan Goodwin:
Okay.
[02:21:45] Rich Chelson:
When I get my ears tested. Right. Y'all know when I do.
[02:21:51] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. Because me and Ronald sit there and be talking like this. You're going, shut up. Quit yelling at me so much. Alright.
[02:21:59] Rich Chelson:
Or or or if you say, Rich, Rich, and I don't answer, you'd be like, hang your hearing aids up.
[02:22:07] Bryan Goodwin:
Alma, turn your hearing aids up. Oh, I love that. I'm a sister act. Yeah.
[02:22:14] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. That'd be me, probably. I forgot to charge them or something, and I can't hear shit. Yeah. Yeah. You're just sitting there just.
[02:22:24] Bryan Goodwin:
Everyone's like, so what do you say, Rich? Rich, look over there, and you're just bee bopping along to your own little world. Right. Why do that? Wave at you and go, hey. Hey. No sound.
[02:22:41] Rich Chelson:
No. I mean I mean, this has been going on for a while. You know? I just been well, I've been vain. You know? Right. Or prideful, you could say. However you wanna call it. It's like Mhmm. I don't really wanna do it because that means I've got to that's just one more thing I've got to admit.
[02:22:58] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. You gotta admit that you're you're you're getting slightly decrepit, ever so slightly.
[02:23:06] Rich Chelson:
Thank you for trying, Brian, but please don't I don't wanna think about that. I mean, I mean, come on. Seriously, man. That just got I'm young, damn it. Right?
[02:23:21] Bryan Goodwin:
I I keep telling myself that. Well, I keep telling myself that too. And My Sadly, the past couple weeks, I have looked in the mirror and gone, goddamn. When does that get old? Right. It sneaks up on you, dude. Yeah. It's like out of nowhere. It's like, god dang, man. I've I've got I've got Samsonites tagged underneath my eyes to these days. So it's like, jeez. When did I pick those up?
[02:23:48] Rich Chelson:
Right.
[02:23:49] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. Yeah. For you young folks out there, Samsonite is luggage. I have bags under my eyes. Okay?
[02:23:57] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. Yeah. If there's if there's if there's anyone listening to us or, you know, or after we post this and they listen to it, they'll probably just roll on the floor and think we're crazier than who'd else.
[02:24:11] Unknown:
No. Oh,
[02:24:13] Rich Chelson:
dude, did you fall asleep? Yep. Hang on. Dude and I dude and I talked about this
[02:24:21] Bryan Goodwin:
couple weeks ago. I was gonna say, send them a shoot them an email. Shoot them a text. Shoot them a text. Yep. I am.
[02:24:27] Rich Chelson:
I am.
[02:24:28] Bryan Goodwin:
I wish they still had Back when smartphones first came out, Android had a had a a an app that was amazing. It was called a text bomb. And once you get it, that would annoy my son with it. Of course, I'd also if he didn't respond to me, I would use it on him. So it was like, hey, man. I need I need to know where you're at. And so I would set it. I would type out what the email needed to be. You'd use it well, what you do is you'd use, open up this this app, and you type the message the text message that you wanted. And then underneath it, how many times do you wanna send it?
And you could yeah. You and it would and you could put, you know, five, ten. You know? You wanted to do 75. They had a limit because, you know, after after a certain bit, it gets starts to get flagged to spam. Right. But it was some it was something like fifty fifty or a 100. It was it was enough to where it got really annoying after a while. And so I kinda wish they still had that so you could go off and, like, hey. Shoot, shoot off about 50 text messages that would just go clock, clock, clock, clock, clock, one right after the other. Just get up. You know? Find the app and, rework it and, you know Oh, no. They it's it's one of those that's been been, they've they've this is back when even back in let's see what was, oh, what was g? Gumdrop or, gummy yeah. Gumdrop.
This is Android Gumdrop. Because they used to do Android used to be named after food items. So you had Yeah. Yeah. Version version one. You had well, the third version was cupcake. That's about the time that I came in. I think that's actually it was like in either cupcake or whatever Android's d were d dessert name was. And so around that area is when, me and I me and Jaden and the family got into, into smartphones, and we were using using Android because, well, it was, a, more affordable, but two, you could model. You could actually go off and select the, the do a put a ROM on your on your phone and have a completely different version of Android on it. It was amazing. I used to use Cyanogen mod all the damn time. It was a great great mod. You could do a lot more things. There was more tools available. You could if you were a Android power user, you did not use base Android for whatever. I started out with the I was an HTC I can't even remember what the name of the damn thing was, but it was a big old HTC black black slab of, of a phone. It was back when they were first starting to get bigger.
Okay. I don't know. You okay there? Yeah. You okay, or is he having a stroke?
[02:27:35] Rich Chelson:
I don't know. I've I've I've tried to I've sent him, like, 10 Facebook messages, like, five texts, and, you know, I figured the noise would override him. I'm a call him here.
[02:27:54] Bryan Goodwin:
Need to need to find a, get a device that is, tied to his tied to his phone via via Bluetooth. And so whenever you call whenever you call them, it or, you text them from your number, it, it activates like a punching bag or something or boxing glove that come out and pop them on the on the forehead or something.
[02:28:15] Unknown:
How rude.
[02:28:17] Bryan Goodwin:
I know. That'd be awesome, wouldn't it? But there's I don't know. Keep them on his toes. Yeah. Just just a random time to start texting them. I don't know. What the hell?
[02:28:28] Rich Chelson:
No. I called dude, and, I heard, like, and then he hung up.
[02:28:33] Unknown:
Oh, that was my chair.
[02:28:35] Bryan Goodwin:
Dude,
[02:28:37] Rich Chelson:
we was worried about you.
[02:28:39] Bryan Goodwin:
Yeah. We heard a So we're like, oh, is he is he stolen? He's had a stroke being in in process. So
[02:28:48] Rich Chelson:
Hey. Check your Facebook Messenger. I sent you, like, 10 things. Yeah. You did. And, like, and, like, five texts. And then when I didn't hear your voice, I called you. And you hung up on me. You know, what's up with that?
[02:29:03] Unknown:
Because you, got my attention.
[02:29:06] Rich Chelson:
Yeah. It's just that's like, rude. That's rude. So just hung up on me. They're like, man, they don't like me no more. No?
[02:29:18] Unknown:
So Did I Anyhow
[02:29:19] Bryan Goodwin:
so, well, it is good to be close to that times that, start getting the old the old bird landed now that we've got got the dude back, and and we can hear his, his parting shots when it comes to time. I'm gonna have to say thank you all, everyone who is listening to the show, who's all the new and the returning listeners. It is a a great pleasure to know that y'all are are coming in and listening to the show, hanging out, and, and and join enjoying our our discussions that we are having. And with that, it's it gives me a a sense of of of joy and accomplishment that we do have returning listeners, and it's it's an amazing sensation to, to experience.
And this show is not like other shows that, are are around. We don't go off and and just play 13 different advertisements. You don't you didn't hear any advertisements unless you're on Spotify, and then you heard an advertisement at the beginning and probably an advertisement at the end. And those aren't us. That's Spotify advertising against our show, and we don't we're not a big fan of that. We don't have that type of control over on Spotify. And because of that, that's one reason why we like podcasting two point o. Podcasting two point o has a lot of options that Spotify and the other other legacy apps aren't going to to to have because you have things like the live item tag, which is a essentially a bat signal. It it shoots out a message to your app saying, hey.
Two grumpy vets and a dude are live right now. You wanna listen to them while they're playing or while they're talking, you can actually listen to it then. And with that podcast two point o app, you can actually even send in messages, and we would reply to them. We will have live one on one discussions with folks who send since the send us a a message through Boostagrams. Another another one of the great things about podcasting two point o is that we're able to recommend other shows. You wanna know what shows two Grumpy Vets and a dude recommend? Well, grab a, grab a a a copy of podcast guru, Pod Home, True Fans are three great apps that you can that you can use. And most of if I'm thinking about all three of those are available on both Android and iOS.
And with there, you can see what app what other shows we recommend. If there's you can even go through as far as recommend particular episodes of a show. So there are a lot of different options that are available. Another one is the the funding tag. You can actually send your support to the show because we are a value for value show. This means that if you found value in the show and you wanna try to help us out, say we are just absolute you're seeing how we, how we do our our our social media work and and things like that, and you're going, dude, you just absolutely are horrible at this. So we're gonna you're gonna hear us go, yeah. Yeah. You're right. We are. Could you help us? Well, if we you found enough value in what we're doing that you wanted to spend, you know, maybe an hour sending out good, well crafted social media posts about what about the show and about the episodes.
You're not gonna see us stop you. We're not gonna go, well, hey. That's copyrighted and stuff. It's just, hey. Thank you. Get let us just just mark it to we all you know, that we are who we are and let people know that, hey. There's there's two grumpy best of the dude. There's there's there's odd podcast that's out there of, of of three heads and one brain, and it it's got its own little job going on. It's kinda cool. And so you can give a contributing time, sharing out, telling people that, hey. There's this this podcast is out here. Going going on to, to other, other, you know, going on to to different groups like Facebook groups or in the subreddits, things like that, and talking about talking about the show. That's great ways of being able to help us out.
If you have talent, you can also help us. So if you're good at doing, you know, web design and you would like to be able to help that way, you'd like to go and do this websites you have is is crap. Let's get some get some stuff going. We'd love to have your have you throw your expertise over to us. And if you are a you are graphic designer, again, another example of help us out where you can. We'd love to have someone who could spend the time doing chapter art and doing episodic art. We'd love to have people start contributing what they think would be a good episode, episodic art to us. And and that way, we can actually start sharing or start contributing and applying those those arts to arts to the different episodes and to the to the different chapters that we have. If you wanna help make the chapters, love to have that. There's a lot of different ways that you can help, and that's time, talent, and then there's treasure. If you wanna just say, hey, man. Like what you do. Here's some money to help with, hosting fees.
We would love that, that support too, and that's all we all we ask from from you is if you found value in what we've done, then please contribute value back. That's all that's all it is. And when you do that, it allows us to continue making the, making the show, puts a little gas in the tank when we hear something back from you. And we'd love to be able to have those types of interactions, those those discussions coming back and forth. And so that's that's one reason why we've chosen to do our the the, podcasting two point o way because it is so much better and so much more available and and and and and valuable for for what what you can get.
So if you have any comments or questions or anything like that, you can reach out to us. You can shoot us an email over over at my email. That's circle cast, circlecast,@gmail.com. If you wanna get ahold of Rich, that is r chelson, chelson,@gmail.com. Both of them are great ways to get ahold of us. Do you wanna get ahold of dude? We all struggle with trying to get dude's email address. So it's just better if you send it over to us, and we'll get it over to dude. So it just makes life a lot easier. So with that, I wanna say again, thank y'all. And, Rich, what do you have to say?
[02:36:49] Rich Chelson:
Oh, not too much, really. Just wanna thank everybody for listening and still coming around. Shoot. But by Pod Home standards, we've got over 3,000 downloads since we started this. Now I know that's not the o p three stats. I'm still having a hard time getting on that site. But, anyway, I mean, we got people listening and not just in America, all over the world. You know? We got many different countries. I think our next highest one is, like, Thailand or something. Wow. I know. Right? It's crazy, and I I love it. You know? And, I mean so, you know, if y'all are listening to this you know, if you make it this far, send us an email or or, you know, read the, a description in your, podcast app because I always put our email addresses, and that's [email protected] or me at [email protected].
And I always put those in the in the description. So send us an email. Let us know what you think if we make you laugh, cry, groan, moan, throw things. You know, let us know. You know, we'd be happy to hear from you. And like Brian said, you know, if you wanna hear the wisdom of the dude, just send either one of us an email because, yeah, his freaking email address is a nightmare. I let Google finish it for me. Let's just put it that way. I don't even try to remember dude's email. But, yeah, thanks for listening. Share this out with your friends, your family, your loved ones, shit, people you hate. You know? Give them a laugh.
You know? Who knows? Y'all might become friends one day because of it. And if you do, by god, I'm damn proud to do this. And I know dude and Brian feel the same way. So Absolutely. That's all I got there. So, dude, what you got? You still awake?
[02:38:49] Unknown:
Yeah. I'm still awake. Okay. As Rich mentioned before, thank you for everybody that does continue to listen to us. And, you know, please send us an email on any topics that you would like us to discuss and or to destroy through our conversations just to see how far we'll go down a rabbit hole. But, again, we'd love to hear from you and get your opinions and get your comments to help us, you know, do better ourselves as what you think, you know, what type of show that you would like to have. And, we can, you know, definitely answer your questions. May not be the right answer, maybe the right answer,
[02:39:42] Rich Chelson:
but you'll just never know. But it will be the right answer. It will be an answer. That's the important part.
[02:39:48] Unknown:
It'll be an answer.
[02:39:52] Bryan Goodwin:
So so anyhow, with that, guys, I wanna say thank you all again for coming on to the show and, and sitting down and seeing what what what weird topics happen to crop up, and and and y'all throwing y'all's y'all's 2¢ in. And so we can actually come up with 6 pennies, and it it's it's kind of a, kind of a nice deal. I appreciate the relationship relationship and the friendship that y'all have, and we will, I'm looking forward to to next week. So, guys, and everybody listening, thank y'all again. Y'all take care. Talk to y'all later. Bye.
Peace. Peace out.
[02:40:32] Rich Chelson:
Alright, guys. Later. Later. Later. Have a good one. Later.
[02:40:36] Bryan Goodwin:
Bye. Bye.
Introduction and Catching Up
Internet and Phone Service Changes
Discussion on Charlie Kirk Incident
Government and Economic Commentary
Dog Stories and Personal Anecdotes
Family Drama and Relationships
Entertainment and Cult Classics
Home Improvements and Personal Updates
Health and Aging Concerns
Closing Remarks and Listener Appreciation